Zamkati
Nthawi ino ya chaka monga a carol amanenera, ikhoza kukhala nthawi yabwino kwambiri pachaka. Komabe ikhozanso kukhala nthawi yovuta kwambiri mchaka, koma nditha kuwona momwe izi sizingapangire nyimbo yabwino. Komabe, nthawi ino ya chaka imatha kukhala yopanikiza kwambiri ikakhala nkhani yabanja, komanso misonkhano yayitali ya mabanja. Ponyani zodabwitsa za chaka chachisankho ndipo gome lodyera limatha kukhala lovuta. Kaya kupsinjika kwanu kumabwera chifukwa chopewa kukambirana kapena kuyesayesa kukhala masiku angapo osakangana kapena kutaya misala, nayi malangizo anayi oti akhazikitsire malire patchuthi, komanso moyo wamba.
1. Nthawi
Kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza ndi banja kumatha kukhala kosangalatsa, ndipo / kapena kumatha kukhala kopanikiza, ndichifukwa chake ndikofunikira kudziwa malire anu. Kaya ndi maola atatu kapena masiku atatu mukudziwa kuchuluka kwa nthawi yomwe mungagwiritse ntchito musanapite patali kuti mukakhale patchuthi. Ngati kukhala ndi banja lanu kumakupangitsani kukhala osasangalala kapena opanikizika pakatha theka la tsiku, ndiye kuti konzekerani.
Kusintha nthawi kumatha kukhala kovuta kwa anthu chifukwa cha "momwe zakhala zikuchitidwira nthawi zonse", koma ngati zomwe zakhala zikuchitika zakupangitsani kukhumudwa komanso kukhumudwa mchaka chonse, ndiye kuti ikhoza kukhala nthawi yoti muchitepo kanthu mokomera thanzi lanu lamisala . Kupanga thanzi lanu lam'mutu kukhala chofunikira kwambiri pokhazikitsa malire nthawi ingatanthauze kuwonekera tsiku lotsatira kapena kuchoka tsiku molawirira. Zingatanthauzenso kutenga galimoto yosiyana ndi abale anu ena kapena abale anu omwe mumakhala nawo nthawi zambiri. Chilichonse chomwe chingakhale, dziwani malire anu ndikukhala mozungulira.
2. Mitu ya Kukambirana
Ena amakhala nthawi yodyera ndikunong'onezana mwakachetechete "chonde musatchule ndale, koma ndale." Makamaka ngati atakhala pafupi ndi amalume awo atsankho omwe amadziwika kuti ndi otseguka kwambiri omwe amawadziwa.
Kaya ndi ndale, kusankha ntchito, achibale, mafunso oti mudzakhala ndi ana liti, kukuwuzani momwe mungalerere ana anu, kapena ina iliyonse ya mitu yosangalatsa yomwe imakupangitsani kuti muziona ngati mukudwala kapena kupita kutchuthi komwe mukupita, ndikofunikira dziwani zomwe zili komanso momwe mungazipewere. Kupeza njira zosinthira mwachisomo nkhaniyi, kapena kuthana ndi vuto loti simukambirana za izi kungakhale kovuta, koma ndikofunikanso. Chifukwa chake musanapite kudera lomwe kuli nkhondo tchuthi mudzikumbutseni za mitu yomwe musakhalebe momwe mungakonzekere. Ngati muli pachibwenzi ndi mnzanuyo ikhoza kukhala njira yabwino yodzikonzekerera. Zabwino zonse.
3. Malo
Ngakhale mukamachezera tchuthi, ndibwino kuti mupeze nthawi ndi malo anuanu. Matchuthi amatha kukhala okweza kwambiri, kaya ndi ana othamanga mozungulira kapena agogo atatha kuyika ramu wochuluka mu eggnog yake. Ngati malo okondwerera akuyamba kukupangitsani kukhala omasuka komanso opsinjika mwina ndi nthawi yoti muziyenda kokayenda, kupita pagalimoto, kapena kubisala mchipinda chopanda kanthu kuti muwerenge buku. Muthanso kupeza hotelo kapena kukhala kwinakwake. Kudziwa kuti ndibwino kukhalabe kwina kapena kupuma pang'ono ndikubwerera komweko kumatha kuchotsa nkhawa zambiri patchuthi.
4. Kutengeka
Nthawi ino yachaka ikhoza kukhala yovuta kusangalala mukakhala ndi abale anu omwe nthawi zonse amapeza njira zokukhudzani, kapena kuwonjezera sewero pamoyo wanu womwe mumafuna. Zitha kukutengerani pakati pa mikangano yabanja, kudziimba mlandu kukupulumutsani (mwina chifukwa chokhazikitsa malire abwino), kukhala wankhanza, kapena zinthu zina zambiri. Kuchita masitepe am'mbuyomu kungathandize kuchepetsa zinthu zambiri izi, koma ngati mukuwona kuti tchuthi chakhala chikukhumudwitsa nthawi zonse itha kukhala nthawi yoti mulankhule ndi munthuyo ndikukhazikitsa zomwe mukuyembekezera nyengo ino ya tchuthi komanso kwazaka zambiri bwera. Kulankhula ndikunena kuti "Ndingayamikire ngati sitikalankhula za izi ..." kungakupulumutseni ku mutu wamtsogolo ndikumva kuwawa.
Mapeto
Kukhazikitsa malire abwino kumakhala kovuta chifukwa malingaliro a anthu atha kupwetekedwa pochita izi. Poika malire nthawi zina ndikofunikira kukambirana ndi munthuyo zomwe zikuchitika. Yesetsani kuzipanga za inu osati za iwo, ndipo adziwitseni kuti mumawasamalira komanso kuti mukuchita zomwe zingakuthandizeni paumoyo wanu. Ngati apitiliza kuswa malire anu nthawi zina ndibwino kuwafotokozera chifukwa chomwe mukukhalira.
Kukhazikitsa malire abwino kumatanthauza kukhala aulemu ndikuwadziwitsa momwe zisankho zawo zingakhudzire ubalewo. Sizimapangidwira kuti zizichitika m'njira yomwe imawapangitsa kumva kuwawa. M'malo mwake mukukhazikitsa chiyembekezo ndikuyembekeza kuti adzalemekeza. Nthawi zina mamembala am'banja amakambirana nanu momwe mungachitire zinthu kapena momwe mungawathandizire akagwera muzinthu zakale. Kukambirana ndi abale anu ndikukhazikitsa malire abwino kumathandizira kuchepetsa kupsinjika kwanu, ndipo mwinanso kukhala nthawi yabwino kwambiri pachaka.