Zamkati
- Kuwonetsa maubale
- Kulimbana si vuto lililonse la anyamata onse
- 1. Mikangano
- 2. Sabotage
- 3. Amakulankhulani
- 4. Amakhala woseketsa
- 5. Amayamba kuyankhula modabwitsa
- 6. Sakulankhulanso zamtsogolo
- 7. Palibe kulumikizana
- 8. Mfundo yomaliza
Kodi ukwati wanu umakhala wosalimba, mwadzidzidzi? Mwina amuna anu
- Sindikufuna kulankhula nanu panonso
- Zikuwoneka kuti akuyang'ana dala kuti akukwiyireni pazinthu zing'onozing'ono
- Kodi wakhala akuwomba m'manja ndipo kucheza naye masiku ano akumakukakamiza?
Mwinanso mumamva ngati mukuyenera kukawedza kuti mukambirane kapena ngati mukufuna kumufunsa mafunso kuti muthe kudziwa zomwe mukufuna. Ndipo simukumva kuti mukumvetsera.
Mwakhala mukuganizira izi ... Ndipo chinthu chimodzi ndichachidziwikire, china chake sichili bwino. Mukuyamba kudzifunsa ngati angafune kutuluka muukwati. Tsoka ilo, mwina mwina simukulakwitsa.
Kuwonetsa maubale
Tsiku lililonse m'mayanjano ndi zovuta, abwenzi amabwera motsutsana ndi 'hinting'. Mukalandira mayankho ndi zisonyezo kuchokera kuzomwe mnzanu akuchita komanso mawu ake, zimakupatsani mwayi wodziwa zomwe zachitika; ngati mukuyang'ana ndikumvetsera.
Tsoka ilo, amayi ambiri samafuna kukhulupirira kuti zinthu zikuyenda molakwika. Ubale umakhala ndi chiyembekezo chambiri, chikhulupiriro chochuluka.
Ngakhale chiyembekezo ndi chikhulupiriro zitha kukhala mphamvu zakuchiritsira chibwenzi, choyipitsitsa chomwe mungachite pankhani yachikondi ndikudzinyenga nokha chisangalalo cha mamuna wanu.
Kulimbana si vuto lililonse la anyamata onse
Sikuti munthu aliyense amatuluka ndikufotokozera zakusakhutira ndi ubale.
Anyamata ena amangokhalira kulankhula zofooketsa m'malo mongoyankhula.
Adzatengera zifukwa, kukudzudzulani, kukunyalanyazani kapena kusiya kulumikizana.
Komanso, anyamata ambiri safuna kunyamula katundu wa kukhala omwe adathetsa ukwati. Chifukwa chake apereka maupangiri ambiri kuti salinso muubwenzi, akuyembekeza kuti mudzazindikira ndikuwasiya. Chifukwa chake, muyenera kudzidalira kuti mutanthauzire zomwe zili muubwenzi wanu. Akakuwuzani:
- Sindingathe kuchita chilichonse molondola
- Muyenera kukhala bwino
- Sindingakupatseni zomwe mukufuna
- Simukusangalala
- Sindikudziwa choti ndichite kenanso ....
Zonsezi ndizomwe zingakuthandizeni, ndipo mukuyenera kumvetsera ngati simukufuna kuti mukhale nawo pachibwenzi.
1. Mikangano
Mwamuna wanu akamakonzekera kutha nanu, amakwiya mwadala pazinthu zazing'ono kwambiri. Makangano amabwera makamaka mukamamufunsa mafunso omwe sangayankhe. Cholinga chake ndikupanga mikangano kuti apewe kukambirana nkhani zina nanu. Mkangano ukakulirakulira, ndipamene ayambe kunena zinthu monga:
'Sindikuganiza kuti izi zikuyenda bwino!' 'Kodi izi zilinso ndi phindu?' 'Mwinanso sindingakupatseni chimwemwe panonso!' 'Sindikudziwa ngati ndiwe kapena ine,' 'ndikuyesera momwe ndingathere kuti ndikhale munthu yemwe mukufuna kuti ndikhale; ndizovuta; ukuyembekezera zambiri kuchokera kwa ine. '
Kulimbana kosatha kosagwirizana kumeneku pamapeto pake kudzafika pena paliponse 'pomwe', pomwe samasamaliranso zotsatira za zotsutsana zanu.
Sanalinso ndiubwenzi, ndipo samasamala zakuti mavuto pakati pa inu nonse athetsedwa kapena ayi. Mukabweretsa china chake, amangogwedeza mapewa ake ndikukuyankhulani kapena kungochokapo.
2. Sabotage
Wokondedwa akafuna chibwenzi, amachita zinthu mosadziwa kapena mwadala kuti awononge chibwenzicho. Amatha kunena kuti akufuna kukhala mpaka nkhope yawo yabuluu, koma chilankhulo ndi zochita zawo zimakuwuzani zina.
3. Amakulankhulani
Mudzawona kuti mwamuna wanu samasamalanso za momwe mumamvera. Zonse mwadzidzidzi, amakhala akulondola, ndipo inu mumalakwitsa nthawi zonse.
Bwerani ndi projekiti yomwe mumakondwera nayo, ndipo akupangirani jabs za momwe simudapangidwira. Yesetsani kukambirana naye, mukasemphana maganizo, ndipo akuwuzani kuti malingaliro anu ndiopusa. Ngati akupangitsani kuti muzimva kuti ndinu opanda nzeru komanso osakwanira, safunikiranso kuti ubale wanu ukhale wogwira ntchito.
4. Amakhala woseketsa
Ankakonda kukusekani, ndipo mumakonda nthabwala zake zoseketsa. Komabe, nthabwala zake zidayamba kutanthauzira mwano pang'ono.
Amapanga nthabwala zosasangalatsa za kulemera kwanu, mawonekedwe anu, maphunziro ake ndikukufananitsani ndi anzanu.
Adzagwiritsa ntchito nthabwala kuti alankhule uthenga wosalimbikitsa womwe sakanatha kugawana nawo.
Inde anganene kuti akungokusekani, koma mutha kudziwa kuti akudziwa bwino kuti akukuvutitsani.
5. Amayamba kuyankhula modabwitsa
Amuna anu ayamba kusiya zodabwitsazi zomwe zikuyenera kuwonetsa mabelu alamu.
‘Ubale sayenera kukhala ntchito yochuluka chotere! '
Mverani munthu wanu mwachidwi ndikukhulupirira zomwe akukuuzani. Amayi ambiri amalakwitsa poganiza kuti atha kusintha malingaliro amwamuna kapena kuti vutoli litha ngati atanyalanyaza. Malangizo ndi njira yamunthu wanu yoyikira maziko a chibwenzi.
6. Sakulankhulanso zamtsogolo
Ichi mwina ndichizindikiro chofunikira kwambiri komabe kuti kutha kwayandikira. Ngati apewa kukambirana nanu zamtsogolo, ndiye kuti zikutanthauza kuti sakukuwonani mtsogolo mwake.
Tsogolo pano siliyeneranso kukhala lachindunji.
Mudzawona kuti bambo anu salankhulanso za maulendo ndi zoimbaimba zomwe mudapitapo limodzi.
Mukafunsa, adzakhala wosamveka bwino. Ichi ndi chisonyezo chodziwikiratu chosadzipereka kwa abambo anu, ndipo zinthu zimangowonjezereka kuchokera pamenepo.
7. Palibe kulumikizana
Mwamuna yemwe sanayikenso pachibwenzi amapewa kuyankhula nanu pokhapokha zikafunika. Ngakhale mutayesa kuyambitsa zokambirana, monga momwe tsiku lake linayendera adzakupatsani yankho limodzi.
Dziwani kuti bambo yemwe sakuganiza zamtsogolo nanu sangolankhula zazinthu zazikulu m'moyo wake, komanso zazing'ono.
8. Mfundo yomaliza
Maukwati ndi ovuta, ndipo sakhala angwiro. Komabe, moyo ndi waufupi kwambiri kuti ungakangamire pachibwenzi chomwe simukudziwa. Ndizomvetsa chisoni kuti munthu wanu wanena zinthu zomwe zikuwonetsa kuti akupita, ndipo mwaganiza kuti mpaka atalongosola momveka bwino, mwayi ulipo.
Kuyika zonse kwa mnyamata yemwe samatha kulimba mtima kuti azilongosole ndi kupewa udindo.
Ndiudindo wanu monga munthu woyang'anira moyo wanu kuti mumvetsere ndikuchita zomwe anzanu amapereka.
Kumvetsera mwachidwi ku mayankho muubwenzi wanu kumakuthandizani kuti musadzigulitse. Kumbukirani, kusintha kwa chilankhulo ndi munthu wanu kumakupatsani mitu yonena zakomwe ali. Khulupirirani lingaliro; khulupirirani chiweruzo chanu.