Zamkati
- 1. Kusagwirizana koma modekha
- 2. Mverani chisoni mnzanu ngakhale atalakwitsa
- 3.Limbikitsaninso kulumikizana
- 4. Muzikondana pafupipafupi
- 5. Lankhulani ndi vuto, osati munthu
- 6. Kukangana - inde. Nkhondo zoyipa - ayi
- 7. A no-no yayikulu
Chikondi ndi nyanja yomwe aliyense amafuna kuyendamo. Woyendetsa aliyense amatha kuchita bwino panyanja yosalala. Mirror ku zenizeni; nyanja siyikhala yosalala komanso bata nthawi zonse.
Palibe anthu ambiri padziko lapansi omwe apitiliza kuyenda panyanja nthawi imodzi. Monga nyanja, banja lanu limakhala ndi masiku osangalatsa ndikutsatira masiku ena oyipa.
Palibe njira yokhwima yoti banja lanu liziyenda bwino. Ngakhale, mutha kukhala ndi zizolowezi zingapo zomwe zingapangitse chilichonse kukhala chabwino m'paradaiso wanu.
1. Kusagwirizana koma modekha
Osamapita mokweza komanso mwachiwawa munthawi yomwe simukugwirizana. Osataya mtima wanu pakakhala mikangano.
Kumbukirani; ndinu anthu awiri ochokera m'masukulu osiyanasiyana amalingaliro. Ndipo, palibe amene ali ndi ufulu wokhala ndi munthu wamalingaliro ofanana.
Chifukwa chake, imani ndi kumamatira, koma osataya mtima kuleza mtima ndi kupirira.
2. Mverani chisoni mnzanu ngakhale atalakwitsa
Maukwati ambiri amalephera osati chifukwa cha kusiyana, koma chifukwa chosachita chidwi ndi kuthetsa kusiyana.
Ganizirani mnzanu ngati mnzake pazonse zomwe mumachita. Osamawaganizira ngati adani ngakhale mutasemphana maganizo.
- Phunzitsani mnzanu wamoyo.
- Apatseni diso kuti aganizire zinthu zomwe mukufuna kuti awone.
- Mverani chifundo ndikukambirana nawo.
3.Limbikitsaninso kulumikizana
Tikumbukireni nthawi zomwe mumakonda limodzi. Musalole kuti lingaliro la kukhala limodzi lizimiririka.
Gwiritsitsani kukumbukira zomwe mudapanga limodzi.
M'masiku osasangalala, zokumbukirazi zitha kukhala gwero lanu lokhalo kuti musungire ndalama kubanki. Mukasowa chikondi, gwiritsani ntchito masheya achikondi omwe mudasunga pomwe chikondi chanu chidali chaching'ono. Ndipo, ine ndikutsimikiza inu mukanakhala ndi ambiri mu sitolo. Kumbutsani mphindi izi ndikumvanso mgwirizano nthawi zonse.
4. Muzikondana pafupipafupi
Chikondi chikakhala mu mlengalenga, simudzalephera kuyimirira mu nsapato za wina ndi mnzake. Nyengo ya chikondi imakupangitsani kukhala ndi kudzichepetsa kopanda malire ndi chifundo kwa winayo.
Kukondana ndi gawo losapeweka m'banja.
Omwe amagonana nawo pang'ono sangathe kupitiliza ubale wawo.
Kusagwirizana kwakugonana kumadzetsa mavuto ena ambiri, ndipo ndizovuta kuti banja likhale pamiyala posachedwa.
Kukondana wina ndi mzake mwakuthupi komanso mwanjira zina.
Mwachitsanzo, Kugwira khosi ndichizindikiro chokongola kwambiri chomwe onse amatha kusinthana. Zimapangitsa chidwi chawo mwachangu komabe.
5. Lankhulani ndi vuto, osati munthu
Sinthani malingaliro anu ndikulankhulana wina ndi mnzake poyang'ana kutsogolo mukangokangana.
Tengani mapiritsi ozizira, gwiritsani ntchito nzeru zanu, ndikuthana ndi vutoli. Taganizirani izi; ndinu anthu ophunzira komanso odziwika bwino omwe ali pamavuto. Pamodzi, muyenera kupeza njira yothetsera mavuto.
Kudandaula masiku kumangowonjezera.
Kukhala chete kumangowonjezera moto. Mukuyenera kuthana ndi mkanganowu mwachifundo komanso mwachifundo.
6. Kukangana - inde. Nkhondo zoyipa - ayi
Chilango ndi gawo lofunikira paubwenzi uliwonse. Musaiwale malire ngakhale mutakhala pachibwenzi chachikulu.
Pokangana koyenera, pali mfundo yolumikizana yomwe imatha kuthetsa vutoli kwamuyaya.
Khalani womvera wabwino, perekani khutu ku zomwe mnzanu wanena, ndipo perekani malingaliro anu molingana.
Khalani mnzanu wanzeru ndipo gwirizanani mogwirizana.
7. A no-no yayikulu
Osamenya nawo nkhondo yapoizoni yodzaza nkhanza komanso kuyatsa gasi. Itha kupachika ubale wanu wachinsinsi pamlingo wosayanjanitsika.
Kusinthana mawu osokosera ndi kunyoza kumayika kuyika ulemu kwa ubale wanu pachiwopsezo.
Sinthanitsani zolimbitsa thupi nthawi ndi nthawi. Kupsompsona m'mawa, ndi kukumbatirana musanagone kumatha kuchita zodabwitsa. Izi zachikondi za Teeny-weeny zitha kuwonjezera zambiri muukwati.
Wokondedwa wanu akakhala kuti akutanganidwa ndi zinthu zina, ingolowererani ndikusinthana.
Wokondedwa wanu apita kutamandidwa konse poyankha kukoma kokoma.
Pakati pa ntchito zapakhomo, psompsonani mwachikondi ndikupangitsani mnzanuyo kuyimba matamando achikondi chanu. Tikhulupirireni; lithandizira kukulirakulira pakati panu.
Zonse zomwe zanenedwa ndikuchitidwa, banja losweka nthawi zonse limalephera pagulu.
Wokondedwa m'modzi sangasenzetse mnzakeyo, motsatana. Ngati mutagwirizana motsutsana ndi zovuta, banja lanu lingayende bwino.