Zamkati
- Mutha kuganiza kuti mnzanu samathandizira pantchito kwambiri
- Kugonana kumatha kukhala kosangalatsa
- Ana amatenga nthawi yanu yocheza ngati banja
- Zomwe mungachite ngati banja lanu silikuyenda bwino
Kodi pali china chilichonse chokongola kuposa chikondi? Mwina ayi! Koma, muubwenzi wodzipereka, nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kukumbukira zina mwazinthu zokongola zomwe zimachokera ku banjali kuyika nthawi ndi kuyesetsa kuti zigwire ntchito.
Kodi mungatani ngati mutalowa mwapadera ndikuyika mphete pa chala chanu? Chabwino! Ndizovuta. Nthawi zina mumangofunika kudzikumbutsa - Chifukwa chiyani mudayamba kukondana? Chifukwa chiyani mudatopa?
Kusamvana m'banja ndichinthu chachilendo
Ndichizindikiro cha anthu awiri olimba omwe ali ndi zikhumbo ndi zikhumbo zina zosiyana zomwe zimafikira kuti, chifukwa cha thanzi ndi mgwirizano wawo, akuyenera kugwirizana.
Kuthetsa kusamvana kumeneku kumatha kukhala kowopsa - nthawi zina simukufuna kuvomereza kuti pali china chilichonse cholakwika - koma, monga wophatikiza, nditha kunena motsimikiza kuti chinsinsi cha banja lolimba komanso lathanzi ndi kulumikizana. Ngati simukusangalala, uzani mnzanu. Sizingakupindulitseni, iwo kapena banja lanu lonse ngati mungalole kuti vuto likule.
Mutha kuganiza kuti mnzanu samathandizira pantchito kwambiri
Zitha kukhala kuti timazindikira mnzathu akukhala kuti akuchita zochepa kwambiri pachibwenzi. Momwe 'kuyesayesa' komwe kumawonetsera kumatengera zochitika: mwina sakupanga nthawi yoti akhale ndi madzulo abwino limodzi; mwina sakuthandizira moyo wanu monga momwe mukuwathandizira nawonso.
Ngakhale zinthu zooneka ngati zazing'ono zimawonjezera - kodi sizikuthandizira kupanga chakudya chamadzulo? Osatulukira kumalo ogulitsira mkaka ngakhale muli otanganidwa kugona ana? - ndipo amatha kuwalipiritsa pakapita nthawi.
Kugonana kumatha kukhala kosangalatsa
Mofananamo, zimadziwika bwino kuti banja lokwatira lingasokoneze zomwe zimachitika mchipinda chogona. Moyo wosagonana nthawi zambiri umakhala chizindikiro choti zinthu sizikuyenda momwe aliyense angafunire - ndipo nthawi zambiri amalankhula zambiri za chibwenzi chonse.
Zitha kukhala kuti zokonda za mnzake zimasintha, kapena zachepa pang'ono - ndikudzimva wosakopeka kapena wosafunikira kumatha kulowerera m'malingaliro a mnzake.
Ana amatenga nthawi yanu yocheza ngati banja
Kukhala ndi ana kumatenga nthawi yochuluka yocheza, ndipo nthawi zambiri mumatha kukhala otopa kwambiri kumapeto kwa tsiku kuti muganize zakuwonjezera kutentha magetsi akazima.
Zomwe mungachite ngati banja lanu silikuyenda bwino
Palibe amene ali wangwiro, ndipo gawo limodzi lokhala muubwenzi wokondana ndikuvomereza kuti zofooka za mnzanu ndizo gawo la chikhalidwe chawo - khalidwe lomwe mudakondana nalo poyambira. Ndizachilengedwe kusiyanasiyana pang'ono pazikhulupiriro, zikhumbo, malingaliro - koma, ngati mukufuna kuti zichitike, njira yabwino kwambiri yopezera palibe kungokhala owonamtima wina ndi mnzake.
Lankhulani ndi mnzanu za zomwe zikugwira ntchito - ndi zomwe sizigwira ntchito. Gwiritsani ntchito zinthu limodzi, monga gulu, monga mgwirizano - ndipo mwina mungadabwe ndi zomwe ntchito yaying'ono - komanso thandizo lalikulu lachikondi - lingachitire banja lanu.