Zamkati
- Zovuta
- Onse awiri akapeza gawoli nthawi imodzi
- Ndalama zowonjezerapo zamankhwala
- Nthawi zina maola 24 amaoneka ochepera nonsenu
- Malangizo ndi zidule kuti mukhalebe ndi ubale wabwino
- Lumikizanani, dziwitsani mnzanu zomwe mukumva
- Pangani zikwangwani ndi mawu otetezeka kuti muzilankhulana
Muubwenzi chinthu chomaliza chomwe mungafune ndi matenda amisala. Nthawi zambiri, timanyalanyaza thanzi la mnzathu. Timayang'ana chuma chonse komanso mawonekedwe akuthupi.
Kukhala ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi matenda amisala pakufunika kuti nonse mugwire ntchito kwambiri paubwenzi wanu. Komabe, bwanji ngati onse awiri ali ndi matenda amisala?
Mphamvu zonse zakubwenzi zimasinthika pakakhala izi.
Nonse muyenera kuthandizana wina ndi mnzake ndipo muyenera kuthana ndi matenda amisala a wina ndi mnzake. Khama ndi kudzipereka kumabwereza kawiri mukadzapeza matenda amisala. Chifukwa chake, tikubweretserani zovuta ndi malangizo omwe nonse muyenera kudziwa.
Zovuta
Nthawi zambiri timanyalanyaza matenda amisala komanso zovuta zomwe zimabweretsa muubwenzi.
Koma kuti onse awiri azidwala matenda amisala, zonse zimawonjezera: kufunika kodziwa kumvetsetsa komanso zovuta.
Onse awiri akapeza gawoli nthawi imodzi
Moona mtima, palibe amene angadziwire nthawi komanso zomwe zingayambitse kusokonezeka kwamaganizidwe. Pakati pa maanja ena, pomwe m'modzi mwa iwo ali ndi matenda amisala, zinthu ndizosiyana. Ngakhale zitakhala bwanji, padzakhala munthu wodekha komanso wodekha komanso wodziwa kuthana ndi vutolo.
Komabe, onse akamadwala matenda amisala, nthawi zina munthu amakhala wodekha chifukwa cha vutolo. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kuti mumvetsetse bwino ndondomekoyi ndikusunga kayendedwe kake.
Kuzungulira kumeneku kumakhala kopitilira pamene wina akupita kuwonongeka wina amakhala nazo zonse moyenera ndikusunga ubale wawo kuti usasokonezeke. Izi sizingatheke nthawi yomweyo kuti mulowe mu njirayi koma ngati nonse muli ofunitsitsa kuyesa, ndiye kuti mungapeze njira yotulukiramo.
Ndalama zowonjezerapo zamankhwala
Matenda amisala amafunika nthawi kuti achiritse.
Poganizira momwe mitengoyo ikudulira, pomwe onse awiri ali ndi matenda amisala ndalama zachipatala zitha kukulira mwachangu kuposa momwe amayembekezera.
Kulemetsa kowonjezeraku kosungitsa ngongole zachipatala za onse awiriwa zitha kuwoneka zoyipa pamalipiro apanyumba koma ngati mukufuna kupitiriza chibwenzicho muyenera kupeza njira yoti muthe. Mutha kuyika patsogolo zomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito ndikuyang'ana zomwe zili zofunika.
Komanso, yesetsani kusunga ndalama pambali pazomwe mumakonda. Kupatula apo, simukufuna kupanga matenda anu amisala kukhala woipa m'moyo wanu wangwiro.
Nthawi zina maola 24 amaoneka ochepera nonsenu
Mukamayesetsa kugwira chilichonse ndikufuna kuti zinthu zizigwira bwino ntchito, mutha kudzipeza muli m'malo omwe ngakhale maola 24 azikhala ochepa kwa nonse.
Izi nthawi zambiri zimachitika kwa maanja ena omwe nthawi zina amapeza kuti palibe chikondi pakati pawo. Komabe, ngati nonse muli ofunitsitsa kuthana ndi vutoli, pali njira yochitira.
Lumikizani zochitika zanu zolimbitsa thupi palimodzi. Yesetsani kusangalala ndi mphindi zazing'ono zomwe mumapeza m'maola 24 amenewo.
Izi zithandizira kuti nonse mukhale chete.
Malangizo ndi zidule kuti mukhalebe ndi ubale wabwino
Wanzeru wina nthawi ina adati, 'Pali yankho pamavuto onse, zomwe mukusowa ndi kufunitsitsa kuti muwone.' Ngakhale onse awiri ali ndi matenda amisala ndipo atha kukhala ndi zovuta zina m'banja lawo, pali malangizo omwe angakuthandizeninso kukhala ndi ubale wabwino.
Lumikizanani, dziwitsani mnzanu zomwe mukumva
Chinthu chimodzi chomwe chimawononga ubale uliwonse, kapena wopanda matenda amisala, sikumayankhulana. Kulankhulana ndichinsinsi chakuchita bwino. Ngakhale wothandizira wanu angakulimbikitseni kuti mutsegule kwa mnzanu mukakhala ndi vuto lamaganizidwe.
Lumikizanani, dziwitsani mnzanu zomwe mukumva komanso momwe mukumvera zingachepetse vutoli ndi theka.
Izi, pambali, zimalimbitsa kudalirana ndi kuwona mtima, zomwe ndizofunikira kwambiri kuubwenzi wolimba komanso wokhalitsa. Chifukwa chake, ngati mukukhala ndi tsiku loipa, lankhulani.
Lankhulani ndi mnzanu, afotokozereni. Komanso ngati mukuganiza kuti mnzanu sakufotokozera za izi, funsani mafunso.
Pangani zikwangwani ndi mawu otetezeka kuti muzilankhulana
Zitha kuchitika kuti m'modzi wa inu safuna kuyankhulana konse.
Zikatero kukhala ndi chizindikiro chakuthupi kapena mawu otetezeka atha kugwiritsidwa ntchito kudziwitsa ena za momwe akumvera.
Izi zidzakuthandizani ngati m'modzi wa inu azunzika kwambiri kapena sangathe kufotokoza momwe akumvera m'mawu. Izi zitha kupewanso mikangano yakuthupi panthawi yamaganizidwe.
Bwererani nthawi iliyonse ndikupatsani mnzanu malo oti achire
Inde, ndikofunikira kuti muyimirire ndi wokondedwa wanu pazabwino komanso zoyipa, koma izi siziyenera kutanthauza kuti mukulowa m'malo awo kuti achire.
Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, muyenera kuganizira za zikwangwani ndi mawu otetezeka omwe angagwiritse ntchito mukafuna malo oti muchiritse. Kuphatikiza apo, winayo azibwerera m'mbuyo ndikupereka malo oyenera. Kumvetsetsana kumeneku ndi komwe kumalimbitsa ubale wanu.