Zamkati
- 1. Musalole kuti zinthu zapadziko lapansi zikugawanitseni
- 2. Kuthetsa kusamvana
- 3. Pempherani limodzi
- 4. Kutenga zisankho zazikulu pamodzi
- 5. Tumikirani Mulungu ndi wina ndi mnzake
- 6. Sungani ukwati wanu mwachinsinsi
- 7. Khalani ndi ziyembekezo zenizeni
Pali zinthu zambiri zofunikira kwa Akhristu omwe ali okonzeka kukwatira. Mipingo yambiri imapereka upangiri komanso maphunziro okonzekera maukwati achikhristu kwa omwe angadzakwatirane posachedwa kapena pamtengo.
Maphunzirowa ofotokoza za Baibulo adzakambirana mitu ingapo yomwe ingathandize kukonzekera banja lililonse pamavuto ndi kusiyana komwe kumachitika muubwenzi malonjezanowo akanenedwa.
Mitu yambiri yomwe ikufotokozedwayo ndiyofanana ndi yomwe mabanja akudziko akuyeneranso kuthana nayo.
Nawa maupangiri okonzekera maukwati achikristu omwe angakuthandizeni pokonzekera ukwati:
1. Musalole kuti zinthu zapadziko lapansi zikugawanitseni
Langizo lakukonzekeretsa maukwati achikhristu ndi phunziro lakuwongolera zomwe mungachite. Mayesero adzabwera kwa onse awiri. Musalole kuti chuma, ndalama, kapena anthu ena asokoneze awiriwa.
Kudzera mwa Mulungu, nonse mutha kukhala olimba ndikukana mayeserowa.
2. Kuthetsa kusamvana
Aefeso 4:26 akuti, "Dzuwa lisalowe muli chikwiyire." Osamagona osathetsa vuto lanu ndipo musamenyane. Kukhudza kokha komwe kumawonetsedwa kuyenera kukhala ndi chikondi kumbuyo kwawo.
Pezani njira zothetsera kusamvana kwanu zisanakhazikike m'malingaliro anu ndikubweretsa mavuto ena mtsogolo.
3. Pempherani limodzi
Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi yanu yopemphera komanso nthawi yopemphera kuti mulumikizane. Pocheza ndi Mulungu pamodzi, mukutenga mphamvu ndi Mzimu Wake mu tsiku ndi banja lanu.
Mabanja achikhristu ayenera kuwerengera limodzi Baibulo, kukambirana mavesi, ndikugwiritsa ntchito nthawiyi kukhala paubwenzi wapafupi ndi Mulungu.
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4. Kutenga zisankho zazikulu pamodzi
Ukwati umafunikira khama, nthawi, komanso kuleza mtima, ndipo ngati mutsatira malangizo ena okonzekeretsa maukwati achikhristu, mutha kupanga njira yomangira maziko olimba kukhala yosavuta.
Malonjezo a Mulungu okhudza banja amadalira chikhulupiriro chanu mwa Yesu Khristu ndikudzipereka kuti banja lanu liziyenda bwino.
Moyo uli wodzaza ndi zisankho zovuta pankhani za ana, zachuma, malo okhala, ntchito, ndi zina zambiri ndipo banja liyenera kukambirana ndikukhala ogwirizana popanga izi.
Chipani chimodzi sichingachite chisankho chachikulu popanda china. Palibe njira yachangu yopangira maubwenzi kuposa kupanga zisankho zokha.
Uku ndikuwonetsa kusakhulupirika. Pangani kulemekezana ndi kudalirana podzipereka kupanga zisankho zofunikira limodzi. Izi zikuthandizaninso kuti ubale wanu uziwonekerana.
Pezani zovuta zomwe mungathe, ndipo pempherani za izo pamene simungathe.
5. Tumikirani Mulungu ndi wina ndi mnzake
Malangizo achikristu okonzekera maukwati ndiye chinsinsi cholimbikitsira komanso kupulumutsa ukwati kapena chibwenzi. Kulimbana kwa moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku kumatha kuyambitsa kusiyana pakati pa inu ndi mnzanu.
Komabe, kulimbana kumeneku kungatithandizenso kumvetsetsa momwe tingalimbikitsire banja lathu.
Kukwatirana kokha kufunafuna chikondi kapena chisangalalo sikungakhale kokwanira nthawi yomwe chikondi ndi chisangalalo zitatha, mwina sitingayamikire mnzathu.
Ziphunzitso za Khristu ndi Baibulo zimasonyeza kuti tiyenera kupempherera anzathu ndikuganizira zowalimbikitsa polimbikitsa m'malo motsutsa.
6. Sungani ukwati wanu mwachinsinsi
Pamene okwatirana achikhristu alola apongozi awo ndi achibale awo kuloŵerera m'zochitika zawo, pamakhala mavuto ambiri. Zosokoneza zamtunduwu ndi chimodzi mwamavuto omwe mabanja amakhala nawo padziko lonse lapansi, kafukufuku akuwonetsa.
Musalole kuti wina aliyense akusokonezeni pazisankho zomwe inu ndi mnzanu muyenera kupanga.
Ngakhale mlangizi wanu angakulangizeni kuti muyesetse kuthetsa mavuto anu panokha.
Pofuna kuthetsa kusamvana ndi mavuto m'banja mwanu, mutha kumvera malangizo a anthu ena, koma chomaliza chiyenera kuchokera kwa inu nokha ndi mnzanu.
Ngati mukuwoneka kuti simungathe kuthetsa mavuto anu nonse awiri, m'malo motembenukira kwa apongozi anu, funsani upangiri wachikhristu kwa anthu apabanja, kapena werengani mabuku achikhristu, kapena yesani ukwati wachikhristu.
Phungu amakupatsani upangiri wokonzekereratu maukwati achikhristu chifukwa alibe chidwi ndi inu kapena ubale wanu.
7. Khalani ndi ziyembekezo zenizeni
Wina wakupha maubale ndi pamene wina m'banjamo sakondwera ndi momwe zinthu ziliri.
Phunzirani kuwona kupyola zomwe mulibe ndikuphunzirani kuyamika zomwe muli nazo. Kungofunika kusintha momwe mumaonera zinthu.
Yamikirani madalitso ang'onoang'ono omwe mumalandira tsiku lililonse, ndipo ngati mungayang'ane pazinthu zabwino zomwe zimachitika mphindi iliyonse yomwe muli, mudzawona kuti ndizinthu zazing'ono m'moyo zomwe ndizofunika.
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwamalangizo abwino okonzekera maukwati achikhristu omwe sangakhale othandiza paubwenzi wanu komanso m'moyo wanu.
Onaninso: Zoyembekeza zaukwati ndizowona.
Mawu omaliza
Kukhala okondana wina ndi mnzake komanso tchalitchi ndi komwe kumapangitsa banja lachikhristu kukhala lolimba. Ukwati wabwino suli wovuta kukwaniritsa; zimangofunika kulimbikira pang'ono.
Sungani Mulungu ndi wina ndi mnzake m'mitima yanu, ndipo simudzachoka pa moyo womwe mumamanga limodzi.