Zamkati
- 1. Kuvomereza
- 2. Pezani chimwemwe chanu
- 3. Yamikani zophophonya
- 4. Kulankhulana
- 5. Moyo wosangalatsa wogonana
- 6. Lemekezanani
- 7. Onetsani chikondi tsiku ndi tsiku
- 8. Phunzirani kenakake tsiku lililonse, limodzi
“Nthano chabe”
Ambiri angavomereze mawu awa ndipo nthawi zambiri amatsatira.
Ndizowona kuti anthu awiri okhala ndi umunthu wosiyana atayamba kukhala m'nyumba imodzi, mikangano imatha kuchitika. Komabe, izi sizikutanthauza kuti sangakhale achimwemwe.
Pofuna kumanga banja losangalala, onse awiri ayenera kuvomerezana kuti akhale ndani.
Ayeneranso kulemekeza kusiyana kwawo.
Ziribe kanthu zomwe maanja ambiri amakhulupirira, pali anthu omwe akhala ndi banja losangalala osamvana kapena mikangano.
Pali malamulo ena oti banja likhale losangalala. Tiyeni tiwone malamulo a banja losangalala omwe mabanjawa amatsatira.
Zina mwa izo ndizosavuta kutsatira.
1. Kuvomereza
Mabanja ambiri amada nkhawa za momwe angakhalire ndi banja lokhalitsa.
Nthawi yomwe awona banja losangalala, amadabwa chinsinsi chake. Chabwino, limodzi mwa malamulo ofunikira kuti banja likhale losangalala ndi kulandira bwenzi momwe alili.
Nthawi zambiri, aliyense wa iwo amayesa kusintha winayo mwanjira ina. Kungakhale chizolowezi kapena khalidwe.
Mukangoyamba kulandira wokondedwa wanu momwe alili, mudzawona kusintha m'moyo wanu wabanja.
Mwadzidzidzi, kusokonezeka kudzalowedwa m'malo ndi chisangalalo.
Kusintha kumeneku kumalanda moyo wanu pang'onopang'ono ndipo mutha kudzipeza nokha mukukhala ndi banja losangalala.
2. Pezani chimwemwe chanu
Lamulo lina loti banja likhale losatha ndi kupeza chifukwa chosangalalira.
Palibe amene angakhale m'banja losasangalala, konse. Nthawi zonse pamakhala chifukwa chomwe chimalumikiza banja limodzi. Atha kukhala mwana, kapena momwe mnzanu amakupangitsani kumva, kapena chitetezo chomwe amakupatsirani, kapena chitonthozo chomwe amakupatsani.
Ngati mukuyang'ana mwachidwi njira zopezera banja losangalala, pezani chifukwa chosangalalira.
Ngati mwalephera kupeza imodzi, imbani foni.
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3. Yamikani zophophonya
Chimodzi mwazinsinsi zaukwati wautali ndi kusangalala ndi zolakwika.
Ndizowona kuti palibe amene ali wangwiro. Mukayamba kukondana, mutha kuyamba kuyang'ana zabwino zonse mwa munthu, koma mukangolowa muubwenzi, zolakwika zimayamba kuwonekera ndipo izi zimawononga maloto okongola omwe mumayembekezera.
Njira yabwino yogwiritsirira ndikuvomereza zophophonya ndikuzivomereza ndi manja awiri.
Munthu wangwiro ndi nthano chabe.
Kupanda ungwiro kumatipangitsa kukhala anthu ndipo tiyeni tizipembedza izi. M'malo mwake, muyenera kuopa munthu amene ali wangwiro kwambiri kwa inu. Mwina, akubisala kena kake.
4. Kulankhulana
Limodzi mwa malamulo abwino kwambiri m'banja ndi kulumikizana kwamphamvu m'banja.
Palibe ubale womwe ungakhale wopanda kulumikizana kwabwino komanso moona mtima. Anthu okwatirana ayenera kugawana zakukhosi kwawo ndi anzawo.
Ayenera kugawana nawo momwe akumvera, zomwe akumva komanso nthawi yomwe akumvera. Popanda izi, malamulo a banja losangalala ndi osakwanira.
5. Moyo wosangalatsa wogonana
Moyo wosangalala wogonana ulidi gawo lamalamulo kuti banja likhale losangalala.
Mutha kukhala ndi ubale wabwino modabwitsa ndi mnzanu, koma ngati muli ndi moyo wosakhutira nawo, chisangalalo sichingapezeke.
Ndikofunikira kuti muzisamaliranso zogonana.
Yesani zinthu zatsopano. Yesani pabedi. Yesetsani kupeza zomwe zikukuyenererani nonse.
6. Lemekezanani
Kukonda wina ndi kulemekeza wina ndi zinthu ziwiri zosiyana.
Nthawi zambiri anthu okwatirana amakondana koma amalephera kulemekezana. Mukakhala ndi ulemu kwa wina ndi mnzake mumalemekeza malingaliro awo, zachinsinsi, momwe amaonera zinthu, komanso malingaliro awo.
Zinthu zing'onozing'onozi zimatha kukhala ndi kusiyana kwakukulu pamawonedwe onse ndi chisangalalo.
7. Onetsani chikondi tsiku ndi tsiku
Kodi n'chiyani chimapangitsa banja kukhala losangalala? Kusonyeza chikondi tsiku lililonse.
Sizingakhale zomveka ngati mukukondana ndi wokondedwa wanu koma simukuziwonetsa.
Mawu amatha kuwathandiza pantchito za tsiku ndi tsiku, kuwadabwitsa nthawi zambiri, kuwaphikira zabwino, kupita kutchuthi, kapena kuchita zinthu zomwe zingawasangalatse.
Manja ang'onoang'ono awa akuwonetsa momwe mumawakondera. Imeneyi ndi imodzi mwamalamulo odziwika bwino oti banja likhale losangalala.
8. Phunzirani kenakake tsiku lililonse, limodzi
Nthawi zambiri, maanja amadandaula kuti palibe chatsopano chochita kapena chokhudza wina ndi mnzake.
Monga limodzi la malamulo oti banja likhale losangalala likuti, nonse muyenera kulembetsa limodzi ntchito limodzi. Mukamacheza kwambiri ndikamaphunzira zambiri za wina ndi mnzake. Kuphatikiza apo, kudzera muntchito izi, mudzakhala mukukulitsa umunthu wanu.
Sizovuta kukhala osangalala m'banja.
Nonse muyenera kuyesetsa kuti zinthu ziyende. Malamulo omwe atchulidwawa a banja losangalala akhoza kukhala poyambira kulingalira.
Kumbukirani kulemekezana, kukhazikitsa kulumikizana kwamphamvu, kukhala achangu komanso kukhala ndi moyo wogonana wosangalatsa.