Zamkati
- Yesani kuyang'anitsitsa vuto la mwana wanu
- Pezani chithandizo cha akatswiri
- Kuchitapo kanthu kwa mwana wanu wovuta
- Lankhulani ndi mwana wanu za mavuto anu
- Musaiwale kudzisamalira
- Athandizeni kuchita zosangalatsa
- Wachinyamata wosuta
Kulera wachinyamata wovuta kumatha kukhala kovuta.
Nthawi zina kholo limayesedwa kuti litembenukire kwina pamene akulimbana ndi wachinyamata yemwe ali ndi mavuto. Izi zimachitika makamaka mavuto a wachinyamata akakula kwambiri. Komabe, ndikofunikira kuti musunge kulumikizana kolimba ndi kulumikizana ndi mwana wanu munthawi yamavutoyi.
Makolo ayenera kuthandiza mwana wawo wachinyamata. Ayenera kuchita zonse zotheka kuti ubale wa kholo ndi mwana ukhale wolimba momwe angathere. Muyenera kudziwa kuti ubale wanu ndi mwana wanu wamavuto sangakhale wangwiro. Komabe, kuwonetsa mwana wanu wamwamuna kapena wamkazi kuti mumamukonda komanso kumuganizira kumatha kuwathandiza kuti asinthe.
Yesani kuyang'anitsitsa vuto la mwana wanu
Njira imodzi yowonera momwe mwana wanu alili mosiyana ndikugwiritsa ntchito njira yotchedwa kukonzanso.
Imeneyi ndi njira yomwe akatswiri amagwiritsa ntchito kuti awone momwe mwana alili kapena machitidwe ake mosiyana. Njirayi ingakuthandizeni kusintha malingaliro anu ndikupatseni chidziwitso pazomwe zimayambitsa machitidwe amwana wanu.
Nthawi zambiri, makolo ndi achinyamata amatha kuyambiranso vuto lina akamayang'ana zinthu m'njira yatsopano. Nkhani yabwino ndiyakuti kholo likayang'ana momwe zinthu ziliri ndi malingaliro atsopano, achinyamata nthawi zambiri samachitiranso mwina koma kuchita zinthu moyenera.
Pezani chithandizo cha akatswiri
Achinyamata ambiri omwe ali ndi mavuto amafuna thandizo la akatswiri.
Chithandizocho chidzawathandiza kuzindikira ndi kuzindikira chomwe chimayambitsa mavuto awo ndikupeza njira zothetsera mavutowo. Ndibwino kuti mupeze chithandizo chaukadaulo mwana wanu akangoyamba kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi m'malo modikirira kuti mavuto awo awonjezeke.
Komabe, makolo ena zimawavuta kuchita izi. Amaona kuti kupempha thandizo ndi chizindikiro cha kufooka. Komabe, izi sizoona. Ingokumbukirani kuti mukuthandiza mwana wanu mwa kupeza thandizo kuchokera kwa katswiri wazamankhwala.
Pali maubwino otsimikizika kuchokera pakuthandizidwa ndi akatswiri monga awa omwe ali ndi chidziwitso chothandizira achinyamata omwe ali pamavuto. Amadziwika kwambiri kuti azindikire mitundu yanji yazithandizo zomwe zingathandize kwambiri mwana wanu.
Akatswiriwa amakuthandizani, banja lanu, komanso achinyamata nthawi zovuta zomwe mukukumana nazo pakadali pano.
Kuchitapo kanthu kwa mwana wanu wovuta
Monga kholo la wachinyamata wovutika, mwina mumadzazidwa ndi mantha.
Komabe, muyenera kudziwa makolo ambiri omwe ali ndi mwana wachinyamata yemwe ali ndi mavuto amamva chimodzimodzi. Makolo ambiri amadabwa kuti atani zinthu zikafika poipa. Amadzifunsa ngati mwana angadziike yekha kapena anthu ena pangozi. Amamva kuti mavuto adzachitika nthawi ina. Izi ndizotheka chifukwa si zachilendo kuti zochita za wachinyamata wovutikayo zikafika povuta.
Izi ndichifukwa choti nthawi zambiri, achinyamata amakhala ndi zovuta kuthana ndi zovuta. Komabe, kutenga njira zoyenera kuti mumvetsetse pasadakhale momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito nthawi zowopsa izi zitha kupangitsa moyo wanu ndi wachinyamata wanu kukhala wosavuta kwambiri.
Lankhulani ndi mwana wanu za mavuto anu
Akatswiri ambiri amati makolo amalankhula ndi achinyamata awo mavuto omwe adakumana nawo ali achinyamata. Izi zingakuthandizeni kulumikizana ndi mwana wanu ndipo zitha kuwathandiza kuti azimva bwino.
Komabe, kumbukirani pokambirana musamanyoze kapena kufananiza, ingogawana. Mwachitsanzo, simuyenera kunena kuti, "Muli nako kosavuta kwambiri kuposa momwe ndimakhalira. Makolo anga anali ondikakamira kwambiri kuposa momwe ndimakhudzira inu. ”
M'malo mwake, muyenera kunena, "Ndikukumbukira momwe zimakhalira zovuta kukambirana ndi makolo za nthawi yofikira panyumba. Ifenso sitinkagwirizana pankhaniyi. ”
Musaiwale kudzisamalira
Ngati mukuvutika maganizo kapena mutapanikizika, simungathe kuthandiza mwana wanu.
Ndikofunikira kuti muwonetsetse kuti mumadzisamalira, ngakhale izi zitanthauza kuti mupeze thandizo la akatswiri kwa inu nokha. Chowonadi ndi chakuti, mukamamverera bwino, mudzatha kuthandiza mwana wanu wachinyamata kuthana ndi mavuto awo. Chifukwa chake, musaiwale, nthawi zonse dzisamalireni nokha komanso mwanjira iyi kuti muthandize mwana wanu.
Athandizeni kuchita zosangalatsa
Njira ina yabwino yothandizira mwana wanu wachinyamata wovutikayo ndikuwapangitsa kuchita nawo zosangalatsa monga masewera, kujambula, kupenta, kuchinga, kapena zochitika zina.
Izi zimulola mwana wanu kuti asamapanikizike ndikuwalola kuti aziyika mphamvu zawo pachinthu chabwino.
Wachinyamata wosuta
Kodi muli ndi wachinyamata amene amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena mowa?
Izi zitha kukhala chimodzi mwazinthu zovuta kwambiri monga kholo. Ngati ndi choncho, pomwe mungakhale ndi nkhawa, pali malo ogwiritsira ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo omwe angakuthandizeni inu ndi iwo kupyola nthawi yovutayi. Mutha kuwauza kuti akapezeke kuchipatala kapena kuchipatala.
Awa ndi ena mwamalangizo omwe mungagwiritse ntchito polera wachinyamata wovutika. Yambani kuthandiza mwana wanu lero.