Zamkati
'Ubale', mawuwa ndi osangalatsa bwanji, koma musanakhale amodzi! Timamva chilimbikitso champhamvu chokhala ndi bwenzi lathu, makamaka abambo amamva choncho. Tikapeza wathu affine, zonse ndi zabwino komanso zosangalatsa. Ubale uli ndi sayansi yathunthu. Chibwenzi chilichonse ndichopadera koma pali zinthu zochepa zomwe zimafunika kusamalidwa ndi aliyense, apo ayi ubale uliwonse ungathe kuwonongeka mosavuta. Munkhaniyi tikambirana nkhani yodziwika bwino komanso yofunika kwambiri yomwe imafunika kuyisamalira mosamala.
Mukuwona kuti mukusiya chidwi ndipo mulibenso mwa mnzanu? Simukumva kuyesanso chifukwa uli wotopetsa? Kodi ukwati wanu ukusandutsa mtolo? Kodi ukwati ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zovuta kwambiri pamoyo wanu? Ngati onse awiri, yankho la mnzanu kapena wokondedwa wanu ndi inde pafunso lililonse pamwambapa ndiye kuti nkhaniyi ndi yanuyanu!
Mwachidziwikire simungayembekezere kuti ukwati ungakhale wovuta. Cholakwitsa chimodzi chachikulu ndikuyembekeza kuti mudzawona kulumikizana ndi mnzanu nthawi zonse. Chiyembekezo ichi chimagwira gawo lofunikira kwambiri pakuwononga ubale wanu. Kuti timvetsetse lingaliro ili tiyeni tisunthe pang'onopang'ono.
Chifukwa chake tiyeni tiyambire pachiyambi cha ubale wanu. Ubwenzi wanu ukhoza kukhala ngati loto likukwaniritsidwa kapena mwina, koma mwina mudalidi mwa mnzanu. Mu nthawi imeneyo mukuwoneka kuti simukuganiza zakulekana ndipo
munali okonzeka kupeza njira yothetsera vuto lililonse. Izi ndizochibadwa chifukwa muli ndi zambiri zomwe zimakupatsani mwayi woyendetsa.
Tiyeni tsopano tifike ku gawo lovuta laukwati. Gawoli limayamba mukamadzimva kuti mulibe chilumikizano ndi mnzanuyo, kapena mwina ndi mbali inayo. Apa tikambirana zamomwe mungapulumutsire banja lanu munthawi zonsezi.
Inunso muli mumkhalidwe uwu
Gawo ili likayamba, mumayesetsa kudziuza nokha - 'Palibe vuto, ndiyesetsa ndipo zonse zitha kutheka' koma popeza simukuyigwira bwino zomwe zimachitika ndikuti tsiku lililonse likadutsa, zomwe zikukugwirizanitsani ndi mnzanu mwamalingaliro, zikuwoneka ngati zikutha. Ndiye pakubwera nthawi yomwe simumva kulumikizana konse konse. Iyi ndiye gawo pomwe pankhondo iliyonse yomwe mungaganize zosiya banja lanu, pomwe mumayamba kuganiza zothetsa banja lanu kuposa kale. Kodi tichite chiyani tsopano? Mwafika bwanji pamsinkhu uwu? Kodi nchiyani chomwe chinalakwika kwambiri? Kodi akanatani kuti apewe matendawa? Takusankhirani inu.
Mvetsetsani kuti ndi zachilendo
Ndizabwinobwino kuti munthu, asamve kukula kwa malingaliro atakwatirana ali ndi miyezi / zaka zochepa. Ndinu munthu wokhalapo mukudziwa zofooka zanu, ndipo ichi ndi chimodzi mwazambiri. Chinthu choyamba chomwe muyenera kuwonetsetsa ndikuti mumadzipangitsa kumvetsetsa bwino kuti izi ndi zabwinobwino ndipo izi zimayenera kuchitika. Dzikumbutseni kuti monga moyo uli wodzaza magawo osiyanasiyana, maubale, makamaka banja, ladzaza ndi magawo. Ili ndi limodzi mwamagawo ndipo zidzatha popanda chiwonongeko chilichonse ngati mungadutse gawoli moyenera.
Mukamvetsetsa izi mumasiya kuganiza za banja lanu ngati cholemetsa ndikuyamba kutenga gawoli ngati chovuta.
Osanamizira
Cholakwitsa chimodzi chomwe mumachita nthawi zambiri ndichinyengo pamaso pa mnzanu kuti palibe chomwe chalakwika. Apa ndipamene mukuganiza kuti kunamizira kungateteze ubale wanu kapena chifukwa choti simukufuna kuti mnzanu apweteke. Masewerawa akudziyesa amachititsa zoipa kuposa zabwino. Zitha kupulumutsa mnzako kuti asavulazidwe kwakanthawi kochepa koma pomwe masewerawa onamizira amangolakwika pang'ono, osadziwa ngakhale pang'ono, mudzakhala wokayikira kwambiri ndipo pamapeto pake mudzapweteketsa mnzanu kwambiri.
Ndiye m'malo mongonamizira, kambiranani ndi mnzanuyo. Chonde osakhala owongoka kwambiri ngati 'Hei, sindilinso mwa iwe, wandibereka!' Kuyankhula molondola ndi luso, ndikulumbira. Komabe, muyenera kulankhula ndi mnzanu m'njira yoti iwapweteke kwambiri. Muyenera kuti mukuganiza bwanji? Chifukwa chake muyenera kuwauza kuti mukudutsa gawo lovuta ndipo mgawoli mukufuna mnzanu akhale bwenzi yemwe angakuthandizeni kuti mutuluke. Khalani aulemu komanso muyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti mukuwonetsa wokondedwa wanu kuti mukufunadi kutuluka mgawoli pongopeza kanthawi kochepa kapena mungawauze kuti zomwe zili m'banjamo zimakukwiyitsani, kuti nonse awiri akhoza kuwagonjetsa.
Dzilamulireni
Mchigawo chino bambo amatha kunyenga. Inde, mumawerenga molondola. Amuna samangolakwitsa zomwe zalembedwa pamwambapa mwachitsanzo, kunamizira komanso kuyamba kuchita nawo zinthu. Tiyeni tingovomereza kuti m'gawo lino mutha kukopeka ndi atsikana ena. Mtima wanu ukhoza kuyamba kuthamanga kukakondana ndi wina, koma ino ndi nthawi yomwe muyenera kuyikapo KUKHALA KWAMBIRI. Nayi chikumbutso kwa inu: pamakhala kuzungulira muubwenzi uliwonse, mumadzimva kuti mukuchita nawo kenako mumadzimva kuti simukukhudzidwa. Ngakhale mutakhala pachibwenzi kangati, kuzungulira uku kudzadzibwereza (ngati ubalewo ndiwanthawi yayitali). Choncho phunzirani kudziletsa. Palibe vuto kukopeka ndi munthu wina wosakwatirana naye chifukwa mwina sizingakhale m'manja mwanu, koma sizoyenera kuyankhapo pazomwe mukumva! Muyenera kuthana ndi malingaliro amenewo. Ndikhulupirireni momwe mungathere, zonse muyenera kuchita ndikuyesetsa m'masiku / masabata oyambilira kenako malingaliro awa adzatha. Mwamuna woyenera azidzilamulira nthawi zonse chifukwa cha mkazi wake ndipo azikhala wokhulupirika munthawi yovutayi. Ganizirani zambiri za akazi anu; Dzikumbutseni za kufunikira kwake komanso zomwe amayenera kulandira, mwamuna wonyenga kapena mwamuna wokhulupirika komanso wachikondi? Yesetsani kudziyika nokha munthawi ya mkazi wanu ndikudzifunsa nokha momwe mungamvere atayamba kukondana ndi mwamuna wina?
Nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti zikhalidwe zanu ndizosiyana ndi inu. Zomwe mumadutsa muubwenzi wanu zimangochitika ndi inu. Momwemonso, ndinu woweruza wabwino kwambiri kuthetsa mavuto am'banja kapena maubwenzi. Chokhacho ndichakuti mukhale ndi cholinga choyenera chomwe ndi kupulumutsa ubale wanu. Ngati mukuyang'ana kwambiri posunga ubale wanu, palibe kuchepa kwa mwayi.