Zamkati
- Osapanga zisankho zilizonse mopupuluma
- Samalani pakupanga dongosolo la kulera limodzi
- Ikani ana anu patsogolo
- Lingalirani za maakaunti ndi mapasiwedi
- Dzizungulirani ndi chithandizo
- Aks ndikumvera ena omwe akumanapo ndi zomwezi
- Sungani ndalama
Palibe amene amalowa m'banja akuyembekezera kuti banja lithe. Kusudzulana ndi vuto ngakhale mutakhala kuti mudakwaniritsa izi. Zimayambitsa mantha mwa anthu ndipo zimawapangitsa kuchita zinthu zopanda nzeru komanso zosagwirizana ndi zina. Ngati inu ndi amene mumaliza mabelu osudzulana, mutha kukhala ndi nthawi yochuluka yokonzekera ndikudziteteza.
Kumbali inayi, ngati mnzanu atakupatsani zikalata zosudzulana, mutha kukugwirirani mwadzidzidzi. Pazochitika zonsezi, muyenera kudzifunsa kuti "Ndingadziteteze bwanji m'banja"?
Mosasamala kanthu kuti ndiwe amene ukufuna kuti banja lithe kapena mwamuna wako analipo, pali zinthu zina zomwe mungachite pokhudzana ndi nthabwala yakuti "Ndingadziteteze bwanji pa banja?"
Lincoln nthawi ina anati, "Ndikadakhala ndi mphindi zisanu ndodula mtengo, ndikadagwiritsa atatu oyamba ndikuthwa nkhwangwa yanga." Ngati mutagwiritsa ntchito fanizoli pankhani yoti banja lithe, zingakhudze bwanji momwe mungachitire? Pitilizani kuwerenga kuti mumve maupangiri amomwe mungadzitetezere ndikuyankha funso loti "Ndingadziteteze bwanji m'banja"?
Osapanga zisankho zilizonse mopupuluma
Kusudzulana ndi nthawi yovutikira, kukwiya kwambiri, kukhumudwa kapena mantha zomwe zingakhudze malingaliro anu.
Zomwe mungachite panthawi yosudzulana zitha kusiyanasiyana kwambiri ndi zomwe mumachita modekha komanso mokhutira.
Pazifukwa izi, dzipatseni nthawi yosintha zomwe mukufuna kusintha musanachite chilichonse chosintha pamoyo wanu, monga kusamukira kudziko lina kapena kusintha ntchito. Mukuganiza kuti muyenera kupanga zisankho mwachangu kwa anzanu kuti akuthandizeni kupanga chisankho chabwino pazomwe muli nazo pakadali pano.
Palibe chisankho changwiro, pali chabwino chokwanira kutengera chidziwitso chomwe muli nacho pakadali pano.
Aliyense akhoza kukhala wanzeru pambuyo pake, koma khalani anzeru zisanachitike. Dalirani zofunika zina zomwe mumakhulupirira kuti zidzakuthandizani kukhala ngati gulu lanu lolira ndikuthandizani kupanga chisankho chabwino kwa inu ndi ana anu.
Samalani pakupanga dongosolo la kulera limodzi
Kupatula pa funso loti "Ndingadziteteze bwanji m'banja?" chisamaliro cha ana ndicho vuto linanso lalikulu.
Chimodzi mwazinthu zofunikira kwambiri ndizokhudza kusamalira ana. Kodi mumagawana ana mofanana, ndi kangati momwe mungasinthire ana okhala ndi makolo onse, omwe amalandira tchuthi, ndi zina zambiri? Izi zitha kupweteketsa mutu wanu komanso mtima wanu. Tengani nthawi yoganizira zinthu bwino chifukwa iyi ndi imodzi mwazisankho zabwino kwambiri zomwe mumapanga.
Lankhulani ndi ana anu kuti mumve malingaliro awo chifukwa mgwirizanowu udzawakhudzanso.
Pewani kumunyoza yemwe mudzakhale naye posachedwa, popeza munthu akhoza kukhala mnzake wakale koma osakhala kholo lakale.
Ikani ana anu patsogolo
Kuphatikiza pa "Ndingadziteteze bwanji m'banja?" Limodzi mwamafunso oyamba omwe muyenera kuyankhanso ndi loti "Ndingatani kuti ndiwonetsetse kuti ana anga ali otetezeka komanso kuti sangakhumudwe?"
Simunaganize zokhala kholo limodzi posankha kukhala ndi ana, zowonadi. Komabe, tsopano mukufuna kuyamba ulendowu, ndipo muyenera kudziwa kuti mutha kulera ana osangalala ngakhale makolo awo anasudzulana.
Ngakhale kusudzulana kumakhala kovuta kwa iwo, pali zinthu zomwe mungachite kuti muwathandize kubwerera mwachangu.
Lankhulani ndi ana anu, kuti amvetsetse kuti kutha kumeneku kumachitika chifukwa cha ubale wanu ndi wokondedwa wanu, osati chifukwa cha zomwe adachita kapena zomwe sanachite.
Ayenera kumva kuti amakondedwa, amveke ndikudziwa kuti silinali vuto lawo. Ngati mukuwona kuti mulibe mwayi wolankhula nawo panthawiyi, ndibwino kuti muwapeze othandizira. Amatha kukhala wachibale wina kapena katswiri. Padzakhala nthawi yoti mulankhule nawo mukakhala okonzeka ndipo mutha kuyankhula kuchokera pamalo okhululuka m'malo mokwiya.
Iyi ndi njira imodzi yomwe mukuwatetezera komanso inunso nthawi yomweyo.
Lingalirani za maakaunti ndi mapasiwedi
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Ngati yankho lanu ndi inde, mungafune kuganizira zosintha mapasiwedi ku imelo yanu ndi maakaunti ochezera.
Mukamalankhula ndi ena kuti atuluke, zina mwazomwe mungalembe zitha kutanthauziridwa ngati zoopseza ndipo zingagwiritsidwe ntchito motsutsana nanu.
Ngakhale simunaganizirepo zoyipa zilizonse ndipo mumangoyankhula chifukwa chakukwiya, woweruzayo mwina sangazindikire choncho kapena wakale wanu. Zomwe mumawopseza mnzanuyo sizingaganizire zolakwazo.
Dzizungulirani ndi chithandizo
Mukamalumikizana kwambiri munthawi imeneyi ndimakhala ndi zipsera zochepa zomwe mudzakhale nazo. Anzanu abwino amatha kukuthandizani kuti musamavutike, mukhale osangalala komanso kuti mupeze zoseketsa pamutu uno. Zowona, mwina simungamve ngati kuseka, koma mukadzatero adzakhala komweko.
Adzakhalapo pamene mudzafuna kumalira kapena kufuula. Kuyesetsa kudzakuthandizani kuchira ndikuzindikira kuti simunataye chilimbikitso chilichonse. Potengera izi, izi zikuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi mphamvu zopezera ana anu kapena kukulepheretsani kupita kwa iwo.
Aks ndikumvera ena omwe akumanapo ndi zomwezi
Kodi muli ndi munthu amene banja lake linatha? Kodi zokumana nazo zawo ndi zotani? Kodi mungaphunzire chiyani kulakwitsa kwawo kuti muzilambalala? Lankhulani nawo kuti mumvetsetse zomwe mungachite kuti mukhale otetezeka komanso otetezeka.
Angathe kuwunikira ena mwa mavuto omwe simungamayembekezere panokha. Pomaliza, ngati simukudziwa aliyense panokha, pezani magulu azanema omwe angakuthandizireni chimodzimodzi.
Sungani ndalama
Mukasudzulana, ndalama zanu zimawonjezeka, ndipo ndi nthawi yabwino kuyamba kuyang'anitsitsa ndalama zanu.
Pakadali pano mukufuna kuchepetsa ndalama zomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito osachepera komanso kupewa kuwononga ndalama mopupuluma.
Terengani ndalama zomwe mumapeza ndi zomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito kuti muwone momwe zinthu zilili komanso kuti mupite patsogolo.
Ngati mungakhale ndi mavuto azachuma mutha kupumula ndikuyesetsa kusunga ndalama. Ngati mukuzindikira kuti simungakwanitse kulipira ndalama zanu, muyenera kuganizira momwe mungapewere kuwonongeka kwachuma. Kuganiza kuti kutenga maola ochuluka kuntchito kapena kugulitsa zina mwazinthu zomwe simukufuna kungabweretse ndalama zina kuti zigwirizane zinthu nthawi ya chisudzulo.