Zamkati
- 1. Kupanga kufananitsa kolakwika
- 2. Kulephera kuika patsogolo mzanu komanso ubale
- 3. Kubwereza zosavomerezeka
- 4. Kusokonezeka
- 5. Kusakhala wofunitsitsa kuwona momwe ena akuwonera
- 6. Kubisa kulankhulana momasuka
Ubale ndi wovuta ngakhale pansi pazabwino kwambiri. Wina akufuna kukhulupirira kuti kukondana ndikokwanira kuti zinthu zitheke. Mwazochita zanga, zimapweteka mtima kuwona anthu awiri omwe amasamalirana moona mtima, komabe nthawi yomweyo amakhala pamphepete mwa kutha kapena kusudzulana. Pamapeto pake maanja ena amafika pamalingaliro kuti sangathe kupeza chisangalalo, pozindikira chowonadi chovuta chomwe nthawi zina chikondi sichokwanira.
Cholinga cha nkhaniyi ndikuti muunikire zinthu zomwe inu kapena mnzanu mwina mukuchita zomwe zingawononge ubale. Pakhoza kukhala zochulukira pakati pamalingaliro awa kotero ngati mungafotokozere chimodzi, mutha kukhala angapo.
1. Kupanga kufananitsa kolakwika
Wina akhoza kuiwala mosavuta chifukwa chomwe mudasankhira (zomwe zakukopani) wanu wamkulu poyamba ndipo nthawi zambiri mumapezeka kuti mukuyerekeza mnzanuyo ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo chamasiku oyambilira chikhoza kukhala chosokonekera ndipo mungafune kuti mutenge wina watsopano. Zinthu zomwe mudapeza kuti ndizosangalatsa tsopano ndizokwiyitsa.
Mutha kuyerekezera izi m'maganizo mwanu, anene mwachindunji kapena mwanjira ina kwa mnzanu, kapena onse awiri. Mwanjira ina kapena imzake amatha kulowa m'mawu anu komanso machitidwe anu ndipo amatha kusiya wokondedwa wanu kumadzudzulidwa, kukhumudwa, ndi / kapena kusayamikiridwa.
2. Kulephera kuika patsogolo mzanu komanso ubale
Kupeza mgwirizano wokhala bwino komanso kupatukana mu chibwenzi kumatha kukhala kovuta ndipo kumawoneka kosiyana kwa banja lililonse kutengera zosowa zawo komanso zomwe amakonda. Anthu ambiri samakonda kumva kuti wapwetekedwa ndi wokondedwa wawo, koma nthawi yomweyo amafuna kuti azimva kulemekezedwa, kuyamikiridwa komanso kufunidwa. Mulingo woyenera ungaphatikizepo kusangalala ndi zomwe mumakonda komanso nthawi yocheza, komanso osayang'ana kwa mnzanu kuti akwaniritse zosowa zanu zonse.
Gwero la mkangano nthawi zambiri limangokulitsidwa ndiukwati. Pangano lomwe simunalankhulepo nthawi zambiri mukamapanga lonjezo lokwatirana ndi kuvomereza kuti muike mnzanu patsogolo pa anthu ndi zinthu zonse. Zomwe ndakumana nazo zikuwonetsa kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, komwe amuna amayembekezerabe kupitiliza moyo wa bachelor ngakhale ali mwamuna. Ngati inu ndi mnzanu simukufanana pa zomwe mukuyembekezerazi, chibwenzicho chikhoza kusokonekera.
3. Kubwereza zosavomerezeka
Tivomerezane, ambiri aife sitinapatsidwe zitsanzo zabwino zaubwenzi wokula. Ngakhale tili ndi chidziwitso cha zomwe sitiyenera kuchita, mpaka titaphunzitsidwa kapena kuwonetsedwa njira yabwinoko, timadzipeza tomwe tili pamavuto omwewo muubwenzi wathu wachikulire. Nthawi zambiri (ngakhale mosazindikira) timasankha othandizana nawo omwe akusowa mikhalidwe yofananira ya omwe amatisamalira, tikuganiza kuti titha kuwakonza ndikuwathandiza kuti akwaniritse zosowa zathu kuyambira ali ana. Sitimakonda kuchita bwino pakusintha ena kukhala zomwe timafuna kuti akhale. Zotsatira zomaliza nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosakhutira, kuipidwa kapena kusweka.
4. Kusokonezeka
M'masiku ano azama TV, ndikosavuta kuposa kale kupezeka kwathunthu m'maubale athu. Mabanja atha kukhala mchipinda chimodzi koma amachita nawo zida zawo, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti pakhale kulumikizana kwakukulu. Zolinga zamankhwala zimapereka maubwino ambiri komanso zimatseguliranso mwayi wokhala osakhulupirika. Nthawi yogwiritsidwa ntchito pazanema imachotsa kulumikizana kwenikweni, mwa-munthu, kulumikizana koona. Zosokoneza zimatha kubwera monga kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, kutchova juga, ntchito, zosangalatsa / masewera ngakhale ana ndi zochitika zawo.
5. Kusakhala wofunitsitsa kuwona momwe ena akuwonera
Cholakwika chodziwika chomwe ndimawona ndi othandizana nawo osatenga nthawi kuti amumvetsetse mnzake, koma kungoganiza kuti ena ofunika ali ndi zokumana nazo, zosowa ndi zokhumba zomwezo. Gawo la izi limaphatikizapo kusazindikira kuti ndi zinthu ziti zomwe zidachitika m'mbuyomu zomwe zimayambitsa nkhawa zawo, kuti tipewe kuyambitsa chidwi chamunthu amene amamukonda. Wogwirizana kwambiri ndi mnzake yemwe amamenyera kukhala wolondola nthawi zonse, sakufuna kutenga nawo zomwe amathandizira pamavutowo ndipo amafulumira kuyang'ana pakupeza zolakwika kwa wokondedwa wawo.
6. Kubisa kulankhulana momasuka
Njira iliyonse yolumikizirana kupatula kuyankhulana modzipereka siyopindulitsa pachibwenzi chilichonse. Malingaliro okutidwa, malingaliro ndi zokonda zimakhazikitsa chimodzi kuti zisachitike ndipo pamapeto pake zovuta zomwe zimakhalapo nthawi zambiri zimatuluka m'njira zomvetsa chisoni. Vuto la munthu pakulankhulana limakhala la magawo ambiri komanso lovuta; mosasamala komwe adachokera, zimabweretsa kusokonekera kwa ubale.
Nthawi yathu ndi mphamvu zathu zimayang'ana kwambiri pazinthu zomwe titha kusintha ndikuwongolera: zomwe tikuthandizira paubwenzi. Ngati maubale ali mbali ziwiri, tiyenera kusunga mbali yathu ya nseu ndikukhala munjira zathu. Ngati mukuwona kuti ndinu omwe mukuyambitsa kusokonekera muubwenzi wanu, lingaliranipo gawo lanu popereka upangiri payekha komanso / kapena maanja.