Zamkati
- Kodi mukudziwa zomwe ndikutanthauza ndi soulmate?
- Kuzindikira ubale wanu ndi inu nokha
- Kuswa nkhungu zamapulogalamu anu akale
- Kufunafuna ulemu wanu ndi ubwino wanu
- Kukanda zomwe zili pansi pa mthunzi wanu
- Khalani wamkulu wopanga moyo wanu
- Khalani inu, kotero mnzanuyo amakudziwani mukakumana
Ndili ndi zaka 40, sindimadziwa kuti ndidzapeza mnzanga, koma ndidatero. Zaka khumi pambuyo pake banja lathu lidali losangalala komanso lodzala ndi matsenga monga chaka choyamba.
Kodi mukudziwa zomwe ndikutanthauza ndi soulmate?
A Soulmate ndi munthu yemwe kudzera mchikondi chachikulu - ndipo nthawi zina zovuta kwambiri - amatilimbikitsa kuti tikhale enieni, enieni.
Mwachitsanzo, tizingoyendayenda kukhitchini m'mawa, tikupanga khofi, kuwunika mafoni athu, ndikugwirana maso. Timaima ndi kuyang'anizana wina ndi mnzake, mwakachetechete kuthokoza Mulungu kuti tapeza ina.
Nthawi zambiri timakhala ndi misozi posinthana kuthokoza kwakukulu. Timakumbatirana, kupsompsonana pang'ono, kutenganso kafukufuku wa nthawi yayitali miyoyo ya wina ndi mnzake, ndikulankhula kuchokera mumtima mwathu: "Ndikukukumbukira."
Pafupifupi chilichonse chomwe ndimalota chingakhale, koma osati kwenikweni. Ndi chisangalalo chonse chomwe mungafunse, ndinganene bwanji chinthu chotere, sichoncho?
Kuzindikira ubale wanu ndi inu nokha
Monga anthu ambiri, ndinakulira ndikuganiza kuti kupeza bwenzi langwiro, mwamuna woyenera, wokondedwa wanga, 'adzandimaliza'.
Ndipo, pamagulu ambiri zimamveka choncho, Koma, chowonadi ndichakuti palibe wina kunja kwa ine, ngakhale Soulmate wanga, amene angakwaniritse chosowa chomwe chili mkatimo. Zitha kudzazidwa ndikadzipeza ndekha.
Ndiloreni ndikhale womveka, mwamuna wanga ndi ameneyo. Ndi munthu wodabwitsa pamlingo uliwonse. Wowona komanso wokoma mtima, waluntha komanso wopanga, ofunda, wachikondi, wowolowa manja, wokonda moyo. Ine ndikhoza kupitirira. Ndipo, ndidazindikira kuti ngakhale zonsezi sizidakwaniritse kulakalaka kwakukulu komwe kudali mkati mwanga.
Popita nthawi, zomwe ndidaphunzira ndikuti ndimalakalaka ndekha.
Kuswa nkhungu zamapulogalamu anu akale
Kuti akhale wotsimikiza, amuna anga okongola. Amapereka pafupi ndi chikondi chopanda malire monga ndikukhulupirira kuthekera kwathu m'moyo wamasiku ano. Ndipo chifukwa ubalewo ndi wolimba, ndinamva kuti ndili ndi ufulu wofufuzira ndikukula m'magawo atsopano, ndikudzibwezeretsanso mkati ndi kunja.
Chozizwitsa ndichakuti ndidazichita muubwenzi wanga wokhazikika - zomwe mapulogalamu anga akale anali ataweruza!
Koma zomwe sindimadziwa panthawiyo ndikuti m'moyo wanga wonse ndimakhala ndichilakalaka chodzidziwitsa ndekha. Moyo Wanga Weniweni, Mulungu Wanga Womwe. Pulofesa wanga Dr Mary Hulnick akuti ichi ndi "chikhumbo choyera" Ndinangomvetsetsa kuti zimangopezeka mwa mnzanu, kunja kwa ine.
Kufunafuna ulemu wanu ndi ubwino wanu
Zomwe ulendowu wandiphunzitsa ndi izi: tonse tili pano kuti tifunire ulemu wathu, ulemu wathu, ubwino wathu. Tikufunafuna moto wa Umulungu womwe tili. Tikulakalaka kuwona Umulungu wathu, umunthu wathu wonse, ukulu wathu.
Okondedwa athu amatha kukhala ndi malo ndikuwonetsera izi kwa ife, koma kulakalaka kopatulika uku, kulumikizana kwakukulu ndi chikondi chachikulu chomwe tonsefe tili, ndi zomwe timafuna. Ikhoza kupezeka kokha kuchokera mkati. Ndipo, zitha kuwonetsedwa mu zina zikapezeka mwa ife tokha.
Kukanda zomwe zili pansi pa mthunzi wanu
Ili kuti mkati mwathu, mwina mungafunse? Kuyenda mosamala pansi pa mapulogalamu ndi kujambula zomwe ena amatcha mthunzi wathu. Pansi pa 'kuchita-ndikuchita-ndikuchita mopitirira muyeso' kuyesa kutsimikizira kukhalapo kwathu.
Kumbuyo kwa masks omwe timavala kuti tiwoneke bwino, kuyesetsa molimbika, kutsatira. Pansi pa zotsalira zokhala ndimunthu nthawi zambiri timapezeka tikusambira mozungulira.
Koma gawo lina lofunikira kwambiri pazonsezi ndi inu eni eni.
Pitirizani kukumba. Mmenemo muli zenizeni. Gawo lapamwamba la inu. Chofunika cha inu.
Ndipo chofunikira ichi ndi chimodzimodzi ndi pafupipafupi cha Chikondi. Ndi zoona zomwe inu muli.
Chikondi. Ndipo chowonadi chomwe, chomwe ndi inu, ndi chomwe mukufuna.
Khalani wamkulu wopanga moyo wanu
Sili pantchito kapena mgalimoto kapena mnyumba kapena pantchito. Sili ngakhale mwa ana anu. Ndipo ndili pano kuti ndigawane kuchokera pazomwe zandichitikira, sizili mu Soulmate yanu.
Ndimakhala moyo wosangalatsa komanso wodala. Ine ndiye woyambitsa wamkulu ndipo chitsime changa chachikulu chothokoza komanso chisangalalo chikuwonjezeka podziwa kuti ndidakwanitsa kudziwa izi za ine mu chidebe cha ubale womwe ndi ukwati wanga. Zinapereka chitetezo ndikulandila momwe ndingadzifufuzire ndekha. Zinandipatsa ufulu wowonekera kunja kwa mizere ya omwe ndimaganiza kuti ndine.
Khalani inu, kotero mnzanuyo amakudziwani mukakumana
Ngati muli padziko lapansi kufunafuna Soulmate wanu, pumulani. Ikani dzanja lanu pamtima panu ndikudziwa kuti zomwe mukufuna ndi inu. Ngati muli otanganidwa kwambiri kuti mupeze Soulmate wanu, mwina mwina mukungokusowani.
Pezani zowona inu - kenako, pitani nanu, kudziko lapansi - kuti Soulmate wanu adzakudziweni mukakumana.