Monga kuti kukhazikitsa ndi kusunga banja labwino, maukwati olimba sichinali vuto lalikulu palokha, kusinthasintha kosayembekezereka kuchokera kunja kumatha kuvutitsa ngakhale mabanja omwe ali olimba mtima. Mwachitsanzo, pali angapo ochokera ku Alaska omwe ndawona pa intaneti kudzera pa Skype pafupifupi chaka chimodzi tsopano, omwe adatsutsidwa ndi zochitika zakunja.
Nayi nkhani yawo ndi momwe adagwirira ntchito limodzi pothandiza m'modzi mwa akaziwo kuthana ndi vuto langozi.
Hanna ndi Jason (si mayina awo enieni), okwatirana omwe ali ndi zaka makumi anayi, ali ndi ana azaka zapakati pa 13 ndi 19. Hanna amagwira ntchito pakampani yopanga mapulogalamu, ndipo Jason ndi woyang'anira mzere pakampani yamagetsi yakomweko.
Awiriwa adakumana ndi zovuta koma kwakukulu, akuti agwira ntchito pazosiyana zawo pankhani zandalama komanso bajeti, njira zolerera, komanso kuchita bwino ndi ziyembekezo za apongozi awo, bwino kwambiri. Iwo ndi mabanja awo anali kuchita bwino kwambiri.
Zonse zidasintha pomwe Hanna adaimbira foni kuchokera kuofesi yayikulu ya kampani yamagetsi kudziwitsa Hanna kuti Jason adakumana ndi ngozi yakuntchito, kugwa pamutu, ndipo adathamangira naye kuchipatala ndi ambulansi.
Hanna nthawi yomweyo adachoka muofesi yake ndikupita kuchipinda chadzidzidzi. Atapeza chidziwitso kuchokera kwa ogwira ntchito zadzidzidzi, adauzidwa kuti Jason adamuvulaza kwambiri paphewa, koma panalibe mafupa osweka. Ankafuna kuti amusunge m'chipatala masiku angapo, kenako azipita kwawo.
Hanna adamasulidwa ndipo adapeza a Jason othokoza pomwe amalankhula, onse akunena momwe zotsatira zakugwa kwakukulu zitha kukhala zoyipa kwambiri.
Vuto linali, kuti kuvulala paphewa kunasiya Jason ndi zowawa zopitilira muyeso. Dokotala wake adamupatsa mtundu wina wa mankhwala opioid kwakanthawi, komanso kupita kuchipatala cha physiotherapy.
Jason anali atagwira ntchito kwa miyezi ingapo, popeza kuvulala kwake kunamulepheretsa kugwira ntchito kwakanthawi. Sipanatenge nthawi kuti Jason abwerere kwa dokotala wake akudandaula kuti mankhwala opwetekawa samagwira ntchito bwino komanso kuti akuvutika. Dokotala anayankha mwa kuwonjezera mlingo wa mankhwala opweteka.
Masabata atadutsa, Hanna akuti Jason anali wokhumudwa komanso wokwiya, wosaleza mtima ndi ana, ndipo m'mawu ake anali "chimbalangondo chokhala naye."
Kenako, adazindikira kuti Jason amadzipiritsa yekha komanso amathera mapiritsi asanayambe ulendo wake wotsatira. Adamufunsa za izi ndipo yankho la Jason linali lachabechabe “Ndikumva kuwawa, ndipo sindingathe kudziletsa ngati ndingafune zambiri.”
Jason anali atagwidwa mwangozi ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
Choyipa chachikulu, Jason adayamba kugula mapiritsi pamsika wakuda. Hanna anali wopanda nkhawa ndi nkhawa. Anafotokozera Jason kuti izi zinali zowopsa ndipo simudziwa motsimikiza zomwe mukugula kapena ngati mankhwalawa atha kumupweteka kapena kumupha!
Pambuyo pake, Hanna adakambirana ndi dokotalayo kuti akambirane momasuka. Dokotala anafotokoza momwe amamvera pomangidwa ndi odwala ake opweteka.
Ambiri a iwo anali kumva kuwawa koopsa, opiates nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi vuto lochepetsa kupweteka, koma amadziwa bwino kuti anali osokoneza bongo.
Anavomera kukumana ndi Jason pafupipafupi ndikumuyika pulogalamu ya corticosteroids, mankhwala oletsa kutupa komanso mankhwala ena opatsirana. Cholinga chake chinali chakuti Jason pang'onopang'ono asiye ma opioid ndikumuthandiza kugwiritsira ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo mwangozi.
Njirayi idagwira ntchito pamlingo wina, ngakhale Jason adabera kangapo pobweretsanso mapiritsi ena pamsika wakuda. Ngakhale Hanna adayesetsa kukhala oleza mtima ndi womvetsetsa, ukwati wawo udasokonekera ndipo samamvana. Jason anali kuyesera koma movutikira.
Pafupifupi nthawi yonse yomwe izi zimachitika kwa banjali, malamulo okhudzana ndi kupezeka kwa chamba ndi zamankhwala akusintha ku Alaska. Hanna adafufuza pa intaneti ndipo adaganiza kuti banjali liyenera kukumana ndi adotolo odziwa za chamba wothandizira kupweteka. Sanamve kuti Jason anali kuyendetsa bwino kuyimitsa kwake ma opioid bwinobwino.
Adamuwona 'chamba' ndipo adamupatsa mafuta omwe amadziwika kuti CBD. Izi ndi cannabidiol, zomwe zimachokera ku chamba koma sizimayambitsa kuledzera kapena mtundu wina uliwonse. Adaganiza kuti izi zitha kuthandiza Jason ndi kusamalira ululu wake, kapena kumachepetsa kutupa.
Jason adadutsa dongosololi kupitilira dokotala wake wamba ndipo adakwera.
M'modzi mwamagawo athu apaintaneti, Hanna adanenanso zakusintha kwakukulu kwa Jason. Anali wokondwa kwambiri ndipo anali wokondwa kuti wachoka pa ma opioid ndipo anali kudalira mafuta a CBD ndikupitiliza mankhwala ena omwe dokotala wake amamugwiritsa ntchito.
Zinthu zimawoneka ngati zikuyenda bwino pomwe foni idachokera kwa Hanna akufunsa gawo lazachangu lothana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
Atafika pazenera la Skype, Jason adawoneka wokhumudwa ndipo Hanna adawoneka wokwiya. Iye anafotokoza kuti tsiku lina anafika kuchokera kuntchito ndipo anapeza Jason m'garaja ali pamalo otchedwa “utsi wonunkha.” Jason anafotokoza kuti ngakhale anali kupambana pankhondo yolimbana ndi mapiritsi, anali kumvabe kupsinjika.
Anatinso adapita kusitolo ya chamba ndipo adagula chamba cha nthawi zonse, chosakhala mankhwala, chomwe adayamba kusuta Hanna akugwira ntchito. Zinamupangitsa kumva bwino pamikhalidwe yake.
"Chabwino," anatero Hanna, "komanso zimakupangitsani kudzipatula. Simukusamalira banja langa mukakhala pamwambamwamba, ndipo sindikuyamikira. ”
Ndidamufunsa Jason kuti amasuta kangati, ndipo adati amakuchita tsiku lililonse. Ndinamufunsanso ngati angawone momwe kukwera, ngakhale kungamuthandizire kukhala wosangalala, kumamuchotsa m'banjamo komanso kulowa mwa iye.
Anavomera.
Kenako Hanna anakwiya. "Jason, ndayenda nawe njira yovulaza, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, ndipo tsopano ukufuna kukwera ndikunyamula nthawi iliyonse yomwe ukufuna? Sindikutsimikiza kuti ndikufuna kuchita izi. ”
Jason anafunsa kuti: “Ukunena chiyani kuti uzindisiya?”
Hanna: “Sindikudziwa. Inenso ndimakhala ndi nkhawa mukudziwa. Kusuta fodya si chinthu chomwe ndikufuna kupereka chitsanzo kwa ana athu monga njira yothetsera mavuto. ”
Ndidafunsa Jason zomwe anganene kwa Hanna kuti atsimikizire kuti akumvetsetsa momwe akumvera.
“Ndamva, Hanna. Mukunena zowona. Mwakhala ndi ine njira yonseyi ndipo ndikudziwa kuti sizinali zophweka. Ingopitani nane pompano motalika, ndipo ndichita zonse zomwe ndingathe kuti ndikhale mamuna komanso bambo yemwe ndinali. Ndikuyesera ngati gehena kuti ndisinthe. Chonde khalani ndi ine,
Ndatsala pang'ono kufika. ”
Hanna adati ayesa.
Ndinawafunsa banjali ngati angavomereze pafupipafupi momwe amamwa, pomwe Jason amatha kusuta ngati angafune, koma pang'ono.
Jason adati ngati atasuta yekha usiku umodzi sabata, amutsimikizira Hanna kuti asunga panganolo ndikuyesetsa kupezeka kwa iye ndi banja nthawi yonseyo.
Ndinawafunsanso banjali ngati lingaphunzitse ana awo za nkhaniyi chifukwa adzadabwa kuti chifukwa chiyani abambo amapita ku garaja madzulo, kugwiritsa ntchito chamba, komanso mavuto ena monga kukhumudwa.
Hanna sanasangalale kwambiri ndi mayanjanowa, koma chifukwa Jason anali kuchita bwino kwambiri osagwiritsa ntchito mapiritsi, ndipo chifukwa chodzipereka kuti abwerera kubanja, amayesa.
Pakutsata miyezi itatu ndi isanu ndi umodzi, banjali lipoti zosintha zambiri.Jason wabwereranso kuntchito, kupweteka kwake kwatsala pang'ono kutha, ndipo kusuta kwake chamba kwachuluka kwambiri. Hanna akuti Jason wabwerera "mkati" ndi banja lake ndipo ali wokondwa kuti abwerera.
Ndikuyamikira banja lolimba mtima ili chifukwa cholimba mtima kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo mwangozi ndipo tsopano asiya uphungu. Tikhala ndi cheke m'miyezi isanu ndi umodzi kuchokera pano.
Nthawi zikusinthadi, sichoncho?