Zamkati
- Amayi ali ndi njira yochepera msinkhu poyerekeza ndi amuna
- Amuna amakonda kutengera anzawo omwe ali achonde kwambiri
- Zokonda zaka zimakula mosiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi
Ndizowona mwasayansi kuti amuna amakonda akazi achichepere kuposa akazi okalamba mosasamala zaka zawo. Pomwe woyambitsa Playboy, Hugh Hefner adazungulira ndi atsikana achichepere, nthawi zonse ankadzudzulidwa ndi dziko lonse lapansi. Tsopano, monga momwe kafukufuku akutsimikizirira titha kunena kuti Hefner sanali wopenga pambuyo pake.
Amuna ambiri samakhala omasuka komanso osalankhula zakukonda kwawo komanso zomwe amakonda koma kafukufuku waposachedwa akutsimikizira izi amuna amakonda akazi achitsikana ngakhale atakhala achikulire kwambiri. Azimayi, komano, amakhala omasuka ndi wina wazaka zawo kapena kupitirira pang'ono. Amakonda kukondana ndi azaka zawo zakubadwa mosasamala za msinkhu wawo.
Kafukufuku wina wofalitsidwa amalankhula za momwe msinkhu wokondedwa ndi amuna umachulukira ndikukula pamene akukalamba. Izi zikutanthauza kuti pali zambiri pazokopa za abambo kupatula zaka. Amuna ali ndi zokonda, komanso malo ofewa azimayi azaka makumi awiri ndipo amuna amakonda akazi achichepere pamavuto aliwonse. Kafukufuku yemwe adachitika pankhaniyi adawonetsa zowoneka kuti zaka zazing'ono kwambiri zomwe amuna amakopeka nazo zimakhalabe zofananira ngakhale atakhala zaka zingati. Izi zikutanthauza kuti bambo yemwe ali ndi zaka 40 angafunebe kuyanjana ndi azimayi omwe ali azaka zoyambirira ngati zaka 22-23. Izi sizisintha ngakhale mwamunayo ali ndi zaka 50 kapena 60.
Amayi ali ndi njira yochepera msinkhu poyerekeza ndi amuna
Nkhani idasindikizidwa munyuzipepala ya PsyArXiv momwe akatswiri azama psychology ku Abo Akademi University ku Finland adatsimikizira kuti azimayi ali ndi njira yocheperako msinkhu poyerekeza ndi amuna. Amakonda anzawo omwe ali azaka ngati zawo kapena chaka chimodzi kapena kupitilira pamenepo osati iwo. Ngati tikambirana chifukwa chake kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, titha kugwiritsa ntchito lingaliro la chisinthiko kuti tifotokoze monga wolemba Jan Antfolk.
Amuna amakonda kutengera anzawo omwe ali achonde kwambiri
Antfolk akufotokoza zokonda izi pogwiritsa ntchito lingaliro la kusankha kwachilengedwe, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti abambo amakonda kwambiri anzawo omwe ali achonde kwambiri. Anafotokozanso ponena kuti amayi nthawi zambiri amakhala osasamala pankhani ya omwe amagonana nawo amuna ambiri amuna ambiri sangapeze okondedwa awo mpaka atakhala omveka bwino pokhudzana ndi zomwe amakonda. Antfolk anafotokozanso ndipo anati kuti iye ndi gulu lake adakwanitsanso kumaliza ndi zitsanzo za akulu pafupifupi 2600 kuti amuna amakonda azimayi achichepere, komabe; zogonana zawo zimagwirizana ndi msinkhu wawo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti kuyanjana kwakugonana kwa amuna akulu ndi akazi achichepere sikokwanira.
Zokonda zaka zimakula mosiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi
Kukopa komanso kukonda zaka kumayamba mosiyanasiyana mwa amuna ndi akazi. Mkazi akayamba msinkhu, amakonda kukhazikitsa malangizo okhwima molingana ndi amuna. Amafuna kupewa kupanga zisankho mopupuluma, chifukwa chomwe amakonda monga tafotokozera pamwambapa ndi kwa amuna azaka zakubadwa. Amayamba kuwonera moyo kuchokera pamawonekedwe othandiza. M'malo mwake, amuna samvera chidwi pazotsatira zonse, chifukwa chake amapitilizabe kukopeka ndikukopeka ndi akazi achikulire komanso achichepere malinga ndi kuthekera kwawo. Zilakolako zogonana zimathandizanso kwambiri pa izi ndipo zilakolako za amai zogonana zimachepa akamakalamba ndi msinkhu. Pomwe amuna mwina akuchulukitsa zaka zawo ngati njira yowonjezera komanso yopezera mwayi wogonana.
Amayi omwe ali ndi zaka pafupifupi 34 angakonde kapena angaganize amuna azaka zosachepera 27 komanso azaka zapakati pa 46 ngati omwe angakhale nawo pachibwenzi. Kumbali inayi, amuna omwe ali ndi zaka pafupifupi 37 angaganize zothandizana nawo azaka zapakati pa 21 ndi 49, koma zowonadi, amunawa anali ndi anzawo pazaka 31 ndi 36. Tiyenera kudziwa kuti kafukufukuyu amangoyang'ana pa mbali zakugonana motero chidwi chamunthu aliyense sichinaganiziridwe.