Zamkati
- Kukondana komanso ukwati
- Kodi kukondana ndi chiani?
- Zotchinga paubwenzi wapabanja
- Chitani: Onetsetsani kuti nonse muli omasuka
- Osatero: Yesetsani kukakamiza zomwe mukuyembekezera
- Chitani: Sinthani chibwenzi m'njira yoyenera
- Osatero: Iwalani kuti pakhoza kukhala vuto
- Malingaliro olimbikitsira olimbitsa chibwenzi ndi mnzanu
Kukondana m'banja kwa anthu okwatirana kungakhale malo otchera mgodi-kukondana ndi chiyembekezero m'malingaliro a anthu ambiri pa maubwenzi, koma aliyense ali ndi zomwe amakonda komanso malingaliro ake pankhani zachibwenzi zomwe amakhala omasuka kuchita nazo .
Kukondana komanso ukwati
Kukondana pakati pa maanja kungatanthauzidwe kukhala kukhala otseguka komanso osatetezeka ndi wokondedwa wanu, mopanda mantha.
Kukondana kwa maanja zingakhale nthawi zina lingaliro losavuta, ngakhale kwa iwo omwe ali okondana kwambiri, komabe ali ndi vuto lolumikizana komanso kukhala osatetezeka pakati pawo. Kukondana kwa okwatirana kungakhale kofunika kwambiri kuti banja likhale losangalala.
Kodi kukondana ndi chiani?
Kukondana pakati pa maanja ndi kachitidwe kapena kusinthana kwa malingaliro kuphatikiza kukhala paubwenzi wapamtima, kukonda kwaplato, kukondana kapena kukondana. Ubwenzi wakuthupi pambuyo paukwati ukhoza kukhala chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pakulimbitsa ubale. Kwa anthu okwatirana, kukondana kumaphatikizapo kuthupi, kutengeka ndi uzimu, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti banja likhale losangalala.
Ndicho chifukwa chake sikungokokomeza kunena kuti ukwati ndi chibwenzi zimayendera limodzi.
Zitsanzo zakukondana ndikuphatikizapo kukhala mkati mwa danga la wina, kugwirana dzanja, kukumbatira, kupsompsonana, kukumbatirana, kupapasana komanso kuchita zogonana.
Zotchinga paubwenzi wapabanja
Kwa anthu apabanja, kusiyana pakati pa chikhumbo chakugonana kumatha kubweretsa mavuto ena ngati sangayankhe msanga. Kupatula apo, pali zopinga zina zomwe zimabweretsa kuchepa kwa ubale wapabanja ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi, pakati pa okwatirana.
- Kuwonongeka pakati paubwenzi wanu wapamtima kumatha kukulepheretsani kuthana ndi ubale wapabanja. Chipinda chosalongosoka, mulu wa mbale mosambira, milu yochapira - sungalole mpata wolumikizana kwambiri ndi mnzanu.
- Kuphatikiza kuphatikiza kuchuluka kwakukondana muubwenzi wanu ndiwomwe ungasokoneze banja lanu. kukondana muukwati.
- Kusapezeka kwa bwenzi kungathe kuletsa kukondana m'banja. Kuti mupitilize kukhala paubwenzi wapamtima, muyenera kuchotsa zopinga zomwe zili ndi mizu yambiri ndikukhala omasuka kwa mnzanu.
Pofuna kuthana ndi zopinga zapabanja, tiyeni tiwone zina mwazofunikira kwambiri zomwe sitiyenera kuchita komanso zosayenera kuchita muukwati kwa anthu apabanja.
Chitani: Onetsetsani kuti nonse muli omasuka
Ndikofunika kwambiri paubwenzi uliwonse - wokwatiwa kapena ayi - kuonetsetsa kuti wokondedwa wanu ali womasuka ndi zomwe mukuchita. Ngati sali omasuka — siyani kaye.
Mukamachita zochitika zogonana, onetsetsani kuti mukudziwa momwe mnzanuyo akuchitira; ngakhale atakhala kuti sakunena zakukhumudwitsa kulikonse; matupi awo atha kuwonetsa kuti sakumva bwino ndi zochitika zina.
Osatero: Yesetsani kukakamiza zomwe mukuyembekezera
Zingakhale zophweka kukankhira zoyembekezera zanu kwa wokondedwa wanu yemwe ali pabanja, makamaka ngati mumaika patsogolo zochitika zina zakukondana m'banja.
Komabe, kuyesera kukakamiza zomwe mumayembekezera kwa winawake sikugwira ntchito pamapeto pake ndipo kungapangitse zovuta zanu kukhala zovuta kwambiri. M'malo mokakamiza zomwe mumayembekezera kwa wokondedwa wanu, lankhulani nawo zakukhosi kwanu, momwe akumvera, ndikuyesera kupeza zomwe mungagwirizane nonse musanakhale ogwirizana.
Chitani: Sinthani chibwenzi m'njira yoyenera
Ndibwino kuti muyesetse kukulitsa kukondana m'banja mwanu, bola ngati simukukakamiza mnzanu kukhala wovuta. Pali njira zambiri zosinthira kuyanjana m'banja, zomwe zimaphatikizapo koma sizimangokhala pa:
- Zochita zolimbikitsa zomwe zimapangitsa inu ndi mnzanu kukhala ogwirizana kwambiri, monga kukwera zikondwerero pamodzi, kukhalira limodzi mukamawonera makanema, kukhala moyandikana mumaresitilanti, kusambira limodzi, kukwera njinga motsatana, ndi zina zambiri.
- Kuchita zinthu zing'onozing'ono, zocheperako monga kulumikizana manja pagulu m'malo mongokakamira, kukumbatirana kapena kupsompsona pagulu.
- Kusangalala ndi nthawi zowoneka ngati zazing'ono, monga kutsuka tsitsi m'maso mwa mnzanu, kuyika mkono wanu m'manja mwawo, kapena kungokhala pafupi kwambiri pabedi kapena pabedi.
Osatero: Iwalani kuti pakhoza kukhala vuto
Mutha kuganiza kuti chifukwa mwakwatirana, mudzadziwa zonse zokhudza mnzanuyo.
M'malo mwake, izi sizili choncho; Nthawi zina, anthu amakhala ndi zovuta zomwe zingawapangitse iwo kukayikira njira zina zakukondana m'banja.
Mwachitsanzo, anthu ena omwe anakulira m'mabanja omwe sanasonyezane chikondi amatha kukhala osasangalala ndiukwati mtsogolo. Lankhulani ndi mnzanu za zovuta zilizonse zomwe zingatenge gawo pakulepheretsa kuyandikira kwanu.
Malingaliro olimbikitsira olimbitsa chibwenzi ndi mnzanu
- Ngati chipinda chanu chogona chikuwoneka kuti sichikuthandizani kugona, pitani ku hotelo yapafupi kuti mukakhale pachibwenzi nthawi yomweyo.
- Zonunkhiritsa tsiku la mnzanu ndi zolemba zowonera ndipo panthawi yomwe abwerera kunyumba, nonse mudzakhala mukuthamangitsidwa pagawo lotentha.
- Sambani limodzi kapena kusangalala ndi nthawi yabwino yosambira.
- Kutikita minofu ndikosangalatsa komanso kosangalatsa, perekani imodzi kwa mnzanu, ndipo abweza chiyanjanocho nthawi yomweyo, ndikupanga kukondana pakati pa inu nonse.
Nawa malingaliro ena okondana kwambiri kwa anthu apabanja omwe angachite zozizwitsa zokulitsa kukondana m'banja.