Zamkati
- Kodi zonse zingakhale bwanji vuto lanu?
- Zizindikiro zomwe mumakopeka ndi wolemba nkhani:
- Narcissists amawononga kwambiri malingaliro
- Kudziwitsa ndikofunikira mukamayendayenda m'moyo kufunafuna mnzanu
Kudziwa yemwe angalole kuti alowe pakhomo ndi phunziro lomwe taphunzira poyeserera. Pankhani ya chibwenzi, kupeza wokwatirana naye woyenera kuti azikhala mosangalala nthawi zonse ndi chakumwa chokoma chomwe tonsefe timafuna kumwa.
Tili ndi lingaliro m'mutu mwathu, makamaka titawona Cinderella nthawi zillion, kuti Prince Charming ndiyokongola kwenikweni, amatikonda kwathunthu ndipo tidzakhala odzipereka kwamuyaya kwa ife.
Pali nkhani zochepa chabe zomwe zimapereka gawo lachiwiri.
Palibe amene amafunitsitsa kumva zomwe zidachitika galimotoyo itasandukanso dzungu ndipo mayi wamulunguyo adasowa.
Izi ndichifukwa choti tsopano yasinthidwa ndi matawulo onyowa munyumba yachifumu, palibe antchito powonekera ndipo apongozi awo adachokera kuti?
China chomwe sichiyenera kunyalanyazidwa ndikuti palibe mbewa zokongola zokambirana nawo, chifukwa chake mumayamba kukayikira zaumoyo wanu.
Kodi kukangana kumeneko kunapitadi momwe iye ananenera?
Kodi ndinamuneneza popanda chifukwa chomukhumudwitsa?
Mwinamwake ndinakwiya?
Mwinanso amangonena nthabwala pamaso pa abwenzi ake ... Kupatula apo, adandiuza kuti amakonda kavalidwe kanga.
Kodi izi zikumveka ngati inu?
Mwina izi zikumveka ngati inu kangapo konse.
Nthawi yayitali mpheteyo isanatengeke ndi chala chako, kukana kwako kunali kutatsika kale ndipo kulekerera kwako kunali kutakwera kale, mwaulemu wa chithumwa ndi kupembedza.
Munali mutakodwa kale ndi wankhanza.
Umo ndi momwe mudakulungidwa mu moyo wanu wapano; imadziwika kuti ake moyo.
Anali wokoma, wodzipereka, wokongola komanso njoka yozungulira khosi lako. Chakumwa chakumwa chakupha chomwe mudamwa pang'ono pang'ono pamapeto pake chidali chakupha.
Mumawona kuti muyenera kujambula, mwinanso kujambula kanema, zokambirana zilizonse ndi mnzanu kuti muwonetsetse kuti simukutaya mtima.
Kodi zonse zingakhale bwanji vuto lanu?
Narcissists ndiye mbuye wopusitsa. Adzakhala nanu mukukhulupirira kuti mwatulutsa machitidwe awo oyipa ndipo muyenera kuthokoza kuti amakukhululukirani nthawi iliyonse mukakwiya.
Kudziwa zizindikiritso za narcissism kumatha kuletsa dziko lamavuto komanso kusasangalala, makwinya ndi zonona m'maso.
Palibe amene akufuna kuphimbidwa m'maso, kutaya umunthu wawo, kukayikira kuti ali amisala kapena kufunsidwa pamiyeso momveka bwino mwakuti sanazindikire kuti adangodulidwa ndikuthira mpaka atazindikira kuti mtima wawo waduka, kufalikira mumulu waukhondo pansi.
Chidziwitso ndi chinsinsi panthawi ya chibwenzi
Zizindikiro zomwe mumakopeka ndi wolemba nkhani:
- Wokondedwa wanu ndiwodzikuza osamumvera chisoni kapena samumvera chisoni.
- Mnzanu akuwonetsa machitidwe owongolera.
- 80% ya zomwe mnzanu akunena ndizabodza ndipo 20% ina ndi yabodza loyera.
- Mnzanu amafunika kuti azimva kukhala wapamwamba nthawi zonse.
- Wokondedwa wanu amatsutsa wina aliyense ndipo savomereza zolakwa zawo. Sadzayankha funso lachindunji.
- Mnzanu ndi wozunza ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito mawu achipongwe mosavuta.
- Mnzanu sazindikira malire ndipo samatsatira.
- Mnzanu amasewera ndi momwe mumamvera. Wokongola, Wonyenga. Khalani Ankhanza. Bwerezani.
- Wokondedwa wanu samatsimikizira momwe mukumvera. Amazitaya mosavuta komanso osaganizira.
- Wokondedwa wanu samapereka chilichonse mwaufulu osaganizira. Lingaliro ndi momwe angakunyengeni kuti mukhale nawo ngongole kwa iwo.
- Mnzanu ali ndi nkhani yowopsa yokhudza wakale wawo. Wopenga.
- Mnzanu amakukhumudwitsani ndikukuyimbani mlandu chifukwa cha zomwe mwachita.
Narcissists amawononga kwambiri malingaliro
Narcissists amakonda anthu ochepa kwambiri ndipo palibe wina wopitilira kuwonekera pakalilore. Sadzakuyamikirani chifukwa ali otanganidwa kukuyembekezerani kuyamika chifukwa chakuyendera moyo wawo. Adzakuberani mwamalingaliro, mwakuthupi, mwamaganizidwe ndi azachuma ndikukusekani ndikumwetulira komwe mumamva kuti mwasweka kwambiri.
Kudziwitsa ndikofunikira mukamayendayenda m'moyo kufunafuna mnzanu
Kudziwa kufunikira kwanu ndikuyembekeza kuti ivomerezedwe kuyenera kukhala lamulo labwino kwambiri pazibwenzi.
Tili ndi makina othandiza omangidwa, GPS yathu. Kuyang'anira Kwambiri kwa Mnzanu.
Ili m'kati mwa limbic system. Zimatithandizira kukhala zolengedwa zam'mutu komanso mawonekedwe am'mbali amatilola kukhala ndi mayankho ndikumagwiritsa ntchito maluso oganiza bwino.
Madera awiriwa atha kukhala abwinoko kuposa ntchito yofufuzira. Mumadzidziwa nokha kuposa wina aliyense. Ngati sizikumveka bwino, ubongo wanu umakudziwitsani, ndilo gawo lokhudzidwa. Muyenera kukhala omasuka kuwamvera osagwera mu “Asintha msampha.” Ndilo gawo loganiza mozama pantchito.
Osanyalanyaza izi!
Narcissists sasintha.
Chifukwa chake ngati chibwenzi chikusiyani chokhumudwitsa, chimakusiyani kukayika, chimadzetsa malingaliro monga kusokonezeka, kutopa, kukhumudwa, kusakhutira, kunyozedwa, kukhumudwitsidwa kapena kupsinjika, ndiye nthawi yoti mupeze nyumba ina yachifumu. Makamaka imodzi yokhala ndi mbewa zomwe zimaphika komanso kuyeretsa.