Zamkati
- Kodi tanthauzo la mawu oti, "Ghosted 'ndi chiyani?
- Chifukwa chiyani anthu amangomvana kwambiri popanda kufotokozera?
- 1. Kuzindikira
- 2. Khalani achifundo kwa inu nokha, ndi kumva chisoni
- 3. Dzisamalire - thupi ndi maganizo
- 4. Muzikhululuka ndi kuzisiya
Kuyambira zaka khumi zapitazi, pakhala pali kuwuka kwakukulu kwa anthu mizimu wina ndi mnzake, makamaka chifukwa ndizosavuta kuchita. Izi makamaka chifukwa cha momwe, masiku ano, kulumikizirana kumachitika makamaka pa intaneti.
Pali magawo angapo ampweya wina. Kuchokera kwa anthu wamba mpaka otchuka angapo akuwanamiziranso kuti amapatsa zibwenzi anzawo, ndipo a Matt Damon amatsogola pamndandanda.
Anathetsa chibwenzi chake kudzera pa meseji ndipo sanayankhe aliwonse omwe ali munthawi ya bwenzi lake lakale lija.
Zingakhale zophweka kwa amene akuchita izi. Komabe, zomwezo sizinganenedwenso kwa amene akupatsidwa mzimu.
Anthu amafuna kutsekedwa kwina.
A kupatukana nkhope ndi nkhope kumapereka mnzake mnzake mwayi wolira, kufuula, kuimba mlandu, funsani mafunso (ngakhale sangayankhidwe), ndipo basi zilekeni zonse - mwayi wotsanzikana komaliza. Kukhala ndi zibwenzi muubwenzi kumatha kusokoneza munthu, makamaka munthu amene amadzidalira, poyamba.
Kodi tanthauzo la mawu oti, "Ghosted 'ndi chiyani?
Mawu oti, Ghosting amatanthauza kuti mwina mnzanu kapena chidwi cha chikondi chakusiyanikunja kwa buluu, popanda zifukwa zilizonse kapena mafotokozedwe. Adula ubale ndi njira zonse zolumikizirana popanda chenjezo kapena chifukwa chomveka.
Chifukwa chiyani anthu amangomvana kwambiri popanda kufotokozera?
Palibe amene ali wangwiro. Anthu omwe amapatsa anzawo mzimu ali ndi nkhawa zawo. Mwa kupatsa moni ena, akufuna kuchepetsa kufunikira kwawo kuti azipezeka pamtima kuti athe kupezeka kwa ena.
Ponena za kutha kwa banja, munthu ayenera kukhala wokoma mtima, wachifundo, wowonera, wofatsa, nthawi yonseyi kuyesera kuti afotokozere zomwe akunenazo. Chifukwa chake, mwina, safuna kupyola mkangano wonse, misozi, ndipo safuna kuwona wokondedwa wawo yemwe akumva chisoni.
Komabe mwazonse, kulekana ndi munthu wina imafuna a khama komanso mphamvu zambiri komanso. Ndipo chifukwa chakuti mwakhala gawo lofunikira kwambiri pamoyo wa anzanu ena, ndiudindo wanu kuwathandiza kuthana ndi vutoli. Komabe, anthu angapo, anthu omwe amakonda mzimu, ali ndi lingaliro, kuti ngati akutha ndi wina, ndiye kuti safunika kapena kuyesetsa kwambiri - apa ndiye kuti akulakwitsa.
Zidalira kwa inu momwe mungachitire ndi mzimu, udzawononga ndipo ikudye, kapena mungalimbane ndikuwukanso?
Kodi mungatani kuti muthane ndi mzukwa?
1. Kuzindikira
Kukhala mzukwa pachibwenzi si kapu ya munthu aliyense. Yemwe ali mzukwa nthawi zambiri safuna kumvera chifukwa chilichonse; komabe, zopanda pake momwe zingamvekere, sitepe yoyamba ndiyo kuthetsa kukana kwanu.
Kukana kungabwere m'njira zosiyanasiyana.
Mutha kuganiza kuti tsopano ndinu wokondedwa ndi inu, kapena sanakukondeni inu pomwepo. Mfundo apa ndikuti amakukondani, ngakhale kwa kanthawi. Mudagawana china chokongola, ndipo monga zinthu zonse zabwino ayenera kutha, nkhani yanu inali ya kanthawi kochepa, ndipo sizitanthauza kuti sizinachitike.
Kapenanso kuganiza kuti wokondedwa wanu amakondanabe koma sanazindikirebe mpaka pano. Palibe imodzi mwamisewu iyi yomwe ingakuthandizeni kuti mutseke ndikupita patsogolo.
2. Khalani achifundo kwa inu nokha, ndi kumva chisoni
Monga momwe wokondedwa amwalira, wina amamva chisoni ndi imfa yawo.
Nthawi yolira maliro imatithandiza kupitiliza. Ngakhale sadzaiwalika, komabe, kulirako kumatithandiza kupyola pamwambo. Momwemonso, mukamakumana ndi kutha kwa banja, makamaka komwe simunapatse kutsekedwa, zili ndi inu kuti mudzikhala okoma nokha ndikupatsa mtima wanu nthawi yokwanira kulira.
Osadzipweteka nokha ndikudziuza kuti mukadadziwa kapena "mukuziwona zikubwera." Palibe amene anganeneretu zamtsogolo. Zomwe zikuyenera kuchitika ziyenera kuchitika, ndipo palibe amene angasinthe.
3. Dzisamalire - thupi ndi maganizo
M'masiku athu ano, palibe amene adzadzivutitse mokwanira kubwera kudzakusamalirani. Ngakhale zitakupweteketsani motani, ngakhale zitakhala zovuta bwanji, ngakhale mutagonjetsedwa motani, ndiudindo wanu kuyimiranso.
Ndi inu nokha amene mungadzikonde nokha kuti mudzilimbikitse kotero kuti palibe amene angakupweteketseni. Kukhala mzukwa pachibwenzi sikuyenera kukuchotsani.
Chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri kuti mudzisamalire ndichoti musanakondane ndi wina, muyenera kudzikonda nokha.
4. Muzikhululuka ndi kuzisiya
Ngakhale wokondedwa wanu atatuluka mwamantha, yesetsani kumvetsetsa malingaliro awo. Kupatula apo, amakudziwani bwino komanso ubale wanu.
Mudakhala nthawi yayitali limodzi, ndipo mwina amachita zomwe akuwona kuti ndizabwino. Ngati angaganize kuti kukupatsirani mzimu wabwino kwambiri ndi momwe angachitire, poganizira momwe zinthu ziliri pamoyo wawo, ndiye kuti mungawaimbe mlandu?
Kupitilira kukhala mzukwa pachibwenzi ndikutalika.
Komabe, pambuyo pa zonse, zikunenedwa ndi kuchitidwa, mutatha kulira maliro anu, imani ndi vuto lamasewera. Palibe buku lililonse lamalangizo momwe mungachitire ndi mzimu?
Pamapeto pa tsikulo, zidzangokuvulazani komanso kukulepheretsani kupita patsogolo.