Zamkati
- Zizindikiro zogonana
- Kodi kugonana sikuti:
- Zikhulupiriro zina zodziwika bwino zakugonana:
- Achinyamata komanso chibwenzi
- Kodi zimakhala bwanji kukhala pachibwenzi ndi asexual?
Kugonana ndi chizolowezi chogonana komwe munthu alibe chidwi chogonana. Sitiyenera kusokonezedwa ndi munthu amene sachita umbeta (titi, pazifukwa zachipembedzo) kapena munthu amene sagonana (chifukwa cha matenda, zochitika, zifukwa zachipembedzo kapena kusankha dala). Achiwerewere samakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo, ngakhale ali angathe kukhala nawo mabwenzi komanso ngakhale maubale. Izi siziphatikizapo gawo logonana. Amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amapezeka m'magulu onse azachuma, olemera mpaka osauka, ophunzira komanso osaphunzira. Amayimira 1% ya anthu padziko lonse lapansi. Savala zovala zapadera zomwe zimawapangitsa kuti azizindikirika; M'malo mwake, amatchedwa "mawonekedwe osawoneka."
Zizindikiro zogonana
Kuthamangitsidwa ndi chiyani:
Monga zizindikiritso zonse zakugonana, lingaliro lakugonana limapezeka pamitundu ingapo. Ma asexuals ambiri, omwe amadziwikanso kuti "maekala", amakhala kumapeto amodzi, pomwe amakhala ndi chidwi chogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Chilakolako chawo chogonana sichipezeka. Alibe chidwi chokhudza kukhudza thupi, safuna kukumbatirana, kukumbatirana kapena kupsompsona. Pali ena ochita zolaula, komabe, omwe ali ndi chikhumbo chokwanira chogonana kuti maliseche amawakwanira, koma alibe chidwi chogonana ndi ena.
Mosiyana ndi zomwe munthu angaganize, otsogola amafuna kulumikizana ndi anthu.
Ambiri amakhala otseguka pachibwenzi komwe kumpsompsona kapena kukumbatirana. Paziphuphu zilizonse zomwe zimadziwika kuti ndizonyansidwa kapena osasamala zogonana, pali ena omwe amakhala pachibwenzi ndipo amakhala ndi moyo wogonana, koma makamaka kuti asangalatse mnzake.
Nthawi zambiri, ngati amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi wokondedwa wawo, sangafune kupsompsona kapena kukumbatirana. Chilichonse chimawoneka chosasangalatsa kwa iwo.
Nthawi zambiri, ngati deti lawo livala china chotentha komanso chosangalatsa, sizimawakhudza konse.
Amasamala za umunthu wa tsiku lawo osati za thupi lawo.
Makanema oseketsa sawakhudza.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti mwina mungakhale acexual, nayi mafunso omwe angakuthandizeni kumvetsetsa:
- Kodi simusangalatsidwa ndi kugonana ndi munthu aliyense? (Osangokhala chifukwa chongotopetsa ndi mnzanu koma onse)
- Kodi chidwi chanu pa zogonana ndichasayansi kuposa zamalingaliro?
- Kodi mumamva kuti mukusiyidwa kapena kusokonezeka pamene ena akukambirana zogonana? Monga simukumvetsetsa zomwe zimayambitsa mkangano ndi sewero?
- Ngati munagonana, kodi mumkaganiza kuti ndizotopetsa kapena zosasangalatsa, osati zomwe ena adakumana nazo?
- Kodi mudayamba mwamvapo kuti mukuyenera kunamizira kugonana?
- Kodi mudamvapo ngati kuti china chake chalakwika ndi inu chifukwa simumagonana nawo ngati omwe amakhala nawo pafupi?
- Kodi mudakhalapo ndi munthu wina kapena munagonana chifukwa mumafuna kuwona zomwe ena amakamba, koma osati chifukwa choti zimangokhala ngati chinthu chachilengedwe?
- Kodi simukopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi ena?
- Kodi mumaona kuti simuyenera kuchita zogonana gawo la moyo wanu?
- Kodi mulibe chikhumbo chofuna kuyambitsa zochitika zogonana muubwenzi wanu?
Kodi kugonana sikuti:
- Kugonana sikofanana ndikudziletsa mwaufulu.
- Kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha siumbeta wodzifunira.
- Kugonana si matenda amisala
- Kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha si kusankha mwadala
- Kugonana sikumasiyana kwama mahomoni.
- Kugonana sikumawopa kugonana kapena maubwenzi.
Zikhulupiriro zina zodziwika bwino zakugonana:
- Sanakumaneko ndi munthu woyenera panobe
- Ndiwoipa ndipo sangapeze bwenzi logonana nalo
- Sizingakhale zenizeni; zimatsutsana ndi chisinthiko
- Simunawonepo anthu okongola omwe amadzizindikiritsa okha ngati asexual
- Sizochita zachiwerewere. Ndiwotsika pang'ono kugonana
- Mukangopatsa mahomoni oseketsa, kuyendetsa kwawo zogonana kumakhala koyenera
- Kugonana ndimatenda amisala
- Kugonana ndi chinthu chazaka chikwi; sizinakhaleko mpaka lingaliro litayamba kufalikira pa intaneti.
- Amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amangothetsa zilakolako zawo zogonana
- Kugonana kumatha kuchiritsidwa
- Amuna okhaokha amakhala ndi nkhawa zakugonana
Amuna kapena akazi okhaokha si amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Monga momwe alibe chilakolako chogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo, nawonso samakhala ndi chilakolako chogonana.
Achinyamata komanso chibwenzi
Amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, monga anthu ena, amakonda maubale. Kusiyanitsa kwakukulu kwa asexuals, komabe, palibe chilichonse chogonana muubwenzi wawo wachikondi.
Amatha kumva chikondi. Ndi chikondi chabe chopanda cholakwika.
Kuti izi zitheke, maubale ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amagwira ntchito bwino pakati pa anthu awiri ogonana. Pali malo ochezera azibwenzi kuti athandizire izi, monga Asexualitic ndi asexualcupid.com.
Kodi zimakhala bwanji kukhala pachibwenzi ndi asexual?
Izi sizosiyana ndi chibwenzi pomwe wina amagonana, kupatula kuti sagonana, kapena kupsompsona (ngati kutero). Samva chilichonse akamakhudza mnzake, mnzake akakhala wamaliseche, kapena akamagwira malo azibwenzi za wokondedwa wawo. Palibe erection yamwamuna, palibe mafuta amafuta achikazi. Amatha kukhala ndi seweroli, mafunso, mikangano ndipo, mbali yabwino, kulumikizana, kulumikizana komanso chisangalalo chomwe anthu osagwirizana nawo amakhala nacho pamaubwenzi awo.
Ngati mukufuna kuwerenga zambiri zakugonana, chonde pitani patsamba la AVEN.