Zamkati
- 1. Muzikopana ndi mnzanu
- 2. Muzicheza ndi mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu nthawi zonse
- 3. Ganizirani njira zatsopano
- 4. Konzekerani
- 5. Funani akatswiri
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Kukondana ndi ukwati ndi mawu awiri osagwirizana. Kufunika kokhala paubwenzi wapabanja ndikofunikira monga kufunikira kwa kukhulupirirana ndi kudalirana kuti mukhale ndi ubale wabwino.
Kupanda kukondana m'banja kumatha kupangitsa kuti maubwenzi olimba asokonezeke. Koma, kodi ubwenzi ndi chiyani m'banja?
Kukhala paubwenzi wapabanja sikungokhala kwakusangalala limodzi pabedi. Kukondana kwambiri ndikofunikira kuti anthu awiriwa azimva kukondedwa komanso kukhala otetezeka m'banjamo.
Monga china chilichonse m'moyo, maubwenzi amafunika kusamalidwa mosamala ndi kutetezedwa kuti zinthu zikuyendere bwino. Ubale wopanda kukondana uli ngati momwe uliri kale ndipo sunakhalepo!
Ganizirani za dimba: wolima dimba sayenera kubzala mbewu zokha koma akuyeneranso kusamalira dimba ngati akufuna kukolola chilichonse chaphindu. Zomwezi zimachitikanso pachibwenzi m'banja. Ngati mukufuna chibwenzi chosaneneka, muyenera kutengera mnzanuyo ndi banja lanu.
Chifukwa chake, mungabweretse bwanji chibwenzi muubwenzi? Momwe mungayambitsire banja?
Nawa maupangiri ocheperako oti muteteze ndikulitsa chibwenzi muukwati wanu:
1. Muzikopana ndi mnzanu
Zingamveke zomveka bwino, koma ndizosavuta kutayika muzochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku ndikuyiwala kupitiliza kukopana!
Kumbukirani nthawi yomwe inu ndi mnzanu munayamba chibwenzi. Kodi inu ndi bwenzi / bwenzi lanu lakale / bwenzi lanu mudangolankhula za ndalama zomwe zimayenera kulipidwa kapena zomwe muyenera kuchita pakhomo?
Inde sichoncho! Inu awiri mumakopana wina ndi mnzake! Ndipamene mudakondana. Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndikofunikira kupitiliza lawi!
Pali njira zambiri zomwe mungakopere ndi mnzanu. Banja lililonse lili ndi manja kapena mawu ochepa omwe amapangitsa wina ndi mnzake kupitilira. Ndiye bwanji osamuombera mnzanuyo mawu ndi mawuwa nthawi ndi nthawi?
Ndi chinthu chaching'ono chomwe chimakhudza kwambiri. Zina mwazolemba ndi zakuti "mutenge mkaka mukamapita kwanu," ndipo zina ndizodzikongoletsera. Sangalalani ndi spicier!
Njira zina zokukopekerani ndi monga kuphatikizira mnzanu zolemba zakukhumudwitsa, kumutumizira imelo kapena mawu oyankha, ngakhalenso kuyimba foni. Komabe, inu ndi mnzanu mumakopana, khalani nawo. Chofunikira kwambiri ndikuti mumakopana wina ndi mnzake ndipo OSAKHALA ndi wina aliyense.
2. Muzicheza ndi mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu nthawi zonse
Malangizowa ndi anzeru, koma kachiwirinso, okwatirana amaiwala kupitiliza kukhala pachibwenzi ndi okwatirana atakwatirana. Kukhala ndi chibwenzi ndi mnzanu ndi ntchito yofunika kwambiri yomwe ingapangitse kapena kusokoneza chibwenzi chanu. Amuna ndi akazi onse amafunika kumva kuti amafunidwa, kukondedwa, ndi kuyamikiridwa.
Ndili ndi malingaliro amenewo, kutenga mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu pachibwenzi kumatsimikizira kuti akumva izi. Osanenapo kuti mudzachokanso ndi chikho chanu chodzaza!
Usiku watsiku ndi tsiku, inu ndi mnzanu mudzakhala osangalala wina ndi mnzake chifukwa mukhala limodzi, kuphunzira limodzi, ndi kusangalala limodzi. Palibe aliyense wa inu amene angamve ngati muli "kumbuyo" kapena "kutsogolo" kwa mnzake. Nonse mudzakhala patsamba limodzi.
Zingakhale zovuta kuti mumvetse zambiri nthawi zina, makamaka ngati muli ndi ana, koma tsiku lausiku liyenera kukhala chofunikira kwambiri. Chifukwa chake, yesetsani kupeza woyang'anira yemwe angayang'anire ana kamodzi pa sabata.
Ngati sitter sizingatheke kapena muli ndi bajeti yolimba, khalani ndi tsiku kunyumba ana anu akagona. Pali njira zambiri zomwe inu ndi mnzanu mungapangire nthawi kuti muzikhala ndi tsiku lokhala ndi tsiku. Pangani ntchito!
Pangani mgwirizano ndi mnzanu lero kuti nonse mukhale ndi cholinga chokusungabe "munda wachikondi" womwe ukukula. Kukopana ndi kukhala pachibwenzi kumakhala chizolowezi chokwatirana, kukondana kumakula.
3. Ganizirani njira zatsopano
Ndizachilendo kuti zinthu zizitopetsa pansi pa mapepala ndi zaka zapitazi, makamaka ngati mwakhala m'banja kwa nthawi yayitali.
Zofunikira pamoyo zimasintha, ndipo mosazindikira mumayamba kudzitaya mu mpikisanowu, ntchito yanu, ana, ndi zina zambiri. Kuyanjana kwakuthupi kumatenga mpando wakumbuyo, ndipo popanda inu kudziwa, mgwirizano wanu ukuwoneka kuti ukutalikirana.
Ndiye, mungamange bwanji chibwenzi? Kodi mungabwezeretse bwanji zibwenzi m'banja?
Kukhazikitsa ubale wapabanja ndikosavuta ngati mulidi ndi mtima wofuna kuthana ndi mavuto apabanja.
Palibe lamulo loti moyo wanu wogonana uyenera kukhala wotopetsa ngati mwakhala m'banja zaka zambiri. Muyenera kuganizira malingaliro atsopano kuti mukhazikitsenso moyo wanu wogonana. Nthawi ina mukadzachita, onetsetsani kuti mwadabwitsa mnzanu!
4. Konzekerani
Ngakhale mukuchita kafukufuku wambiri wowonjezera zing pa moyo wanu wogonana, ndi chiyani ngati simupeza nthawi yoti mugwiritse ntchito malingaliro anu?
Mutha kukhala ndi zifukwa zokhala ndi tsiku lotanganidwa kuntchito, kapena ana amakhumudwa kapena zina zomwe banja limadzipereka. Koma, kumbukirani, simungazisiye zonsezo komwe mukufuna.
Chifukwa chake, kuti muthandizire kukondana muukwati, tengani zomwe mukufuna, ndikukonzekera. Chitani chilichonse chomwe chingafunike kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yosangalatsa ndi mnzanu usikuuno.
Mwachitsanzo, mutha kusiya ana anu kwa agogo kapena kukhala ogalamuka kwa maola owonjezera kuti musaphonye zosangalatsa. Mutha kubisa tulo tomwe tsiku lotsatira!
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5. Funani akatswiri
Ngati mwayesa chilichonse pansi pa thambo kukonza ubale wapabanja ndipo palibe chomwe chikuwoneka chikugwira ntchito, zingakuthandizeni kufunafuna chithandizo cha akatswiri kuti mubwezeretse chilakolako m'banja lanu.
Mutha kusaka mlangizi wokhala ndi zilolezo kapena wothandizila ndikusankha maanja kapena mankhwala ogonana.
Nthawi zonse kumakhala bwino kukhala ndi maso owonjezera pazinthu zanu kuti muthane nawo ndikubwezeretsanso kuyanjana muubwenzi.
Kukulunga
Aliyense ali ndi gawo lawo lachikondi m'banja. Ndiudindo wanu kuwapangitsa kuti azichedwa kapena kuyesetsa kutsitsimutsa chibwenzi m'banja.
Ndikosavuta kuwona chibwenzi chikusochera, osachitapo kanthu, ndikudandaula pambuyo pake. M'malo mwake, ngati muzindikira za maubwenzi apabanja munthawi yake, mutha kuchita zambiri kuti mupulumutse banja lanu.
Chifukwa chake, bweretsani ubale wapabanja kuti mubweretse ubale wanu wachimwemwe, wathanzi panjira yake. Zabwino zonse!