Zamkati
- 1. Zatsopano
- 2. Yesetsani kupsompsonana mwamakhalidwe
- 3. Pangani kukhala lapadera
- 4. Werengani zolankhula zake
- 5. Osati lilime lambiri
- 6. Tsekani maso anu
- 7. Musati muthamangire
- 8. Sangalalani ndi mphindiyo
Tsegulani pakamwa, lilime, lokoma komanso losalala, koseketsa, kuluma milomo, kukoka, komanso kukonda. Izi ndi mitundu yonse yosiyanasiyana ya njira zopsompsona zomwe mudzakumana nazo m'moyo wanu wonse.
Ndiye kodi mumadziwa kupsompsona bwino? Kodi ndinu wopsompsona wabwino?
Palibe amuna ambiri omwe angayankhe ndi ayi. Ngakhale zili choncho, nthawi zonse pamakhala mpata wowongolera.
Koma mukapsompsona wina kwa nthawi yoyamba, zitha kukhala zovuta.
Ndicho chifukwa chake tabwera kudzakupatsani malangizo abwino opsompsona amuna kuti muwonetsetse kuti mumpsompsona munthu koyamba kuti kupsompsona kwanu koyamba kukumbukike pazifukwa zonse zoyenera.
Sipadzakhala chifukwa choganizira luso lanu la kupsompsona mutatsatira malangizowo a kupsompsona awa.
Gwirani mpweya wanu, kutsitsimuka, ndipo konzekerani kugwedeza dziko lake ndi upangiri wathu wopsyopsyona.
1. Zatsopano
Pali chifukwa chake amati musadye adyo patsiku lanu loyamba - ndichifukwa chakupsompsona kwa usiku wabwino! Palibe chomwe chimasokoneza kupsompsonana kapena kukondana mwachangu kuposa fungo loyipa.
Zakudya zomwe mumadya ndizoyambitsa fungo loipa. Zakudya zonunkhira zamphamvu monga adyo ndi anyezi zimatha kupangitsa mpweya wanu kununkhiza. Osati uthenga womwe mukufuna kutumiza kwa wokondedwa wanu.
Musanatuluke pa tsiku lanu, onetsetsani kuti mwasamala kwambiri za ukhondo wanu wam'kamwa.
Sambani mano, lilime, misozi, ndikugwiritsa ntchito kutsuka mkamwa. Mutha kutenga zodzitetezera zowonjezerapo ngati mukumva kuti mukuyandikira mphindi yayikuluyo mutanyamula mpweya, kutsitsi, kapena kutafuna chingamu.
2. Yesetsani kupsompsonana mwamakhalidwe
Kodi muli ndi milomo yolusa, yowuma?
Ouch! Ngati ndizopweteka kuti mukhale nawo, zimakhala zopweteka kwa mnzanu kupsompsona. Onetsetsani kuti milomo yanu ndi yosalala komanso yopsompsona pogwiritsira ntchito mankhwala a milomo ndikuchepetsa tsitsi lililonse lopenga lomwe lingakande nkhope yake.
Uphungu wina wabwino ndikuti muwone kulavulidwa kwanu.
Osapsompsona kwa nthawi yayitali kapena kugwiritsa ntchito lilime kwambiri mpaka kulephera kuyamwa zakumwa zomwe zili mkamwa mwanu. Kumeza malovu anu pafupipafupi kuti musayang'ane tsiku lanu.
3. Pangani kukhala lapadera
Momwe kupsyopsyona kwamnyamata kumanena zambiri za iye. M'malo mwake, momwe ampsompsona amatha kusintha momwe mzimayi amamuwonera.
Pakafukufuku wa omwe adatenga nawo gawo 724, zotsatira zidawulula kuti azimayi amayamikira Kupsompsonana kwa mnzake kudawonjezera chidwi chawo.
Amayi anali othekera kwambiri kuti agonane ndi abambo ngati anali opsompsona bwino.
Kaya kupsompsona kwanu koyamba kapena kumpsompsona kwanu koyamba ndi munthu watsopano, mufuna kuti kuzikumbukika.
Mutha kuchita izi potuluka tsiku lokondana musanachitike, kumuyamika, kuyatsa makandulo, kapena kusewera nyimbo zomwe amakonda kumbuyo.
4. Werengani zolankhula zake
Chimodzi mwazinthu zazikulu zopsompsona za amuna ndikumvetsera mwatcheru thupi lanu musanapite kukapsompsona.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati akufuna kupsompsona, amadalira mukamachita ndikukumana pakati kupsompsona. Ndipo mwachiwonekere, mukamupsyopsyona, azibwezera ndi mtima wonse.
Werengani zolankhula zake. Ndi gawo lofunikira la amuna kupsompsona komwe simungathe kunyalanyaza.
Ngati akufuna kukupsopsonani, azitumiza ma sign ndi matupi awo. Adzakhala akukondana usiku wonse; atha kunyambita kapena kuluma milomo yake mokopa - chilichonse chomwe chingapangitse chidwi chanu kudera limenelo.
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5. Osati lilime lambiri
Kugwiritsa ntchito lilime popsompsonana sikulimbikitsidwa nthawi yoyamba, koma ngati mukumva chidwi kwambiri, pitani. Osangogwiritsa ntchito kwambiri.
Usiku utatha, ndipo tsiku lanu lipita kunyumba, mumafuna kuti apite kwa abwenzi ake onse za madzulo anu limodzi. “Adandipsopsona! Zinali zodabwitsa kwambiri! ”
Zomwe simukufuna ndikuti munthu amene mumamukonda afotokozere momwe mudaponyera lilime lake la ng'ombe mkamwa mwanga!
Kumeneko sikutamanda kwakukulu.
M'malo mochita kusuntha kwamasukulu oyenda mozungulira malilime anu mozungulira ngati njoka ziwiri zolimbana, yesani kulankhulitsa mosasunthika, mosangalatsa lilime lanu pakamwa pake.
Kuseketsa kwachigololo kumamusiya akufuna zochulukira.
6. Tsekani maso anu
Kuyang'ana m'maso ndi njira yabwino yoyambira kupsompsona. Samalani ndi nsonga yopsompsona ya amuna awa.
Zimapangitsa kuti anthu azikondana kwambiri ndipo zimapangitsa kuti nthawiyo ikhale yachikondi.
Komabe, nayi nsonga yampsopsono ya amuna yomwe imagwiranso ntchito pakupsompsona komweko. Tsekani maso anu! Palibe amene amakonda kuyang'anitsitsa, makamaka osati nkhope zawo zikalumikizana ndi zanu.
Kuyang'anitsitsa nthawi ya kupsompsonana kumawoneka ngati kwachilendo ndikupangitsa kuti zinthu zizikhala zovuta. M'malo mwake, tsekani maso anu ndikusangalala ndi nthawiyo.
Kupsompsona ndi nthawi yokhala wokonda kwambiri, okondana, komanso ogonana. Sinthawi yakupikisana.
Chitani nokha ndi tsiku lanu chisomo chachikulu potseka maso anu.
7. Musati muthamangire
Mutha kukhala amantha mukamapita kukapsompsona munthu, koma mutangolumikizana, khalani pamenepo. Itha kukhala yoyeserera kuti ipereke msanga mwachangu ndikuchoka.
Ngati mukufuna kuthyopsyona, chitani pang'onopang'ono.
Mpsompsoneni mnzanu mofewa komanso mokoma, kenako mubwerere. Yang'anani m'maso, kenako mubwererenso kuti mumupsompsone. Izi ndizabwino kwambiri ndipo zimapangitsa kuti kukupsompsone kukumbukira.
8. Sangalalani ndi mphindiyo
Mabanja amakhala achimwemwe akamapsompsona.
Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti kuwonetserana chikondi, kuphatikiza kupsompsonana, kumagwirizana kwambiri ndi kukhutira ndi anzanu.
Kupsompsona munthu koyamba kungakhale kokhumudwitsa, koma musakhale amantha mpaka kuiwala kusangalala ndi mphindiyo. Mwina, ngati mukupsompsona munthu, mumakhala ndi vuto linalake.
Choncho kondwerani ndikupsompsonani! Tsekani maso anu, mverani milomo yawo pa yanu, gwirani ntchito limodzi mpaka mutapeza nyimbo yomwe imakuthandizani.
Dziwani momwe mungayambitsire kupsompsona chifukwa mumangopsompsona koyamba ndi munthu wina, chifukwa chake pangani mphindi yakukumbukira.
Pankhani ya malangizo abwino opsompsona, ingokumbukirani kuti mupumule ndikusangalala. Chitani ukhondo wabwino pakamwa ndikupangitsa kuti kumpsompsona koyamba kukhale kofewa komanso kotsekemera. Chidaliro chithandizira kwambiri pakupangitsa kupsompsona kwanu kukhala kwapadera.
Apatseni okondedwa anu smooch yamoyo wawo potsatira malangizo abwino opsompsona ndikuphunzira njira zosiyanasiyana zopsompsona.