Zamkati
- Zizolowezi zoipa zimakhudza kukula kwamwana
- Njira zopangira mwana wanu kuganiza bwino
- 1. Landirani kusintha moyenera
- 2. Vomerezani kusintha molimba mtima
“Simungasinthe mikhalidwe, nyengo, kapena mphepo, koma mutha kusintha nokha. Ndicho chimene uli nacho ”- Jim Rohn.
Mwachitsanzo -
M'nkhalango, nyama yayikulu idamangidwa ndi chingwe chaching'ono kumwendo wake wakutsogolo. Kamnyamata kakang'ono kanadabwa kuti bwanji Njovu sinadule chingwe ndikudzimasula.
Chidwi chake chinayankhidwa modzichepetsa ndi mphunzitsi wa njovu yemwe anafotokozera mnyamatayo kuti pamene njovu zinali zazing'ono zimagwiritsa ntchito chingwe chimodzimodzi kuti azimange, ndipo panthawiyo, zinali zokwanira kuzigwira popanda unyolo.
Tsopano patadutsa zaka zambiri akukhulupirirabe kuti chingwecho ndi cholimba mokwanira kuti chiwasunge ndipo sanayesere kuchiphwanya.
Imodzi mwa malangizo ofunikira a kulera pano ndikuphunzitsa mwana wanu. Monga njovu yomangirizidwa ndi chingwe chaching'ono, ifenso timakhala m'ndende muzikhulupiriro zathu zomwe tidakhala nazo kale zomwe sizowona nthawi zonse ndipo zimatha kusintha kwakanthawi.
Zizolowezi zoipa zimakhudza kukula kwamwana
Zizolowezi zoipa zimathandizira kukhudza kukula kwawo kwakuthupi ndi kwamaganizidwe.
Zizolowezi zoipa zimaphatikizapo -
- Kutola,
- Kuyamwa kwazala,
- Mano akupera,
- Kunyambita milomo,
- Kumanga mutu,
- Kupindika tsitsi / kukoka
- Kudya zakudya zopanda pake,
- Kuwonera TV kwambiri, kapena
- Kuthera nthawi yayitali kwambiri pamakompyuta, ma laputopu, kusewera masewera apakanema,
- Kunama,
- Kugwiritsa ntchito mawu achipongwe etc.
Monga tanenera kale, zizolowezi izi zimakhudza kwambiri kukula kwawo kwakuthupi ndi kwamaganizidwe.
Nthawi zina ana athu amakhala omasuka ndi miyoyo yawo kotero kuti mtundu uliwonse wa kusintha kwakanthawi kachitidwe katsiku ndi tsiku kumawapangitsa kukhala 'osasangalala'. Amakonda momwe zinthu ziliri, ngakhale ndizokwiyitsa.
Mwamwayi, ndidakali wamng'ono, kusintha ndikosavuta kuvomereza, kukonzekera ndikulimbana nako. Kuphunzitsa ana kuthana ndi mavuto sizovuta. Koma pali njira zowathandizira kuti avomereze kusintha -
- Apangitseni kudziwa za zotsatira.
- Aloleni akumane ndi zolephera zawo, kukanidwa, mantha, ndi zina zambiri osalakwa.
- Osadandaula kuti ena anena chiyani. Ndiwo vuto lawo, osati lanu.
- Aphunzitseni momwe angawunikire momwe zinthu zikusinthira ndikupeza mayankho oyenera.
- Iwalani zam'mbuyomu ndikuyang'ana zamtsogolo.
Kusintha ndi kosintha kosasintha m'moyo wathu.
Chifukwa chake tiyenera kuwathandiza kuvomereza zosintha chifukwa ndi njira yopitilira, yopitilira komanso yobwerezabwereza.
Njira zopangira mwana wanu kuganiza bwino
Nazi njira zingapo zotsimikizika zomwe tingaphunzitse ana athu kuvomereza kusintha mopindulitsa -
1. Landirani kusintha moyenera
Kulandira kusintha kumatanthauza kuti ndinu wophunzira wabwino yemwe akufuna kukula, yesani zinthu zatsopano, funani zambiri ndikusiya zoipa. Landirani kusintha ndikuphunzira kuvomereza zinthu zomwe simungasinthe kapena kuyesa kusintha zinthu zomwe simungavomereze.
2. Vomerezani kusintha molimba mtima
Kuphatikiza pakuwaphunzitsa kuvomereza "zosintha", ndikofunikanso kuwaphunzitsa kuzindikira "zovuta" molimba mtima -
"Chofunika kwambiri chomwe makolo angaphunzitse ana awo ndicho kuchita zinthu popanda ana" - Frank A. Clark.
Chitsanzo 1 -
Ndikutsimikiza kuti tonsefe tiyenera kuti tidamvapo za nkhani ya "cocoon ndi gulugufe". Thandizo laling'ono lochokera kwa winawake linapangitsa kuti gulugufe atuluke mu chikuku koma pamapeto pake sanathe kuuluka ndipo anafa posachedwa.
Phunziro 1 -
Phunziro lalikulu kwambiri lomwe titha kugawana ndi ana athu apa ndikuti zoyesayesa zopitilira gulugufe kusiya chipolopolo chake zidalola kuti madzi omwe amasungidwa mthupi lawo asandulike mapiko olimba, okongola komanso akulu, ndikupangitsa kuti thupi lawo lipepuke.
Chifukwa chake ngati (ana anu) akufuna kuwuluka, onetsetsani kuti aphunzira kuthana ndi zovuta ndikulimbana ndi moyo molimbika.
Chitsanzo 2 -
Kalekale mayi wina wachikulire mtawuni yaying'ono adataya nthawi yake pafamu yake. Anayesetsa kwambiri kuti awapeze koma osaphula kanthu.
Adapereka mphotho yosangalatsa kwa mwana yemwe angamupezere zowonjezera. Ana okondwa adayesetsa kwambiri kuti apeze wotchi koma atalephera kangapo ambiri a iwo adatopa, kukwiya ndikusiya.
Mkazi wokhumudwitsidwayo nayenso anataya ziyembekezo zonse.
Ana onse atangochoka, anali pafupi kutseka chitseko pomwe msungwana wina anapempha kuti amupatsenso mwayi wina.
Patatha mphindi, kamtsikana kanapeza wotchiyo. Mkazi wodabwitsidwayo adamuthokoza ndikumufunsa kuti wayipeza bwanji wotchiyo? Adayanjananso mosalakwa kuti adalandira malangizowo kudzera mukulira kwa wotchiyo yomwe inali yosavuta kumvera mwakachetechete.
Mayiyo sanangomupatsa mphotho komanso anatamanda kukongola kwake.
Phunziro 2 -
Nthawi zina ngakhale chikwangwani chaching'ono chimakhala chokwanira kuthana ndi zovuta zazikulu m'moyo. Ndi mwayi kutchula wopambana yemwe ndimamukonda yemwe adadumphadumpha ndikupambana chovuta chachikulu komanso cholepheretsa m'moyo.
Chitsanzo 3 -
A Helen Keller, wolemba waku America, womenyera ufulu andale, wophunzitsa komanso wopembedza anthu opunduka anali wogontha komanso wakhungu.
Helen Adam Keller adabadwa ali mwana wathanzi; komabe, ali ndi zaka miyezi 19, adakhudzidwa ndi matenda osadziwika, mwina red fever kapena meningitis yomwe idamusiya wogontha komanso wakhungu.
Phunziro 3 -
Kwa mayi wolimba mtima komanso wotsimikiza, zovuta ndi madalitso obisika. Anakhala munthu woyamba kugontha komanso wakhungu kupeza digiri ku Bachelor of Arts kuchokera ku Radcliffe.
Anali m'modzi woyambitsa bungwe la ACLU (American Civil liberties Union), adachita kampeni ya Women Suffrage, ufulu wantchito, socialism, antimilitarism, ndi zifukwa zina zosiyanasiyana. Munthawi ya moyo wake, anali wolandila mphotho zambiri komanso kuchita bwino.
Zolimbikitsadi! Opambana monga iye ndiulendo wake wopatsa chiyembekezo amathandiza mwana wathu kuthana ndi zopinga, kuthetsa masautso ndikupambana.
Chimodzi mwazabwino kwambiri, "Khomo limodzi lachimwemwe likatseka, lina limatseguka, koma nthawi zambiri timayang'ana nthawi yayitali pakhomo lotseka kuti sitikuwona lomwe latitsegukira".