Zamkati
- 1. Mnzako akuwonetsa nsanje yosayenera
- 2. Wokondedwa wanu satenga "Ayi" kuti ayankhe
- 3. Wokondedwa wanu amachita manyazi kukhala nanu
- 4. Mnzako akukuopseza
- 5. Mumasungidwa kunja kwa "bwalo"
- 6. Mumadzikayikira
- 7. Omwe akukuzunza akuponyerani zokonda zotsika mtengo
- 8. Kudzudzula kowononga ndi mawu achipongwe
- 9. Kusalemekeza
- 10. Kuzunza
- 11. Nkhanza zogonana
- 12. Nkhanza zathupi
- 13. Kukana
- 14. Kulephera kukhulupirira wokondedwa wanu
- 15. Mumamva kukhala pachiwopsezo
Monga tafotokozera kale, anthu sangathe kukhala bwino pakudzipatula kwa malingaliro, thupi, moyo, ndi mzimu. Tiyenera nthawi zonse kuchita chibwenzi chimodzi kapena chimzake. Chifukwa chake kuchita ubale wabwino ndi gawo lofunikira m'moyo wokhutira. Ubale umalimbikitsa miyoyo yathu ndikuwonjezera kusangalala kwathu kukhala amoyo, koma tonse tikudziwa kuti palibe ubale wabwino. Amayenera kukhala okwera ndi otsika muubwenzi, mikangano ndi kusagwirizana ndizosapeweka.
Komabe, anthu amapangidwa kuti azitha kuyanjana ndi ena m'njira yabwino komanso yolimbikitsa. Koma, ndizachisoni kuti izi sizili choncho nthawi zonse chifukwa pali maubwenzi oyipa komanso ozunza. Maubwenzi ozunzawa amabweretsa mavuto, ndipo nthawi zina amawononga malingaliro anu, mzimu wanu, malingaliro anu, ndi thupi lanu. Amayenera kukhala okwera ndi otsika muubwenzi koma mikangano ndi kusagwirizana sikuyenera kuchititsa nkhanza zilizonse.
Pansipa pali zikwangwani kapena mbendera zofiira zomwe zikuwonetseni kuti muli pachibwenzi:
1. Mnzako akuwonetsa nsanje yosayenera
Muyenera kudziwa kuti muli pachibwenzi pomwe mnzanu sakuchitira nsanje pazomwe mumachita, momwe mumachitira komanso omwe mumacheza nawo. Wokondedwa wanu akhoza kuwonetsa kukwiya mukamacheza ndi anthu ena kapena zinthu zina - kunja kwa chibwenzi.
2. Wokondedwa wanu satenga "Ayi" kuti ayankhe
Wokondedwa wanu amatenga 'ayi' ngati chiyambi chokambirana kosatha, osati kumapeto kwa zokambirana. Amakana kumva inu mukunyalanyaza malingaliro ake ndi zisankho zake. Potsirizira pake, pafupifupi chilichonse chomwe mumachita chomwe sichimamupangitsa kuti azimva kuyang'anira chimadzetsa chidani.
3. Wokondedwa wanu amachita manyazi kukhala nanu
Nthawi zonse mukakhala ndi mnzanu wozunza, nthawi zonse amakhala wamanyazi komanso wamanyazi kuti anthu amakuwonani nonse limodzi chifukwa cha nkhanza zake.
4. Mnzako akukuopseza
Omwe amachitira anzawo nkhanza nthawi zonse amafuna ndipo amafuna kuti azilamulira. Kugwiritsa ntchito ulamuliro ndi mphamvu ndiyo njira yolamulirira. Njira yopezera mphamvu ndikugwiritsa ntchito chiwopsezo ndi chisonkhezero chosayenera kuti ndikuwongolereni
5. Mumasungidwa kunja kwa "bwalo"
Muli pachibwenzi chozunza ngati mnzanu sangakusankheni mumtima mwawo, chifuniro chawo chokha komanso kuvomerezedwa kwawo, nawonso akuchotsani kuzinthu zawo. Mumakhala mlendo pazochita za mnzanu.
6. Mumadzikayikira
Mnzanuyo amakunamizani mwadala kuti akusokonezeni ndikupangitsani kukayikira malingaliro anu. Omwe amachitira anzawo nkhanza amakupangitsani kukayikira zolemba zawo, zomvekera, kukumbukira kwawo, komanso ukhondo wawo. Nthawi zina amakangana ndi kukutopetsani mpaka mutasiya kukhulupirira zomwe mukudziwa kuti ndi zoona.
7. Omwe akukuzunza akuponyerani zokonda zotsika mtengo
Ochitira nkhanza ambiri amapereka zinyenyeswazi za chikondi kapena kuvomerezedwa kapena kuyamikiridwa kapena kukugulirani mphatso kuti akupatseni mphamvu kapena pansi pa chala chawo.
8. Kudzudzula kowononga ndi mawu achipongwe
Muli pachibwenzi chomuzunza mukaona mnzanu akukuwa, akukuwa, akukunyozani, kukunenezani kapena kukuwopsezani. Muyenera kuyesetsa momwe mungathere kuti muchoke muubwenzi wankhanza, atha kukuwonongani!
9. Kusalemekeza
Ndi chenjezo loti muzichita zibwenzi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu atakulemekezani. Amakunyozani ngakhale pagulu. Amasangalala kukuikani pansi pamaso pa anthu ena; osamvetsera kapena kuyankha mukamayankhula; kusokoneza mafoni anu; kukana kuthandiza.
10. Kuzunza
Mnzanu amene amakuzunzani amakuzunzani munjira iliyonse. Amayang'anira mafoni anu, omwe mumatuluka nawo, omwe mumawona. Amayesetsa kuti azilamulira moyo wanu.
11. Nkhanza zogonana
Mnzanu yemwe akukuzunzani amagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu, kukuwopsezani kapena kukuwopsezani kuti mugonane; kugonana nanu pamene simukufuna kugonana. Amayesetsa kukuopsezerani kuti mugonane nawo. Amatha kukugwirirani.
12. Nkhanza zathupi
Ngati munganyalanyaze malingaliro a mnzanuyo ndipo iye atha kukhomerera; kumenya mbama; kugunda; kuluma; kutsina; kukankha; kutulutsa tsitsi; kukankhira; kukankha; kuwotcha; kapena kukukolowola, choka mu chibwenzicho, ndi nkhanza!
13. Kukana
Mnzanu yemwe amamuzunza amakana zomwe akuchita. Wokondedwa wanu samatenga udindo pazomwe amachita. Wokondedwa wanu akunena kuti nkhanza sizichitika; kunena kuti mwayambitsa nkhanza.
14. Kulephera kukhulupirira wokondedwa wanu
Ndi chizindikiro chodziwikiratu cha ubale wozunza ngati mnzanu ali wosadalirika. Ngati simungathe kusunga mnzanu chifukwa cha mawu ake chifukwa chabodza, kuphwanya malonjezo, ndiye kuti muli pachibwenzi.
15. Mumamva kukhala pachiwopsezo
Mukakhala opanda ufulu wofotokozera zakukhosi kwanu, mukamva kuti thupi lanu, mzimu wanu, ndi moyo wanu zili pachiwopsezo chovulazidwa, ndichizindikiro kuti mukuchita chibwenzi.