Zamkati
- About Stephen R. Covey
- 1. Chitani khama
- 2. Yambani ndi mapeto mu malingaliro
- 3. Ikani zinthu zofunika patsogolo
- 4. Ganizirani 'kupambana-kupambana'
- 5. Yesetsani kumvetsetsa, kenako mumvetsetsedwe
- 6. Kugwirizana
- 7. Lola macheka
'Zizolowezi 7 za Mabanja Ogwira Mtima Kwambiri' ndi chitsogozo chanzeru komanso chothandiza kuthana ndi mavuto amtundu uliwonse omwe magulu ndi mabanja olimba amakumana nawo - kaya mavutowo ndi ochepa, akulu, wamba, kapena achilendo.
Bukuli limapereka upangiri ndi malingaliro othandiza pakusintha momwe mumakhalira,kwinaku tikugogomezera kufunikira kwakusunga malonjezo, kuwonetsa kufunikira kwa misonkhano yamabanja, kuwonetsa njira zothetsera zosowa zabanja komanso za aliyense payekhapayekha, ndikuwonetsa momwe tingasinthire kuchoka pakudalira ndikudalirana nthawi imodzi.
About Stephen R. Covey
Pokhala bambo wa ana 9, Covey adakhulupirira mwamphamvu kufunikira kosunga ndi kuteteza kukhulupirika kwa banja pamavuto azikhalidwe ndi miyambo zomwe sizinachitike lero.
M'dziko lovuta komanso lovuta lino, Covey amapereka chiyembekezo kwa mabanja omwe akufuna kupanga ndi kutsatira chikhalidwe chosiyana - chikhalidwe cholimba, chokongola cha mabanja.
Zizolowezi 7
1. Chitani khama
Kuchita zinthu mwanzeru kumatha kufotokozedwa ngati kuzika zochita zanu pamakhalidwe ndi mfundo zanu m'malo mozikhazikitsa pamalingaliro kapena pamalingaliro. Chizolowezi ichi chimatsindika pa mfundo yosavuta kuti tonse ndife othandizira kusintha.
Chinthu choyamba chomwe muyenera kuchita ndikuwunika mawonekedwe anu apadera omwe amakuthandizani kusankha ndikusankha zochita potsatira zomwe mumatsatira. Chachiwiri, muyenera kuzindikira ndi kuzindikira komwe mukukumana ndi vuto lanu.
Kuchita zinthu moyenera kumaphatikizaponso kukhazikitsa akaunti yakubanki yosungulumwa ndi mnzanu, ana, ndi okondedwa anu mwa kupanga ndi kusunga malonjezo, kukhala wokhulupirika, kupepesa, ndikuchita zina zakhululuka.
2. Yambani ndi mapeto mu malingaliro
Kutsatira mfundo ya chizolowezi choyamba, chizolowezi chachiwiri chimayang'ana kufunikira kokhazikitsa mfundo zokomera mabanja zomwe ziyenera kuphatikiza mfundo ndi zikhalidwe monga chifundo, chikondi, ndi kukhululuka.
Mfundo imeneyi imathandizira kuti munthu azimva kuti ndi woyenera kuchita china chilichonse. Komabe, kuzindikira ndikuzindikira mfundo zoyendetsera banja ndi ntchito yovuta kwambiri yomwe siyimachitika mwadzidzidzi.
M'bukuli, Covey akufotokoza kuti ngakhale mfundo zake pabanja zidakonzedwa, kulembedwanso, kenako kulembedwanso kangapo pazaka zambiri ndi malingaliro ndi malingaliro a aliyense m'banjamo.
3. Ikani zinthu zofunika patsogolo
Chizoloŵezi chovuta kwambiri kutengera ndicho kuyika banja lanu patsogolo pazinthu zonse.
Bukuli limayankha bwino mafunso ovuta a moyo wogwira ntchito, azimayi ogwira ntchito nthawi zonse, komanso owasamalira ana mochenjera komanso moona mtima.
Covey akuti ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti si ntchito yomwe singakonzeke, koma ndi banja lomwe siyokambirana.
Covey akufotokozanso kuti palibe wina aliyense amene angalere mwana monga kholo, zomwe zikutsindikanso kufunikira koika banja lanu patsogolo.
Bukuli limaperekanso malangizo othandiza - nthawi yamabanja sabata iliyonse.
Nthawi yabanja itha kugwiritsidwa ntchito kukambirana ndikukonzekera, kumvetsera ndi kuthetsa mavuto a wina ndi mnzake, kuphunzitsa, komanso koposa zonse, kusangalala.
Covey amalankhulanso zakufunika kokhala m'modzi m'modzi ndi mnzanu komanso ndi aliyense m'banjamo.
Iyi ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri pakumanga ubale womwe ndi gawo lofunikira pakuika zinthu zoyambirira patsogolo.
4. Ganizirani 'kupambana-kupambana'
Covey akufotokoza zizolowezi zitatu zotsatira monga muzu, njira, ndi chipatso.
Chizolowezi chachinayi kapena muzu umayang'ana kwambiri pakupindulitsa komwe onse awiri amakhutira. Njira yosamalira ndi kusamalira, ngati itapangidwa mosasunthika komanso moyenera imatha kukhala muzu womwe zizolowezi zina zimakula.
5. Yesetsani kumvetsetsa, kenako mumvetsetsedwe
Kutsatira Chizolowezi 4, chizolowezi ichi ndi njira, njira, kapena njira yolumikizirana kwambiri. Wachibale aliyense amafuna kuti anthu amumvetse ndipo chizolowezichi chimatilimbikitsa kuti tisiye malo athu abwino ndikukumbatira mtima ndi mapazi a mnzakeyo mwachifundo komanso momvetsetsa.
6. Kugwirizana
Pomaliza, kulumikizana kapena zipatso ndi zotsatira za zoyesayesa zomwe zatchulidwa pamwambapa.
Covey akufotokoza kuti njira yachitatu yanjira yanu kapena njira yanga ndiyo njira yabwino yopitilira patsogolo. Pogwiritsa ntchito chizolowezichi, kunyengerera ndikumvetsetsa kumakhala njira yachikondi ya tsiku ndi tsiku.
Ndikofunikira kuti muphunzire ndikuyesera kugwira ntchito limodzi kuti mupange ubale wolimba komanso banja losangalala lomwe limakwaniritsa zambiri.
7. Lola macheka
Chaputala chomaliza cha bukuli chimayang'ana kufunikira kokonzanso banja lanu pazinthu zinayi zofunika pamoyo: zachikhalidwe, zauzimu, zamaganizidwe, komanso zathupi. Covey amalankhula zakufunika kwa zikhalidwe ndi miyambo ndikufotokozera momwe zilili chinsinsi chomangira ndikukhala ndi madera ofunikira awa.