Zamkati
- Kodi munthu m'modzi m'banja la anthu awiri atha kusintha ubale wawo?
- Mukuganiza ngati kudzipereka kwa mnzanu kunali kulakwitsa
- Kupangitsa banja kusintha
- Kuyankhula ndi khoma la njerwa
- Kuzindikira kusokonekera muukwati
- Ikani zazing'ono zomwe mumakonda
- Nanga vuto linali chiyani?
- Kusintha ukwati
- M'banja lililonse, payenera kukhala mtsogoleri wololera kugwira ntchito molimbika
- 1. Kupanga zisankho
- 2. Sungani mbiri yanu
- 3. Dzisangalatseni
- 4. Muzipepesa
- Ngati wokondedwa wanu akumuzunza kwambiri, kapena tulukani, tulukani tsopano
- Kuchita ndi munthu amene ali ndi vuto lokhalitsa? GTulukani tsopano
Pali maukwati ambiri omwe ali osavomerezeka komanso opanda thanzi ndiye pali maukwati omwe akutukuka m'magulu amasiku ano.
Zifukwa zake ndizochulukirapo, koma zowona ndizoti anthu ambiri pakadali pano, powerenga nkhaniyi, sakukondwera ndi wokondedwa wawo ndipo ali ndi funso loti, ngati munthu m'modzi atha kupulumutsa ukwati?
Kodi munthu m'modzi m'banja la anthu awiri atha kusintha ubale wawo?
Kwa zaka 28 zapitazi, wolemba, wogulitsa komanso wophunzitsa ambiri wogulitsa kwambiri David Essel wakhala akuthandiza anthu mdziko la zibwenzi ndi maukwati kuti apange zisankho zabwino kwambiri, kuti asinthe maubwenziwo kuti akhale opanda ntchito, kenako kukula bwino.
Pansipa, David amalankhula za zida zomwe amagwiritsa ntchito kuthandiza mabanja omwe ali ndi mavuto m'banja kuti asinthe, kamodzi kwamuyaya.
“Zaka zingapo zapitazo, kasitomala watsopano wochokera ku Europe adandiuza chifukwa ukwati wake unali pamavuto.
Mukuganiza ngati kudzipereka kwa mnzanu kunali kulakwitsa
Adakhala limodzi pafupifupi zaka 20, adachoka ku US kupita ku Europe kukagwira ntchito, ndipo tsopano amadzifunsa ngati alakwitsa kudzipereka kwa mkazi wake kwa moyo wake wonse.
Sipanatenge nthawi kuchokera pomwe tidayamba kugwira ntchito limodzi, pomwe ndidawona zomwe amalankhula zinali zowona: anali ndi maukwati ovuta omwe sanawonepo ndipo sanaganize kuti angatembenuke.
Mkazi wake sanafune kanthu kalikonse kokhudzana ndi uphungu, samaganiza kuti zingakhale zothandiza konse.
Chifukwa chake adabwera kwa ine kudzera pa Skype nati akufuna kuti ndimuthandize kusankha ngati chibwenzicho chinali choyenera kukhalamo.
Kupangitsa banja kusintha
Nditamudziwa bwino, komanso ubale wake, ndidamupatsa yankho lomwe ndimaganiza kuti lingasinthe ukwati, kapena ngati sichingachitike kapena kupilira pakadali pano.
Ndipo yankho? Amayenera kusiya kulondola.
Tsopano musanamwetulire, ndipo ganizirani za amuna anu ndikudziuza mumtima mwanu kuti "akuyenera kuchita zomwezo", zikadakhala kuti mayi amabwera kwa ine ndikadanenanso zomwezo kwa iye ... Zili ndi inu kuti mutembenuke .
Chifukwa chiyani?
Chifukwa munthu amene akubwera kwa ine kudzakuthandizani ndi yekhayo amene angathe kutembenuka. Kulingalira bwino?
Kuyankhula ndi khoma la njerwa
Ndiye ngati ndinganene kwa iye panthawiyo, nazi malangizo zomwe mkazi wanu angachite kuti athandize ukwatiwo, mukuganiza kuti amamumvera?
Inde sichoncho. Nthawi iliyonse yomwe timalangiza mnzathu zomwe ayenera kuchita, zimakhala ngati timalankhula ndi khoma la njerwa nthawi zambiri.
Chifukwa chake ndidamupatsa zovuta. Ndinamuuza kuti kwa masiku 90 otsatira, ndikufuna kuti alole mkazi wake kuti akhale wolondola. Palibe mafunso ofunsidwa pokhapokha ngati atasankha kapena kufa.
Kuzindikira kusokonekera muukwati
Koma pambali pa chisankho cha moyo kapena imfa, ndimafuna kuti akhale odzichepetsa, osatetezeka, ndikusiya kukangana pazinthu zomwe sitiyenera kuzimenya.
Ndipo ngati muli muukwati wosagwira pakadali pano, ngati mutayang'ana pagalasi, mukudziwa momwe izi ziliri zovuta kwambiri mukakhala ndi mkwiyo kuyambira m'mbuyomu, pano, ndipo mwina mukuganiziranso za mkwiyo womwe muli nawo mudzakhala nazo mtsogolo ... Mukudziwa momwe zimakhalira zovuta kubwerera mmbuyo, kupuma mwamphamvu, ndikulola mnzanuyo kuti akhale wolondola, kuti akhale wolondola.
Ikani zazing'ono zomwe mumakonda
Zimatengera kuyeserera kwa Herculean koyambirira, kusiya zomwe mungachite ndikulola mnzanu, ndi zofuna zawo, kuti akwaniritse momwe angafunire.
Limodzi mwa madera omwe anali akumenyera posachedwa, anali kuyeretsa mkati mwa nyumba yawo. Adaganiza zothandizana ntchitoyi m'malo mongolemba anthu ntchito kunja chifukwa onse amakonda kukonzanso mkati.
Nanga vuto linali chiyani?
Amamupempha kuti atenge zitseko pamchenga mpaka mchenga asanajambule, koma iye adakana.
Kodi sizikumveka ngati chinthu chachikulu sichoncho? Mpaka mutazindikira, kuti pasanathe mphindi 15 kuchokera pomwe amamuuza kuti adzamukhomera pakhomo mosiyanasiyana, adalowa nkhondo yayikulu.
Kusintha ukwati
Amadziwa kuti njira yake ndiyabwino, ndipo anali wotsimikiza kuti njira yake ndiyabwino.
Chifukwa anali ndi mipata yambiri mkati mwanyumba yosinthira zomwe akuyenera kupanga, ndidamuuza kuti ali ndi mwayi wambiri wosintha ukwati, ngati angomulola kuti akhale wolondola, tsatirani kutsogolera kwake, ndipo tiwone ico cikacitika.
Pakadutsa milungu isanu ndi umodzi ubale udasinthidwa kwathunthu!
Sizodabwitsa? Anthu ena amazitcha zozizwitsa, koma ndimangonena kuti ndikutaya zazing'onozo kuti nditeteze ubalewo.
Anali ndi mabampu angapo mumsewu, koma palibe chowopsa ngati chomwe adakumana nacho m'mbuyomu.
M'banja lililonse, payenera kukhala mtsogoleri wololera kugwira ntchito molimbika
Monga ndikuwuza makasitomala anga onse, m'banja lililonse kapena ubale uliwonse payenera kukhala mtsogoleri, wina amene ali wofunitsitsa kugwira ntchito molimbika, ndipo ngati m'modzi mwa anthuwo atenga udindo wa mtsogoleri, ndipo panthawiyi kulimbikira kuloleza wokondedwa wanu kuti akhale wolondola, nthawi zambiri mnzakeyo ayambanso kusiya kukhala omasuka komanso otetezeka.
Ndipo ndizo zomwe zidachitika ndi ukwatiwu.
Ngati muli pachibwenzi, tsatirani mfundo zochepa izi
1. Kupanga zisankho
Pangani chisankho kuyambira lero, lembani kalendala yanu, kuti masiku 90 otsatira mulola kuti mnzanuyo akhale wolondola. Palibe mafunso ofunsidwa pokhapokha ngati mutakhala moyo kapena imfa mudzangochoka panjira ndikuchita zinthu momwe akukufunsirani.
2. Sungani mbiri yanu
Madzulo aliwonse mumakhala ndi zolemba zamomwe mumakhalira. Kodi munakankhira kumbuyo konse? Kodi munayamba kukangana kenako n'kuzindikira kuti pakadutsa maola angapo kuti mukadapewa kungonena kuti "inde"?
3. Dzisangalatseni
Dzipatseni nokha asanu, masiku omwe mudzakwaniritse ntchito imodziyi.
4. Muzipepesa
Mukazembera? Pepani msanga, ingomuuza mnzanuyo kuti mwalakwitsa, kuti mukadakhala kuti mwachita chilichonse chomwe akufuna, ndikupepesa.
Osangopanga kanthu kena, koma ingopepesani nthawi yomweyo.
Anthu ena ndikapanga malangizowa mobwerezabwereza, palibe njira yomwe angawalole wokondedwa wawo kuti akhale wolondola.
Ndipo ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi malingaliro amtunduwu, ingopitirani ndikulemba mapepala osudzulana lero. Osataya nthawi yanu. Osataya nthawi yanu pakulangizidwa, ngati simulandila upangiri wa munthu amene wakhala akugwira ntchitoyi kwanthawi yayitali.
Koma ngati muli otseguka kuti muwone momwe maubwenzi angatetezere, ndiye kuti mwamtheradi chitani zomwe ndikupangira apa.
Koma monga nthawi zonse, pali mapanga ochepa:
Ngati wokondedwa wanu akumuzunza kwambiri, kapena tulukani, tulukani tsopano
Ngakhale zitakhala kuti mumasiyana masiku 90 ndikukhala m'nyumba zosiyana, tulukani mwachangu momwe mungathere.
Kuchita ndi munthu amene ali ndi vuto lokhalitsa? GTulukani tsopano
Siyani kulola. Siyani kuyembekezera tsogolo labwino, pomwe chizolowezi chawo sichitha kuwongolera.
Yankho? Apanso, patulani masiku osachepera 90, ndipo adziwitseni kuti ngati sangathe kuthetsa chizolowezi chawo m'masiku 90 azikhala akulekanitsa kenako ndikupereka chisudzulo.
Sindimangosewerera ndi nkhanza zakuthupi kapena zam'maganizo komanso chizolowezi chanthawi yayitali. Lingaliro langa lingamveke kukhala lovuta, koma chinthu cholemekezeka kwambiri chomwe mungadzichitire nokha, ndikuteteza zomwe muli nazo komanso tsogolo lanu pochitapo kanthu ngati muli munthawi ya izi.
Kwa zaka 28 zapitazi, ndathandizira maanja ambiri kusintha maukwati awo ndi maubale kukhala malo achikondi, koma pamafunika khama, kuyesetsa kwanu tsiku ndi tsiku. Osazengereza, pita tsopano. "
Ntchito ya David Essel 'imavomerezedwa kwambiri ndi anthu monga malemu Wayne Dyer, ndipo wotchuka Jenny McCarthy akuti "David Essel ndiye mtsogoleri watsopano wa gulu loganiza bwino."
Bukhu lake la 10, lina logulitsidwa kwambiri limatchedwa "Focus! Lembani zolinga zanu - chitsogozo chotsimikizika cha kupambana kwakukulu, malingaliro amphamvu ndi chikondi chachikulu. ”