Zamkati
- Chifukwa chiyani tikusowa malumbiro achikwati oseketsa
- Momwe mungaperekere malumbiro achikwati oseketsa
- Ukwati woseketsa umalonjeza malingaliro oti uganizire
- Zinthu zofunika kukumbukira
Kuyenda pamsewu, kuyimirira pafupi ndi guwa lansembe, ndikupita kumalumbiro anu aukwati kumafuna kudzipereka kwakukulu. Koma, sizinalembedwe kulikonse kuti malumbiro osangalatsa aukwati amachepetsa kukula kwa kudzipereka kwanu.
Aliyense angafune kupanga malumbiro akulu aukwati patsiku laukwati wawo; tsikuli kukhala limodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri pamoyo wanu.
Ndipo, malumbiro aukwati ndi chidziwitso poyera cha chikondi chanu kwa mnzanu. Chifukwa chake, anthu ambiri amafuna kuwonetsa kukula ndi kuwona mtima kwodzipereka kwawo kuti adzakwatirana mwalamulo kwa moyo wawo wonse kudzera malumbiro awo aukwati.
Koma, tsopano pakusintha kwa nthawi, anthu akusuntha malumbiro aukwati okhudza kwambiri kapena malumbiro a archetypal kupita kumalumbiro oseketsa aukwati.
Chifukwa chake, maanja akufuna kuti ukwati wawo ukhale chithunzi cha omwe ali, pokhudzana ndi mawonekedwe awo, umunthu wawo, komanso nthabwala. Ndipo, ungakhale mwayi wabwino bwanji kuposa chilengezo choseketsa chaukwati, choseketsa chisangalalo.
Chifukwa chiyani tikusowa malumbiro achikwati oseketsa
Ngakhale maukwati amakhala osangalatsa, atha kukhala osangalatsa chifukwa ndiwofunika kwambiri m'moyo. Mitsempha yophatikizidwa ndi kukula kwa malingaliro ochokera pansi pamtima amatha kuseka pang'ono.
Njira yabwino yolumikizirana nthawi yosangalala muukwati wanu ndi malumbiro achikwati oseketsa.
Kaya pali malonjezo oseketsa aukwati kwa iye kapena malonjezo oseketsa aukwati kwa iye, zonsezi zitha kuthandiza kukhazika mtima pansi aliyense ndikuchepetsa mwambo wachikwati wachikhalidwe kwa omwe abwera.
Komanso malumbiro aukwati amatha kukhala oseketsa komanso osangalatsa nthawi yomweyo. Zomwe mukusowa ndi malonjezo angapo oseketsa aukwati kuti misuzi yakapangidwe ikuyenda ndipo pamapeto pake, akusungani inu, omwe mudzakhale nawo banja, banja, komanso abwenzi mukuseka.
Momwe mungaperekere malumbiro achikwati oseketsa
Ngati mulibe fupa loseketsa, komabe mukufuna kulemba 'malumbiro achikwati oseketsa' kapena 'malonjezo oseketsa aukwati kwa iye', kuti chisangalalo cha mnzanu, mutha kuyang'ana zitsanzo za malumbiro achikwati oseketsa ndikulimbikitsidwa.
Kaya mukukongoletsa malonjezo oseketsa aukwati kapena mukulemba malumbiro anu aukwati, malumbiro achikondi oseketsa akukondweretsadi.
Chifukwa chake, ngati mukupeza kuti mukuwala koma simukutha kupanga china chokongola, sakatulani malonjezo oseketsa aukwati. Simuyenera kuchita kutengera ndendende, koma khalani okonzeka.
Pezani nthawi yokhala panokha ndikuganiza za wokondedwa wanu, umunthu wawo, zomwe amakonda, ndi zomwe sakonda. Uwu ndi mphindi yabwino kwambiri pomwe mungalankhule moseketsa za zoyipa zawo, pokhapokha ngati ndizosavuta komanso angakusangalatseni pang'ono ndi mchere.
Ndiyeno, ndi mtima wanu wonse yesetsani kulemba zomwe zimabwera m'maganizo mwanu mukamaganizira za mnzanu. Mukamaliza kulemba mfundo zina, mutha kutenga nthawi kuti muzisewera nazo ndikupanga malonjezo anu kukhala okongoletsa.
Chifukwa chake, werengani limodzi kuti muwone malumbiro osangalatsa aukwati omwe angakulimbikitseni ndikupita limodzi ndi tsiku lanu laukwati preps kuti tsiku lanu lalikulu likhale lapadera kwambiri.
Ukwati woseketsa umalonjeza malingaliro oti uganizire
"Ngakhale mumandipweteka tsiku ndi tsiku ndikuyesa misempha yanga pafupipafupi, sindingaganize zokhala moyo wanga wonse ndi wina aliyense ..."
Chitsanzo chodabwitsachi chaukwati ndi njira yabwino yoyambira ndikugwiritsanso ntchito kusintha kosangalatsa kumalonjezo okhudza kwambiri.
Kutsatira gawo ili, pitirizani kukumbukira pang'ono momwe moyo wanu udasinthira pamene nonse mudakumana, pitirizani kunena kuti mkwati / mkwatibwi ndiye mnzake weniweni kenako ndikulumbira kuti mudzamulemekeza, kumukonda, kumulemekeza ndi kumusamalira kapena kulonjeza chikondi chanu, ulemu, ndi kudzipereka.
Kuseka pang'ono kumapangitsa malonjezo kulemba kukhala kosavuta.
"Nditakumana nanu koyamba, sindidachita chidwi ..."
Iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yopezera malonjezo achikondi omwe mudalemba.
Kutsatira mzerewu (ndi kuseka), khudzani momwe mudamugwirira ndikugawana gawo la nkhani yachikondi. Kenako pitirizani kulumbira kwachikhalidwe monga kulonjeza chikondi, ulemu, ndi kudzipereka kwanu.
“Ndikutenga momwe ulili. Pambuyo pocheza nanu ndaphunzira kuti sindingachitire mwina. Ndikulonjeza kuti ndimakumverani nthawi zambiri ndikuthandizani nthawi zonse. Ndidzakukondani nthawi zonse, kugawana chimwemwe chanu, kupambana kwanu, zisoni zanu, ndikuchita zonse zotheka kukupangitsani kuseka mpaka mutalira. "
Kuwonjezera mawu oseketsa ndi njira yanzeru yochitira malumbiro oseketsa. Zimapangitsa kuti mukhale pachibwenzi chabwino komanso kukhala opanda nkhawa.
Zinthu zofunika kukumbukira
Malonjezo oseketsa aukwati malingaliro operekedwa adzalimbikitsanso mwambo waukwati wanu. Koma, musanapite kumalo oseketsa, pali zinthu zingapo zofunika kuziganizira.
Monga momwe tonse tikudziwira, nthabwala ziyenera kukhala zoyenera chifukwa chinthu choyamba chomwe mukufuna kuchita ndikulingalira komwe kuli mwambowo ndikufunsani ndi omwe akukuyang'anirani. Zipembedzo zina sizigwirizana ndi malumbiro omwe si achikhalidwe chawo.
Chachiwiri, ganizirani momwe mnzanu amaganizira. Kodi angakonde kuseka kwanu kapena kukhumudwa? Popeza likhala tsiku lofunika kwambiri kwa nonse, muyenera kusamala kuti nthabwala zanu zisawononge malingaliro awo
Chifukwa chake, samalani kuti musunge malonjezo anu achikwati kukhala opepuka komanso osanyodola kuti mumupweteketse mnzanuyo ndikuwapangitsa kukhala kukumbukira kwawo.
Chachitatu, lingalirani za alendo anu onse. Pofuna kupewa kuti aliyense akhale womangika, nthawi zonse onetsani nthabwala zoyera. Kupatula apo, ndiudindo wanu kuchereza alendo m'njira zonse.
Ndibwino kuti muyambe kuchita malonjezo anu ndi munthu amene mumamukhulupirira kuti muwone ngati akuchita zomwe mukufuna kuti alendo ena achite kuti mudziwe kuti mukuchita / kunena zinthu zoyenera.
Pomaliza, mutha kukhala ndi chizolowezi chokhazikika chomwe mwakonzekera koma onetsetsani kuti mwasintha. Nthabwala zimasungidwa bwino ndikufika pamlingo, makamaka zikafika pamalumbiro aukwati.