Zamkati
- Tiyeni titenge khofi poyamba
- Tiyeni tiwone zinthu moyenera
- Tiyeni tipange mgwirizano
- Mukuti chiyani
- Tiyeni tikambirane izi kwina
- Ndine wachisoni
- Tiyeni tikambirane zomwe tichite kuyambira pano
- Tiyeni titengeko pang'ono kuti tikambirane mawa
Mikangano ndi mikangano zikuyenera kuchitika muubwenzi uliwonse. OKulankhulana kwa cholembera kumalimbikitsidwa pa ubale uliwonse, koma nthawi zina kukangana sikamakhala kulankhulana momasuka.
Itha kupsa mtima msanga, ndipo anthu amatha kunena zinthu zomwe angamve nazo chisoni. Itha kumangokhala ngati mpikisano wothamangitsa matope, kutsegulanso mabala akale, ndipo choyipitsitsa, imatha kumenyedwa.
Pali ziganizo zambiri zathanzi zoteteza mikangano muubwenzi. Mawuwa atha kuthandiza kuti kusamvana kukhale kulumikizana kwabwino ndikusunga ngati "nkhani" komanso kuti isakhale "ndewu".
Tiyeni titenge khofi poyamba
Khofi wotentha amatha kumveka ngati choyipa mukakhala ndi mkangano, koma anthu ambiri amakhazikika nawo. Sichiyenera kukhala khofi; Kungakhale mowa, ayisikilimu, kapenanso madzi akumwa ozizira.
Kupuma kochepa kuti muchotse mutu wanu ndikubwezeretsanso zinthu moyenera. Itha kukhazika pansi mkangano ndikuletsa kuti isakhale ndewu yayikulu.
Tiyeni tiwone zinthu moyenera
Ponena za malingaliro, ndewu zambiri zimayambira pazinthu zazing'ono zomwe sizofunika kwenikweni pakapangidwe kazinthu.
Nthawi zambiri kuiwala kuyika mpando wa kuchimbudzi, kuthera maola awiri kukonzekera chibwenzi, kudya keke yomaliza, zinthu ngati izi ndizokwiyitsa ndipo zimatha kupanga chidani pakapita nthawi.
Koma pakuwongolera kwakukulu kwazinthu, kuli koyenera kumenya nkhondo yayikulu ndi mnzanu?
Anthu okhwima amaphunzira kukhala nawo. Ndi zolakwika zazing'ono zomwe zili mwa munthu zomwe zimawonetsa momwe wokondedwa wawo amawakondiradi.
Zizolowezi zoipa zimatenga nthawi zonse kuti zikonzeke, koma nthawi zambiri, sizikhala ndi munthu mpaka kalekale. Kungakhale kosavuta kwa inu ndi mnzanu kuti mugubuduke nayo kuposa kuphunzitsa nkhumba kuimba.
Kuphatikiza apo, ngati mumakonda munthu, simuyenera kusamala ngati nthawi zonse azidya chinsinsi chanu cha m'chipululu.
Tiyeni tipange mgwirizano
Mikangano nthawi zambiri imatanthawuza kuti china chake sichikhutiritsa chipani chimodzi ndipo akukumana ndi wokondedwa wawo kuti apeze yankho.
Chimodzi mwamawu athanzi oteteza mikangano muubwenzi ndikuwonetsa kuti ndinu okonzeka kulolera.
Pezani zinthu zofanana ndikukambirana nkhaniyi mwanzeru.
Popanda kutchula, ndizovuta kupereka upangiri weniweni pazomwe munganene. Komabe, kuyambira ndi "tiyeni tichite mgwirizano" kumukhazika mtima pansi mnzanuyo kuti aganizire kuti ndinu wofunitsitsa kumvera mbali zawo ndikupanga mayankho.
Pamapeto pake, muyenera kutero, mverani, ndikuphatikizani, musaiwale kugwiritsa ntchito mwayiwo kupeza zomwe mukufuna kumapeto kwanu.
Mukuti chiyani
Kulankhula zakunyengerera, kutanthauza kuti ndinu wofunitsitsa kutero osadzipereka (chifukwa zomwe mukufunazo zitha kukhala zosamveka) zitha kutonthoza mnzanu.
Kumvera malingaliro awo kumatha kubweretsa kutsutsidwa koyenera ndikuthandizani inu ndi ubale wanu wonse.
Mukamamvetsera madandaulo awo, musaope kuyankha ndi malingaliro anu modekha.
Payenera kukhala chifukwa chomwe zenizeni ndizosiyana ndi dziko labwino. Chifukwa chake ikani makhadi anu patebulo ndipo muzigwirira ntchito limodzi ngati banja.
Tiyeni tikambirane izi kwina
Mikangano imatha kuchitika kulikonse, nthawi iliyonse. Zambiri sizimathetsedwa chifukwa zidachitika m'malo omwe sangakwanitse kukambirana ndi achikulire.
Kuyenda pang'ono kupita kumalo ogulitsira khofi kapena kuchipinda chogona kumatha kutsitsa mphepo ndikusungitsa zokambirana zanu zachinsinsi.
Kulowerera kwa munthu wina kumakhala kokhumudwitsa ndipo kumatha kupezerera mnzake kulowa pakona ndipo zitha kuwatsogolera kuti abwezeretse. Izi zikachitika, zingakhale zosavuta kuti kukangana kosavuta kukhale nkhondo yayikulu.
Ndizovuta kwambiri kuchira kuchokera pamenepo. Mawu athanzi oletsa mikangano muubwenzi ngati uwu amatha kuyambitsa zokambirana kukhala zokhwima, zachilungamo, komanso zachinsinsi.
Ndine wachisoni
Sitingakhale ndi mndandanda wamawu athanzi kuti tipewe mikangano muubwenzi popanda iyi. Pali nthawi zina pamene kupepesa ndikugunda, ngakhale sikulakwa kwanu, adzathetsa nkhondo pomwepo.
Ndizowona makamaka ngati ndalakwitsa. Koma ngakhale sizili choncho, sizofunika kwenikweni kuti mutenge imodzi mwa timuyo ndikuchepetsa kunyada kwanu kuti musunge mtendere.
Ngati ili nkhani yayikulu ndipo sikulakwa kwanu, nthawi zonse mumatha kunena, "Pepani, koma ..." imatha kuyambitsa zokambirana ndi mbali yanu osawoneka ofooka komanso zomwe zingapangitse mnzanu kuti asadzitchinjirize ndi kumasuka kukambirana mwachilungamo.
Tiyeni tikambirane zomwe tichite kuyambira pano
Zingamveke ngati iyi ndi njira ina yonyengerera ndi zina zotero, koma izi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito bwino mkanganowo ukasandulika kuloza chala ndikufufuza zolakwika.
Ndi amodzi mwamawu athanzi oteteza mikangano muubwenzi chifukwa mumagwiritsa ntchito mawuwa pomwe inu ndi mnzanu mutembenukira kumasewera omwe mwadzudzula m'malo mopeza mayankho.
Kumbukirani kuti ngakhale olakwa ndani, yesani kupeza njira yothanirana ndi zovuta zomwe zilipo.
Tiyeni titengeko pang'ono kuti tikambirane mawa
Zonse zikalephera, ndiye kuti pangakhale kofunikira kuti mupume ndikupuma. Nthawi zina vuto ndi kuthetsa lokha mwachibadwa; nthawi zina, banjali layiwala za izi.
Mosasamala kanthu, kuyimitsa mkangano usanafike poipa nthawi zina ndiyo njira yokhayo yomwe mungachitire.
Ili ndiye yankho lomaliza, ndipo Kugwiritsa ntchito mawuwa mochuluka kumawononga chidaliro ndikupanga zopinga zoyankhulirana muubwenzi.
Mawuwa ndi lupanga lakuthwa konsekonse; itha kuletsa mkangano ndikuletsa maanja kuti asalankhule zinthu zomwe angadandaule ndikuwononga maziko apabanja pomwepo.
Ndizoyipa pang'ono ndipo zimawerengedwa kuti ndi amodzi mwamatchulidwe athanzi oletsa mikangano muubwenzi.