Zamkati
Maubale akutali ndi ovuta, koma kukonda wina patali ndi kovuta kwambiri. Sizokhudza mtunda wakuthupi. Ndizosiyana ndi ubale wautali. Chikondi chapatali ndi pamene pali zochitika zomwe zimakulepheretsani kukhala limodzi.
Zifukwazo sizofunikira. Zitha kukhala zosakhalitsa kapena kwamuyaya. Nkhani ndiyakuti, kumverera kwa chikondi kulipo, koma ubalewo siwotheka. Ndi nkhani yomveka bwino pamutu wopanga zisankho zomveka pamtima. Izi ndizomwe zimapatsa chikondi patali tanthauzo. Mtima ukangolowa, zinthu zimasintha.
Pali mitundu yambiri ya chikondi kuchokera patali. Zitsanzo zomwe zaperekedwazo zikuchokera kuzowonjezera za chikhalidwe cha Pop, ndipo zina mwazo ndizokhudza nkhani yoona.
Kumwamba ndi dziko lapansi
Ndipamene anthu awiri amikhalidwe yosiyana akukondana, koma dziko lapansi likutsutsana ndi ubale wawo. Pali zitsanzo ziwiri mu kanema "The Greatest Showman." Choyamba ndi pamene P.T. Barnum adakondana ndi mwana wamkazi wamalonda wolemera.
Makolo awo akutsutsana ndi ubalewo. Zomwezo zitha kunenedwanso kwa omwe amatchulidwa ndi Zac Efron ndi Zendaya kumapeto kwa kanema. Chikondi kuchokera patali ndi mtundu uwu chitha kubweretsa ubale wabwino ngati awiriwo agwira ntchito molimbika kuti avomerezedwe potseka kusiyana pakati pa anzawo.
Khodi yolemekezeka
Mufilimuyi "Chikondi Kwenikweni," Rick the Zombie Slayer ali mchikondi ndi mkazi wa mnzake wapamtima. Adawonetsa chikondi ichi pokhala wopanda chikondi komanso wotalikirana ndi mkazi uja kwinaku akusungabe ubale wake wapamtima ndi mwamunayo. Amadziŵa mmene akumvera, ndipo amachita dala motero kuti mkaziyo amuda.
Pali zifukwa zingapo zochitira momwe amachitira. Safuna kuti banjali lizindikire zakukhosi kwake. Amadziwa kuti zimangobweretsa mikangano. Chofunika koposa, amadziwa kuti malingaliro ake sanabwezeredwe ndipo sakufuna kutaya chisangalalo cha mnzake wapamtima ndi mkazi wake chifukwa cha wake.
Onerani kanema kuti mudziwe zomwe zidachitika kumapeto. Ndi chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri cha chikondi kuchokera patali mawu omwe wolemba ndakatulo Federico Garcia Lorca,
"Kupsa ndi chikhumbo ndikukhala chete za ichi ndi chilango chachikulu kwambiri chomwe tingadzibweretsere tokha."
Chikondi choyamba sichimafa
Mufilimuyi "Pali Chinachake Chokhudza Maria," Ben Stiller adakumana mwachidule ndi High School Idol Mary, yomwe idasewera ndi Cameron Diaz. Amakhala moyo wake wonse akumuganizira ndipo sanataye mtima, koma osachita chilichonse. Zomwezo zitha kunenedwanso za kanema wa "Forrest Gump," pomwe Tom Hanks akuchita imodzi mwamaudindo ake apamwamba ngati ulemu sanataye chikondi chake choyamba, Jenny.
Anthu omwe ali mchikondi choyamba samwalira mtundu wachikondi patali ndikusunthira miyoyo yawo. Nthawi zina amakwatira ndikukhala ndi ana. Komabe, sizimasintha mfundo kuti mobwerezabwereza amakumbukira kuti munthu m'modzi yemwe adamukonda ali mwana, koma sanakhalepo ndiubwenzi.
Wowonerera
Mufilimuyi "Mzinda wa Angelo," mngelo yemwe adasewera ndi Nicholas Cage amakondana ndi dokotala yemwe adasewera ndi Meg Ryan. Munthu wosafa yemwe amakhala kwamuyaya akuwona anthu adachita chidwi ndi munthu wina, ndipo pomwe akutumikira ngati mngelo, amakhala nthawi yayitali akuwonera Meg Ryan patali ndikumulakalaka.
Chipani china mwachiwonekere sichikudziwa kuti alipo. Olembawo akupitilizabe ndiubwenzi umodzi womwe onse amakhala moyo wawo pomwe wina amakhala nthawi yawo akuyang'ana mnzake kumbuyo. Ndiko tanthauzo lachikale la chikondi patali.
Ambiri owonerera amatha pomwe apeza njira zokumana nazo ndi chidwi chawo. Pomwe winayo azindikira zakupezeka kwawo, woyang'anirayo amasintha kukhala chikondi china kuchokera patali, ndipo nthawi zambiri, chimodzi mwazomwe zili pansipa.
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Zoletsa
Pakusintha kwamakanema a "Imfa ku Venice," Dirk Bogarde amasewera wojambula wokalamba (ndizosiyana m'mabuku ndi makanema, koma onse ndi ojambula) omwe adaganiza zokhala masiku ake onse ku Venice. Pambuyo pake amakumana ndi kukondana ndi mnyamata wina Tadzio. Amachita zomwe angathe kuti akope chidwi cha mnyamatayo kwinaku akumuganizira zachinsinsi. Amadziwa kuti momwe akumvera ndizosavomerezeka ndipo angangonena kuti ndimakukondani patali.
Munthu wamkuluyo akudziwa kuti akulephera kuwongolera mphamvu zake ndikutsutsana ndi zikhumbo zake ndi malingaliro ake. Onerani kanema kuti mudziwe zomwe zinachitika. Ili ndi imodzi mwama kanema abwino kwambiri nthawi zonse.
Kumbali inayi, mu kanema, "The Crush" yemwe ali ndi Alicia Silverstone ali wachichepere amakhala ndi chidwi chambiri komanso chosayenera kwa Cary Elwes wachikulire. Iyamba ngati mtundu uwu wachikondi kuchokera patali womwe pamapeto pake umasintha kukhala mtundu wotsatira komanso wowopsa.
Wotsata
Mufilimuyi "The Crush" chikondi chimasanduka chizolowezi chopanda thanzi chomwe chidasandutsa poizoni ndikuwononga. Mufilimu ya Robin Williams yotchedwa "One Hour Photo," Mtundu wowonererayo amasinthanso kukhala mtundu wowopsawu womwe umakhala ndi machitidwe owononga komanso owopsa.
Pali njira zolemekezeka komanso zolemekezeka zamomwe mungakondere wina patali. Kumbali ina ya sipekitiramu, ndizotheka kuti chikondi chosafunsidwacho chimasanduka chizolowezi chowopsa. Pali zikwi zambiri zaumbanda wokonda kukondana padziko lonse lapansi. Ndi mzere woonda pakati pazokonda komanso kutengeka.
Mukakopeka ndi wina, ndipo pamapeto pake chimakhala chikondi patali, onetsetsani kuti mukuwonera makanema onse omwe atchulidwa munkhaniyi. Pali mathero abwino, mathero oyipa, ndi mathero oyipa. Chitani zomwe mungathe kuti mupewe zolakwitsa zomwe anthu omwe adawonetsedwa mufilimu omwe adabweretsa kumapeto oyipa.
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