Zamkati
- Zinthu zimasintha kwa okwatirana mwana akabadwa
- Kutenga nthawi yocheza wina ndi mnzake
- Pitirizani kukondana
- Sangalalani ndi chibwenzi
- Tchuthi chaching'ono nthawi ndi nthawi
- Sangalalani ndi moyo wosangalala
- Onerani makanema ambiri
- Samalanani
- Kutenga nthawi ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha
- Osayimba mlandu
- Atanena zonsezi
Ukwati ndiwongoyambitsa banja ndipo umaphatikizapo ana. Sizikudziwika kuti banja lililonse limakonzekera ana m'maganizo awo panjira yonseyi.
Anthu amakumana, amakondana ndikukwatirana. Zaka zochepa zoyambira nthawi zambiri zimakhala nthawi yamatsenga kwambiri pabanja lililonse. Ali ndi maudindo ochepa, nthawi yambiri yaulere ndipo safunikira kulangidwa kwamtundu uliwonse. Mwamuna ndi mkazi amangokhala okhaokha mpaka atakhala kholo.
Zinthu zimasintha kwa okwatirana mwana akabadwa
Mayi amafunika kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yake yambiri ndi mphamvu zake kusamalira ana.
Ayenera kuthera tsiku lake monga mwa chizolowezi cha mwana komanso zosowa zake. Kudzuka ndikugona ndi mwana, kudyetsa mwanayo, kusamalira ukhondo ndi zina zambiri. Mndandanda ukupitilira. Ndizowonjezera ndalama, maudindo azachuma amakhalanso ovuta kwambiri.
Onse mwamuna ndi mkazi amayenera kugwira ntchito pazochitika zonse modzipereka kuti apatse mwana moyo wathanzi komanso wathanzi.
Mwa izi zonse, nthawi zina, chikondi, chisangalalo ndi chikondi pakati pa okwatirana zimatha. Ndi zachilengedwe ndipo si zachilendo. Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe anthu okwatirana omwe ali ndi ana amatha kupeza mtunda pakati pawo.
Kodi okwatirana aliwonse amafuna kuti izi zichitike? Inde sichoncho.
Ndiye timatani kuti titsitsimutse lawi ndikubwezeretsanso chisangalalo muubwenzi? Pali njira zambiri zosangalalira ndi chibwenzi mpaka muyaya ngakhale titakhala ndi ana ngati tiwongola zinthu zofunika kwambiri.
Kutenga nthawi yocheza wina ndi mnzake
Kukhala ndi mwana kumatha kusintha zonse. Makamaka kupezeka kwa nthawi. Padzakhala nthawi yaulere yocheperako, makamaka ya amayi. Ndi ntchito yanthawi zonse kukhala mayi wopanda nthawi yopuma. Izi ziwunikiranso za banjachibwenzi.
Pofuna kuthana ndi vutoli, anthu okwatirana akhoza kukonzekera tsiku kapena chakudya chamadzulo kapena china chilichonse chomwe angafune kuchitira limodzi.
Ziyenera kufotokozedwanso apa, kuti ntchitoyi, ngakhale itakhala iti, iyenera kukonzedwa popanda mwanayo. Kukonzekera pasadakhale ndikukonzekera moyenera kumapangitsa chilichonse kukhala chosalala komanso chopanda mavuto.
Kuonetsetsa kuti chizoloŵezichi chimasungidwa pafupipafupi, kukhazikitsa tsiku kapena madeti mwezi uliwonse zitha kuthandiza kwambiri. Ingodikirani usiku wa tsiku ndikumvanso matsenga aja.
Pitirizani kukondana
Anthu onse okwatirana, mosasamala kanthu za moyo womwe amakhala pambuyo pa zaka zisanu mpaka zisanu ndi ziwiri zaukwati wawo, angavomereze chinthu chimodzi. Gawo losangalala kwambiri muukwati wawo linali banja loyamba la chaka atakwatirana. Panali chikondi, kukondana, chisamaliro, kukondana ndipo koposa zonse kunalibe kusagwirizana.
Maluwa, chakudya chamakandulo, mphatso nthawi ndi nthawi komanso koposa zonse, kuthera nthawi yayitali limodzi kuthandizira kwambiri kuwalitsa. Ndiye bwanji oswa mwambowu tsopano. Kumbukirani masiku anu amatsenga ndikubwereza zomwe mumakonda kwambiri. Achikondi kutali.
Sangalalani ndi chibwenzi
Kukondana kumathandiza kwambiri kuti banja likhale losangalala.
Sangalalani ndi anzanu momwe mungathere. Zimathandizira kwambiri kulimbitsa ubale pakadutsa nthawi yayitali.
Zimathandiza kupanga kulumikizana kwamatsenga pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Imvani matsenga ndikukhala mwamantha kwathunthu. Yesani zinthu.
Tchuthi chaching'ono nthawi ndi nthawi
Tchuthi chamabanja ndichofunikira.
Yesetsani kukonzekera tchuthi osachepera kawiri pachaka. Zimathandizira kumasuka ndikupereka kupumula kuzinthu zatsiku ndi tsiku. Tchuthi imatha kukhala nthawi yabwino kwambiri kuti muthane ndi mavuto anu omwe sanathetsedwe.
Anthu osangalala komanso omasuka ndiosavuta kuyandikira komanso kuwatsimikizira. Zimayenda mbali zonse ziwiri.
Sangalalani ndi moyo wosangalala
Yendani mozungulira mzanu kwambiri. Zambiri zowonjezera. Anzanu amatha kukupatsani mphamvu zambiri. Ndikudziwa sizikumveka bwino koma kukwatiwa, kukhala ndi mwana ndikuganiza zamtsogolo zachuma, zitha kukhala zotopetsa kwambiri.
Anzanu osangalala okuzungulirani adzakupatsani mphamvu kuti mupitilize.
Onerani makanema ambiri
Mwina sizingamveke kuti ndi anzeru koma kuwonera makanema pamodzi ndichothandiza kwambiri kuti mulimbitse chibwenzi chanu.
Kukhala pansi mumdima, kugwirana chanza, kusangalala ndi zomwe zimakugwedezani mkati mwanu moyipa mano anu amalankhula. Wabwino komanso wokhudza. Chitani momwe mungathere.
Samalanani
Kusamalirana kumapangitsa zonse kukhala bwino. Ndi njira yoyenera yosonyezera momwe wokondedwa wanu alili wofunika kwa inu. Kuthandiza nthawi ndi nthawi muzinthu zazing'ono, kungolankhula zopanda pake komanso kuyang'ana zaumoyo wa wina ndi mnzake ndikofunikira.
Kuti titamande tiyenera kuwomba m'manja. Kutanthauza, moyo umakhala ndi zovuta zomwezo kwa onse omwe ali pachibwenzi chilichonse, osachepera sayenera kutenga chilichonse mopepuka.
Kutenga nthawi ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha
Kupatsana malo ndibwino. Njira yabwino yochitira izi ndikulimbikitsa mnzanu kuti azicheza ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo.
Mkazi ndi zibwenzi zake komanso mwamuna ndi zibwenzi zake. Izi zimakupatsani mwayi wokhutira wosataya moyo wanu waufulu komanso wakale nthawi yomweyo ndikusangalala ndi moyo wabanja watsopano.
Osayimba mlandu
Zinthu zimatha kusokonekera nthawi ndi nthawi. Sili pansi paulamuliro wa wina aliyense.
Chifukwa chake, tengani kanthawi ndikuganiza musanalankhule wina ndi mnzake zomwe zimamveka ngati zonenezana. Zingapangitse zinthu kukhala zovuta.
Atanena zonsezi
Nthawi zina timakonza chinthu china ndikakumana ndi china chake kwathunthu.
Nthawi zina zonse zimayenda chimodzimodzi momwe timakonzera. Momwe mungapangire zabwino pazinthu zonse ndiye vuto lalikulu pano. Mukagwira chonchi ndi mphamvu yoyenera, moyo udzakhala nyimbo.
Maubwenzi amafunika nthawi ndi kuleza mtima, ziribe kanthu kuti ndi zatsopano kapena zakale bwanji. Apatseni nthawi kuti apume ndipo akhale olemera komanso osowa bwino ngati vinyo wabwino kwambiri komanso wakale kwambiri wopangidwa ndi mphesa zabwino kwambiri zaku Italiya.