Zamkati
- Langizo 1: Nonse muyenera kukhala otomerana
- Langizo 2: Tengani udindo pazomwe mwachita
- Mfundo 3: Phunzirani kumvetsera mwatcheru
- Langizo 4: Osadzikuza kwambiri
- Langizo 5: Sungani zokambirana zovuta
- Langizo 6: Siyani zakale m'mbuyomu
- Langizo 7: Musayembekezere kuti mlangizi akuuzeni zoyenera kuchita
Ngati inu ndi mnzanu mwaganiza zopita kukalandira upangiri waukwati, mwina mukuyembekeza kuti zinthu zisinthe paubwenzi wanu.
Pali zingapo zinthu zomwe mungachite kuti mupindule kwambiri ndi upangiri wanu. Asanu ndi awiri mwa malangizo othandiza apabanja awa ndi awa:
Langizo 1: Nonse muyenera kukhala otomerana
Ngati m'modzi kapena nonse mwawonetsetsa momwe akumvera ndipo sakufuna kutenga nawo mbali pamavuto anu, upangiriwo ulibe phindu.
Kupita kukalandira upangiri waukwati ndi gawo lodzifunira lomwe mungachite, ndipo ngati mulipo mosafuna, kuti muchepetse mnzanu, ndiye kuti simungakhale ndi zotsatira zabwino.
Kuti mupititse patsogolo kulumikizana kwanu mutha kuyesetsa kukhala achifundo komanso kumvetsera mwachidwi.
Popanda kutengeka, ubale uliwonse ukhoza kutha pakapita nthawi. Komabe, pali njira zambiri zolumikizirana ndi mnzanu.
Ndipo mlangizi woyenera wamaukwati angakuthandizeni kukwaniritsa izi.
Langizo 2: Tengani udindo pazomwe mwachita
Zachidziwikire, mlangizi wanu adzakhala womvetsetsa komanso wachifundo, koma cholinga chawo chachikulu ndikukuthandizani kugwira ntchito molimbika kuti muthane ndi banja lanu.
Simukufuna kukhala pachibwenzi pomwe wina amakhala akuyang'ana pansi ndikumvera chisoni wina. Ndizomveka kuvomereza zolakwa zanu ndikupempha thandizo kwa mnzanu.
Mfundo 3: Phunzirani kumvetsera mwatcheru
Ngakhale uphungu ndi mwayi wanu wolankhula ndikumvedwa, nkofunikanso kumvetsera ndikumva zomwe mnzanu akugawana, mwina koyamba.
Nthawi zina bwenzi limodzi limazolowera kulankhulana, ndipo akafika pakulangizidwa akhoza kudabwa kumva wokondedwa wawo akufotokoza zakukhosi kwawo komwe sanakhalepo omasuka kugawana kale.
Kumvetsera mwatcheru ndikofunikira paubwenzi uliwonse. Kufunsa mafunso, kubwereranso kuti mutsimikizire ngati mwamumvetsetsa bwino mnzakeyo kungakuthandizeni inu ndi mnzanu kukonza kulumikizana kwanu.
Kumvetsera mwatcheru pazokambirana ndi wokondedwa wanu ndi imodzi mwamaupangiri abwino opangira mabanja. Osati kokha Kumvetsera mwachidwi kumakuthandizani kuti muchepetse vuto, itha kukuthandizaninso kuthana ndi zovuta kukhala magwiridwe antchito.
Langizo 4: Osadzikuza kwambiri
Aliyense amalakwitsa, choncho ndi bwino kuvomereza. Landirani udindo ndikuwona momwe mungaphunzirire pazomwe mudakumana nazo kuti musinthe mtsogolo.
Komanso, samalani kuti musadzipweteke chifukwa cha zolakwa zomwe mwapanga chifukwa izi zitha kuwonjezera kupsinjika kwa inu komanso ubale wanu.
Pulogalamu ya Udindo wazolakwa muubwenzi ndikukulimbikitsani kupanga zisankho zosiyanasiyana nthawi yotsatira komanso ndi cholinga chosiya kudzidzudzula mutatha kukonza.
Upangiri wina wabwino kwambiri wokhudzaukwati umangokhudza kudzimvera chisoni muukwati wanu.
Aliyense amalakwitsa ndipo muyenera dzipatseni nokha kumvetsetsa kofanana ndi chifundo chomwe mungapereke kwa mnzanu.
Langizo 5: Sungani zokambirana zovuta
Mukapita kwa mlangizi ku kambiranani ndi kuthetsa mavuto anu, mumapatsidwa nsanja momwe inu ndi mnzanu mumatha kufotokozera zakukhosi kwanu pamalo otetezeka.
Kukambirana momwe mumamvera panthawi yamankhwala kumatha kukulitsa mkangano nthawi zina ndipo kumatha kukhala mkangano pakati pa inu ndi mnzanu.
Ngakhale kukangana sikuyenera kukhala njira yabwino yolankhulirana ndi mnzanu, a mkangano pakati pa awiri umathandiza mlangizi kuti awone zomwe zikuchitika pakati pa nonsenu, ndi kukuthandizani kumvetsetsa bwino malingaliro a wina ndi mnzake.
Langizo 6: Siyani zakale m'mbuyomu
Ngati china chake chidachitika zaka zambiri zapitazo, osabweretsa pano. M'malo mwake gwiritsitsani mutuwo. Mbali yofunikira muukwati uliwonse ndikukhoza kukhululukirana ndikupitiliza.
Mlangizi aliyense wazokwatirana angakupatseni upangiri waukwati womwe ungakulimbikitseni kuti mukweze chipete ngati chatenga nthawi yayitali. Kuti mukulitse tsogolo la banja lanu muyenera kuyang'ana kwambiri pakadali pano ndipo osakhudzidwa ndi zochitika zam'mbuyomu.
Ngati nthawi yayitali yatha ndipo mwapanga mtendere ndi nkhaniyi, tsopano muyenera ganizirani zomwe zachitika ndikuyesetsa kuzithetsa kuti apange banja losangalala komanso lolimba.
Langizo 7: Musayembekezere kuti mlangizi akuuzeni zoyenera kuchita
Mlangizi sangakupatseni mayankho onse kapena ndikuuzeni zoyenera kuchita. Palibe amene angakuchitireni izi. Udindo wa mlangizi umakupatsirani chiwonetsero chazomwe mukukumana nazo ndikuthandizani kuti mupeze njira zopezera tsogolo labanja lanu.
Chotsatira chomaliza cha upangiri wa maanja anu chimatsimikiziridwa ndi inu, ngakhale othandizira anu adzagawana malingaliro awo pakukula kwanu.
Wothandizira ndi munthu yemwe amawona ubale wanu komanso kumakuthandizani kuthetsa mavuto anu m'banja.
Inu ndi mnzanu muyenera kuchita ntchito zolemetsazo powonetsa, kulumikizana, komanso kutenga nawo mbali popereka upangiri.
Uphungu ndi njira imodzi yodziwonetsera inu nokha ndi ubale wanu ndi phungu ndi munthu amene amabweretsa galasi kwa inu. Momwe mukufuna kuwonera zili ndi inu.