Zamkati
- Mnzake wapamtima anali mwamuna wabwino kwambiri paukwati:
- Mnzanu wapamtima:
- Bwenzi lapamtima ndi pulogalamu ya magawo 12:
- Sindikusoweka anzanga apamtima:
- Mnzanu wapamtima komanso wolumala:
Kodi ndi chinthu chabwino kupitiriza kucheza ndi anyamata mukamakwatirana? Amuna ambiri amamva ngati akutaya ufulu wawo pomwe sangathe kucheza ndi anyamatawo. Kodi ndi nkhani yotaya ufulu kapena kusintha moyo wanu kuti mugwirizane ndi mnzanu moyo wanu wonse? Kodi ubwenzi wamwamuna uja umalowa bwanji m'banja? Amuna ambiri amapeza kuti ubale ndi bwenzi lawo umayamba kutha chifukwa chodzipereka m'banja. Amuna ena amapeza kuti ubale wawo ndi bestie wawo ukuyenda bwino akalowa gawo lina la miyoyo yawo chifukwa amafunika kukambirana ndi wina zinthu zomwe mkazi wawo sangasangalale nazo, monga masewera. Amafunanso malingaliro a amuna ena osakhudzidwa mtima.
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Mnzake wapamtima anali mwamuna wabwino kwambiri paukwati:
Jonathon, 40, wokwatiwa ndi Carrie kwa zaka 20 akadali ndi mnzake wapamtima Mike wokondedwa kwambiri. “Mike ndi ine takhala mabwenzi apamtima kwanthawi yayitali ndipo sindikukumbukira pomwe tidakumana. Komabe, ine ndi Mike tinakwatira alongo awiri. Chifukwa chake mutha kuwona kufunikira koti tibe nthawi yamunthu. Timakambirana za maukwati athu komanso ntchito zomwe timachita ndikulera ana athu aamuna. Tonsefe timakonda hockey ndi baseball. Sindikuganiza kuti ndikadakwatirana ndikadapanda Mike woti ndilankhule naye. Adandilankhulitsa kuti ndikhale nthawi zambiri pomwe ndimaganiza kuti ndikufuna kuchokapo. Ndine wokondwa kuti sindinakhaleko. Mike anali munthu opambana pa ukwatiwo.
Mnzanu wapamtima:
James 35, wokwatiwa ndi Karen kwa zaka 10. Mnzanga wapamtima, Victor, anali kugona naye ku koleji. Tinayamba bizinesi yopanga mipando limodzi. Kuyambitsa bizinesi ndi winawake kuli ngati ukwati. Mkazi wanga amaseka izi. Timalankhula tsiku lonse kenako timapita kunyumba. Timawonana pamisonkhano yamalonda ndi misonkhano. Nthawi zina timapita kunyumba kwa wina ndi mnzake ngati china chachikulu chikufunika choti tikambirane. Komabe, ubale wathu umamangidwa pakukhulupirika komanso kukumbukira masiku apitawa aku koleji. Lero, ubale wathu ndiwofunika kwambiri kuposa kucheza ndi anyamata. Koma osalakwitsa, muyenera kukhulupirira mnzanuyo ndipo ayenera kukhala wodalirika kuti bizinesiyo igwire ntchito. Bizinezi ndi moyo wathu komanso moyo wathu. Ubwenzi wathu ndiwofunika kwambiri kwa ine kuposa kale.
Bwenzi lapamtima ndi pulogalamu ya magawo 12:
Carl 27, wokwatiwa ndi Beth kwa zaka zinayi. Ndinakumana ndi bwenzi langa lapamtima John mu pulogalamu 12 yazidakwa, zaka zisanu zapitazo. Takhala tikulimbikitsana mzaka zambiri ndipo takhala osadandaula. Ndine wamphamvu tsopano. Nditha kuzichita popanda iye koma sindikutsimikiza ngati angathe popanda ine. Beth amanyadira za ine. John ndi m'modzi wabanjali. Ali ngati m'bale. Ali ndi mtsikana amene akumufuna. Ndiwosamwa. Ndine wokondwa chifukwa cha iye. Amati ngati mwana wake woyamba ndi wamwamuna amamutcha dzina langa. Amalemekeza ukwati wanga ndipo amawachirikiza. Ndikutsimikiza, tidzadziwana kwa nthawi yayitali.
Sindikusoweka anzanga apamtima:
Eric 39 wakwatiwa ndi Janice kwa zaka 18. Ndili ndi banja labwino. Msungwana wanga ndi mnzanga wapamtima, nthawi zonse wakhala. Timachitira zonse limodzi. Ine sindimakhulupirira munthu pafupi ndi dona wanga. Sindikufuna usiku wamnyamata. Ndili ndi abale anga awiri omwe ndimacheza nawo nthawi zina. Sindinakhalepo ndi anzanga ambiri kusukulu kotero sindinakhalepo ndi mtundu wa mnyamatayo. Anyamata omwe ndimawadziwa, amayesa kugona mkazi aliyense yemwe ali naye ndipo ndi okwatirana. Nthawi iliyonse mukandiwona, simuyenera kuwona mnzanu. Mukandiona, ndimakhala ndekha kapena ndi mkazi wanga. Ndine wabwino nazo.
Mnzanu wapamtima komanso wolumala:
Abe 53 wakwatiwa ndi wokondedwa wake wa kusekondale, Patricia kwa zaka 30. Abe ndi msirikali wakale wolumala komanso mnzake mnzake Sam. “Ine ndi Sam ndife mabwenzi apamtima. Tinatumikira limodzi kunkhondo. Tonse tinali olumala nthawi yogwira ntchito nthawi imodzi. Timachokera komweko. Sam wakwatiwa ndi mayi wabwino. Timalumikizana kwambiri chifukwa cha kulumala kwathu ndipo tili achangu pantchito zankhondo wakale. Akazi athu samvetsa zomwe takumana nazo ndipo moyo wathu wasintha chifukwa cha izi. Timawona zinthu moyenera kotero palibe vuto. Timawonerera masewera, kulankhula pafoni, ndikupita kumalo akuthirira, kawiri kapena katatu pamwezi. Sichidzasintha. Kunena zowona, ndikuganiza kuti mkazi wanga wapeputsidwa. Sindiyenera kumudalira pa chilichonse ngati mwana. Amapeza tchuthi. ”
Pomaliza, abwenzi amakhala ndi maudindo ambiri m'moyo wamunthu ndipo nthawi zambiri amapatsa maukwati kukhala opumira chifukwa okwatirana sayenera kupeza zofunikira zawo zamunthu kapena zamunthu kuchokera kwa munthu m'modzi. Zingakhale zovuta kwa wokwatirana naye. Kumbali ina, maukwati ena amapangidwa kuti aliyense azidalira wina ndi mnzake.