Zamkati
- 1. Chepetsani chiwerengero cha zoseweretsa zomwe ali nazo
- 2. Athandizeni kuyamba kukonda kuwerenga
- 3. Kupanga nthawi ndi danga la zaluso (ndi kunyong'onyeka)
- 4. Limbikitsani zolakwa zawo
- 5. Chepetsani nthawi yawo yophimba
- 6. Limbikitsani mafunso awo
- 7. Ganizirani momwe mungapangire luso lanu
M'dziko labwino, ana athu onse atha kukhala aluso mofananamo, opanga, komanso okonda kudziwa zinthu.
Zowona, inu, monga makolo, mutha kuchonderera njira zambiri zolimbikitsira chidwi cha ana anu, komanso zikhalidwe zina.
Izi zikukhala zofunikira kwambiri mdziko lomwe lakhazikika pantchito komanso masiku omalizira kuposa kulera ndi kulera ana opanga. Dziko lomwe nthawi zambiri silichita bwino m'malo oletsedwa komanso owongoleredwa.
Tiyeni tiwone maupangiri amomwe mungalerere ana opanga mwaluso ndikuthandizira mwanayo kulingalira kwawo:
Kodi zaluso zimachokera kuti?
Kuti timvetsetse bwino zaluso, choyamba tiyenera kuwona komwe adachokera.
Asayansi atha kutsimikizira kuti gawo lalikulu lazinthu zachilengedwe ndizabadwa. Tikudziwanso mwamphamvu kuti anthu ena amangopanga kuposa ena ndipo kuti ena amabadwa ndi maluso ena alibe. Tikunena pano za luso mu nyimbo, masewera, zolemba, zaluso, ndi zina zambiri.
Komabe, ena adzakhala opanga bwino m'malo ena kuposa ena. Monga makolo, ntchito yathu ndikuzindikira komwe ana athu ali ndi luso komanso momwe angakhalire ndi luso la ana powathandiza kugwiritsa ntchito maluso awa (kapena pang'ono) momwe angafunire.
Kumbali inayi, aliyense atha kukhala waluso kwambiri, ana ndi akulu omwe mofananamo - mwina sangakhale ndi talente inayake, koma mutha kuthandiza ana anu kukhala opanga komanso okonda kudziwa zambiri.
Zachidziwikire, tisaiwale kuti mwana wanu sangakonde kuyang'ana pa maluso awo obadwa nawo. Ngakhale tingaone kuti ndiz manyazi kuwalola kuti awonongeke, tiyenera kutsogozedwa ndi zokonda zawo komanso zofuna zawo, osati mphatso zawo zachilengedwe zokha.
Ndizokhudza kupeza bwino pakati pa zomwe angafune kuchita, ndi zomwe akuchita bwino, ndipo ndizovuta zomwe zimakhala zovuta.
Komabe, tiwonetsetsa kuti tikulera anthu okhutira komanso okhazikika omwe sadzakhumudwitsidwa ngati achikulire kapena sanakhale ndi mwayi wogwiritsa ntchito maluso ndi maluso awo mwanjira inayake.
Ndipo tsopano pazomwe mungachite kuti mulimbikitse ndikulimbikitsa kulingalira kwa ana, m'njira yayitali kwambiri.
1. Chepetsani chiwerengero cha zoseweretsa zomwe ali nazo
Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti ana omwe anali ndi zidole zochepa zoti azisewera nawo amasewera ndi zidole izi kwanthawi yayitali ndipo nthawi zambiri amachita zinthu zambiri zopanga ana kuposa ana ang'ono omwe anali ndi mitundu yambiri yazopezeka mu dipatimenti yazoseweretsa.
Ndingathenso kutengera chitsanzo ichi ndi china, chotsutsana kwambiri ndi sayansi.
M'buku lake lofotokoza mbiri yakale, Agatha Christie amafotokoza zomwe amakumana nazo monga munthu wamkulu wachikulire yemwe ali ndi ana ang'ono omwe amadandaula zakunyong'onyeka, ngakhale apatsidwa zoseweretsa zambiri.
Amaziyerekeza ndi iyemwini, yemwe anali ndi zidole zochepa koma amatha kuthera nthawi yayitali akusewera ndi hoop yake pa zomwe amatcha Tubular Railway (gawo lamunda wake), kapena kupanga nkhani za atsikana achinyengo komanso zanthano zawo pasukulu yongoyerekeza.
Monga ndikuyembekeza kuti tonse titha kuvomereza kuti Mfumukazi Yachiwawa, mosakayikira, ndi m'modzi mwa anthu opanga maluso omwe adakhalapo padziko lapansi pano, zikuwoneka kuti pali china chake chonenedwa pakupereka zoseweretsa zochepa kuti cholinga chake chikhale chowonjezera kusewera kwaulere mwa ana athu.
2. Athandizeni kuyamba kukonda kuwerenga
Kuwerenga ndi chizolowezi chopindulitsa kwambiri kupanga, ndipo mukangoyamba kumene ana anu m'mabuku, zimakhala bwino.
Pamene mwana wanu amadziwa zambiri za dziko lapansi komanso zomwe zingatheke komanso za maiko omwe sali enieni koma osangalatsa mofananamo, nyumba zabwino zomwe amakhala nazo pamasewera ndi malingaliro awo.
Muyenera kuyamba kuwerenga ndi ana anu msanga, ngakhale asanabadwe. Pamene akukula, onetsetsani kuti mukugwiritsabe chizolowezi chowerengera limodzi. Izi zimanga zokumbukira zosangalatsa ndikupanga mayanjano abwino ndi kuwerenga.
Momwe mungapangire ana kukonda kuwerenga?
Yang'anani pamitundu iwiri yamabuku mofanana: omwe amabwera monga momwe angawerengere msinkhu wa mwana wanu, ndi mabuku omwe akufuna kuwerenga.
Kuwerenga zokha zomwe mukuwona kuti muyenera kuchita nthawi zina kumatha kutulutsa zochitikazo, chifukwa chake kusiya zina zomwe mungakonde ndikofunikira.
Muthanso kudziwitsa ena mabuku omvekera bwino omwe angawathandize kumvetsetsa mawu ndi malankhulidwe, ndikuwathandiza kumvetsetsa zomwe adabatizidwa.
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3. Kupanga nthawi ndi danga la zaluso (ndi kunyong'onyeka)
Ndondomeko yokhayokha imasiya mpata wazambiri zaluso, chifukwa chake muyenera kukhala ndi nthawi yopatsa mwana wanu, makamaka, nthawi yoti akhale ana opanga.
Kusiya malo otseguka m'masiku a mwana wanu pomwe angathe kuchita zomwe akufuna kuchita ndiye njira yabwino. Kungakhale kovuta kukwaniritsa ndi moyo wathu wamakono koma cholinga chathu ndi theka la ola kapena ola, nthawi zambiri momwe zingathere.
Ino ndi nthawi yosewerera yaulere mukamalola mwana wanu kuti abwere ndi njira yawo yopitira nthawi.
Amatha kubwera kwa inu akunena kuti ali otopetsa koma osadandaula, ndichinthu chabwino.
Kunyong'onyeka kumatilola kuti tizilota masana, yomwe ndi njira yokhayo yodziwira zinthu. Zimaperekanso nthawi yanjira zatsopano zowonera zinthu ndi malingaliro atsopano oti abadwe, chifukwa chake khalani osungulumwa.
Ponena za malo opanga, ili likhoza kukhala desiki komwe mumakhala ndi mitundu yonse yamakrayoni, mapensulo, mapepala, zotchinga, zaluso, mitundu, ndi china chilichonse chomwe mungaganize kuti akhoza kusewera nacho ndikupanga china chake ndi manja awo.
Mungafune kusankha malo omwe angawonongeke komanso kukhala odetsedwa, omwe simukuyenera kuyeretsa nthawi iliyonse yamasewera.
Onaninso: Momwe mungapangire ana malo opanga.
4. Limbikitsani zolakwa zawo
Ana omwe amawopa kulephera nthawi zambiri amakhala ocheperako ana, chifukwa luso lawo limakhala ndi zoyesayesa zina zolephera.
M'malo modzudzula zolephera zawo, aphunzitseni kuti kulephera ndichinthu chabwinobwino, kuyembekezeredwa, ndipo musawope.
Pomwe saopa zolakwa zawo, pamakhala mwayi woti ayesere china chatsopano ndikupeza njira zosayesedwa zothetsera vuto.
5. Chepetsani nthawi yawo yophimba
Ngakhale kuli ndi zabwino zina pakuwonera mitundu ina yazithunzi, kuchepetsa nthawi yomwe mwana wanu amakhala patsogolo pazenera kumawonjezera luso lawo, popeza amatha kuchita zina (monga kusungulumwa).
Osadula nthawi yophimba - koma yesetsani kuzichita bwino ndi mtundu wina wa zochitika momwe mungathere, ndipo lingalirani kuwonera chojambula, m'malo mongokonzekera nthawi zonse.
6. Limbikitsani mafunso awo
Monga ana, timakonda kukayikira chilichonse. Tiyenera kuti tidapatsa makolo athu kupweteketsa mutu ndikupumira, kuwafunsa kuti afotokoze komwe ana amachokera, ndipo chifukwa chiyani thambo limakhala labuluu.
Komabe, awa ndi mitundu yamifunso yomwe ingathandize kwambiri kulimbikitsa ana opanga. Amangonena zambiri za chidwi chawo, chidwi chawo, komanso chidwi chawo padziko lapansi.
Akabwera kwa inu ndi funso, nthawi zonse amayankha moona mtima. Ngati mulibe yankho, alimbikitseni kuti apeze okha (ngati ali okalamba mokwanira), kapena onetsetsani kuti mupeze yankho limodzi.
Izi ziwaphunzitsa kuti kufunsa za dziko lomwe akukhalamo nthawi zonse ndi ntchito yolandiridwa, luso lomwe angapindule nalo atakula.
7. Ganizirani momwe mungapangire luso lanu
Pomaliza, ana anu opanga amatha kupindulanso ndi inu, poganizira luso lanu ndi momwe mumalifotokozera.
Kodi muli ndi malo ogulitsira? Kodi mumalemba, kuphika, kuluka nyama zazing'ono? Sewerani chida, ndikuchita ma caricature abwino kwambiri, fotokozerani nkhani zododometsa zamanja? Kaya talente yanu ndi yotani, onetsetsani kuti mwana wanu akukuwonani mukuigwiritsa ntchito, ndipo ndiolandilidwa kuti agwirizane nayo.
Komanso, onetsetsani kuti mukuganizira momwe mumasewera nawo. Ana amapangika mwachilengedwe kuposa achikulire, monga ife, mwatsoka, timatha kusinthiratu luso lathu kuti tikwaniritse bwino dziko la achikulire.
Mwana wanu amatenga galimoto yoseweretsa ndikudziyesa kuti ikuyenda pansi pamadzi. Osati china chake chomwe chingakhale chibadwa chanu choyamba.
Dziphunzitseni nokha kuti mutsegule malingaliro anu kuti athe kupanga zinthu zina ndikutenganso zina mwazodabwitsa zomwe tonsefe timabadwa nazo.
Mwachidule
Pomaliza, ngakhale maluso ambiri a mwana wanu komanso luso lobadwa nalo lidzadalira mtundu wawo, ngati mupitiliza kulimbikitsa ana opanga, malingaliro ndi mayankho omwe tsiku lina angadzakhale nawo angangokusiyani mantha.