Zamkati
- Yambani pang'ono, yambani kukhala otetezeka
- Dzikumbutseni za kufunikira kwanu
- Pangani mndandanda wamalingaliro azokambirana
- 1. Nenani kanthu pa zomwe mwawona zokhudza kukondana kwanu
- 2. Yankhani pa zomwe zili pafupi nanu
- 3. Fotokozani za chochitika chaposachedwa
- Mukukhala ndi chibwenzi, choncho pitirizani
- Muli ndi kulumikizana
- Khalani enieni "inu"
Kodi mwakopeka ndi winawake wapadera? Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazosangalatsa kwambiri padziko lapansi, sichoncho? Mumawawona, maso anu amasunthira pansi, mumayesa kusunga ndikumwetulira kwanu, mumamva masaya anu akuyaka. O, mukufuna kwambiri kuti mulankhule nawo koma ndinu amanyazi kwambiri. Ingoganizani? Tili pano kuti tithandizire! Pitilizani kuwerenga kuti mupeze maupangiri amomwe mungatsegule ndikuyandikira anzanu. Wokonzeka? Pumirani kwambiri chifukwa ukhala wabwino kwambiri.
Yambani pang'ono, yambani kukhala otetezeka
CHABWINO, tikudziwa kuti ndinu wolowerera ndipo ndizopweteka kukhala woyamba kupereka moni. Kotero tiyeni tiyambe izi ndi kuyeseza.
Mupatsa moni munthu m'modzi patsiku, koma osati kukhumudwa kwanu.
Amatha kukhala mnzake wam'kalasi, wogwira naye ntchito, wina amene mumamuwona tsiku lililonse panjira yapansi panthaka kapena basi, mnansi wanu. Aliyense amene sangatengeke ndi inu ndikumupatsa moni.
Cholinga cha ntchitoyi ndi kukuwonetsani kuti dziko lapansi silidzakudzidzimutsani mukayamba ndi inu nkuti “moni” kaye kwa munthu amene mumamudziwa. Mukamaliza kuchita izi kwa milungu iwiri, mudzakhala ndi chidaliro chokwanira kuti munene "hello" (kapena "hi" kapena "zikuyenda bwanji?") Kuti musangalatse.
Dzikumbutseni za kufunikira kwanu
Nthawi zambiri anthu amanyazi amakhala osadzidalira zomwe zimapangitsa mantha awo kufikira anzawo. “Sadzakhala ndi chidwi ndi ine,” angadziuze motero.
Ino ndi nthawi yoti mugwire ntchito pazovomereza zanu.
Yesetsani izi tsiku lililonse pamoyo wanu. Izi zatsimikiziridwa kuti zithandizira kukulitsa kudzidalira komanso kukhala ndi moyo wabwino. Mukamadzimva bwino, ndizosavuta kuyika pachiwopsezo ndikuyambitsa zokambirana ndi onse omwe akuzungulirani, kuphatikiza kukondana kwanu!
Pangani mndandanda wamalingaliro azokambirana
CHABWINO, ndiye mwatha kuti "Moni zikuyenda bwanji?" and your crush wayankha "Zabwino? Nanunso?". Muli ndi zokopa zina! Kodi mumasunga bwanji zinthu? Mwamwayi kwa inu, muli ndi mndandanda wazokambirana wamba pamutu panu. Sankhani chimodzi mwazinthu izi kuti musangalatse chidwi chanu:
1. Nenani kanthu pa zomwe mwawona zokhudza kukondana kwanu
Chizindikiro, tsitsi lawo kapena utoto wawo, china chomwe adavala ("ndolo yabwino!") Kapena mafuta onunkhira awo ("Ndiwo fungo labwino! Ndi mafuta onunkhira ati omwe wavala?")
2. Yankhani pa zomwe zili pafupi nanu
Ngati muli kusukulu, nenani zinazake za kalasi lanu lotsatira kapena mufunseni za omwe amakukondani. Ngati muli kuntchito, yankhani momwe m'mawa wanu wakhala wopenga ndikufunsani anzanu ngati ali otakataka ngati ena onse.
3. Fotokozani za chochitika chaposachedwa
“Uwonerera masewerawa usiku watha?” ndimayambira oyambira kukambirana nthawi zonse, pokhapokha ngati simukusewera pamasewera. Zikatero, sankhani ndale, ulendo wam'mawa, kapena mutu uliwonse wotentha womwe wakhala utolankhani posachedwa.
Mukukhala ndi chibwenzi, choncho pitirizani
Tsopano inu ndi mnzanuyo mukuyankhula. Mukuwona kuti ali ndi chidwi; sakupereka zifukwa zoyesera kuti athetse zokambirana zanu. Matupi awo akuwonetsa kuti akufuna apitilize: mapazi awo akuloza kwa inu ndipo "akuonetsa" zomwe mukuchita - mwina kuwoloka manja pachifuwa, kapena kukankhira tsitsi losokera kumbuyo kwa khutu lanu mukamachita zomwezo. Zizindikiro zonse zabwino!
Pakadali pano, mutha kupereka lingaliro loti mutenge khofi kapena zakumwa zozizilitsa kukhosi, ndikusunthira zokambiranazo pamalo omwe mungayankhulane kwinaku mukumwa chakumwa.
Muli ndi kulumikizana
Wokondedwa wanu wavomera kuti mupite kukamwa khofi nanu. Mantha?
Pumirani kwambiri ndikudzikumbutsa kuti bwenzi lanu likufuna kuti ndilankhule nanu.
Ndiwe munthu wosangalatsa, wokoma mtima komanso wabwino. Pamalo opangira khofi, perekani kuti mudzalipire “deti” ili. Kuwonetsa kuti ndinu wowolowa manja komanso kutumiza uthenga kwa omwe mumawakonda kuti mumawakonda kuposa anzanu.
Ino inonso ndi nthawi yoti mubwererenso mumndandanda wazokambirana mukangokhala "ozizira" ndikutaya zokambirana. Nazi njira zina zowonjezera mawu mobwerezabwereza:
- Tsegulani mafoni anu kuti muyankhe pazithunzi zanu zoseketsa.
- Onetsani ma memes ena oseketsa
- Pezani ena mwa makanema omwe mumakonda pa youtube - kutsegulira kozizira kwa SNL, mwachitsanzo.
- Gawani mndandanda wanu wanyimbo ndikukambirana zamagulu omwe mumawakonda. (Pemphani anzanu kuti apite kumasewera omwe akubwera ngati mukuganiza.)
Khalani enieni "inu"
Ngati ndinu wamanyazi, mungaganize kuti ndibwino kutengera "persona", kutsanzira munthu amene mumamusirira kapena kumuwona ngati wopambana kuposa inu. Osachita izi. Mukufuna kuti anzanu azikukondani chifukwa cha momwe mulili, osati wina amene mukuwagwiritsa ntchito.
Khalani nokha, ndizo zonse zomwe muli nazo.
Ndipo ngati simukufuna kukumverani — ngati muwona kuti akutaya chidwi — zili bwino. Dzikumbutseni nokha kuti izi sizokanidwa. Kungoti simukufananirana wina ndi mnzake monga momwe mumaganizira poyamba.
Izi zimachitika nthawi zonse ndipo sizitanthauza kuti simunthu wabwino. Pitirizani kudziyika nokha kunja uko. Mudzakhala ndi zovuta zina m'moyo, mwamwayi. Ndipo tsiku lina, “moni,” zikuyenda bwanji? Ichi chidzakhala chiyambi cha ubale wokongola, wachikondi.