Zamkati
- Kodi kusunga mwana ndi kotani?
- Ufulu woyendera
- Co-kulera
- Ubwino wosunga thupi
- Zoyipa zakusungidwa kwakuthupi
Ku United States, kusamalira ana kumayikidwanso m'magulu awiri akulu, kutanthauza, kusamalira mwana ndi malamulo. Kusunga thupi ndi ufulu wopatsidwa kwa kholo kuti azikhala ndi mwana wawo pambuyo pa chisudzulo kapena kupatukana. Izi zitha kukhala zophatikizika kapena zokha.
Kodi kusunga mwana ndi kotani?
Pakhoza kukhala mitundu iwiri yosunga-
1. Kodi kusamalira ana makamaka makamaka nkotani?
Monga momwe dzinalo likusonyezera, kulera mwana yekhayo kapena woyamba kumangokhala kholo lokhalo lomwe lidzakhale kholo losunga mwana.
2. Kodi kugawana ana ndi chiyani?
Kumbali inayi, kuphatikiza pamodzi kapena kugawana pamodzi kumatanthauza kuti makolo onse ali ndi ufulu wokhala ndi mwana, makolo onse nawonso ali ndi udindo wofanana pakusamalira mwana wawo.
Ufulu woyendera
Kholo lomwe silisunga mwana lomwe lili m'manja mwake silingapatsidwe mwayi wokhala ndi mwana / anawo koma nthawi zambiri limaloledwa kuyendera. Mwa "kuyendera," mwanayo amatha kupatsidwa nthawi, mwachitsanzo. kumapeto kwa sabata, kukhala ndi kholo lomwe silimusunga. Mabanja ambiri otchuka omwe adadutsa kapena akusudzulana ali ndi izi. Chitsanzo chabwino komanso chaposachedwa ndi Brad Pitt ndi Angelina Jolie, pomwe akale amapatsidwa ufulu woyang'anira ana awo okha. Kusamalira okha kumaperekedwa kwa amayi a anawo.
Co-kulera
Makhothi ndiwololedwa kupereka ufulu wokawayendera komanso kukhala ndi malingaliro otseguka okhudza makolo omwe akufuna kuyendera "mwaufulu" kapena kuleredwa nawo limodzi. Omalizawa ndiotchuka masiku ano, omwe amatchedwanso kulera ana. Komabe, kulera ana limodzi kumakhala kovomerezeka pakati pa anthu awiri omwe apatukana popanda kupita kukadandaula kapena milandu yokhudza kusunga ana.
Amuna ndi akazi ambiri osudzulana amakhala m'makolo olera limodzi kapena kulera limodzi. Ena mwa iwo ndi Ben Affleck ndi Jennifer Garner, Demi Moore ndi Bruce Willis, Reese Witherspoon ndi Ryan Philippe, Courtney Cox ndi David Arquette, Jennifer Lopez ndi Marc Anthony, Kourtney Cox ndi Scott Disick ndi, Rob Kardashian ndi Blac Chyna, kutchula dzina ochepa. Amakhulupirira kuti kuchita izi ndi kwa mwana / ana.
Wosunga nyumba nthawi zambiri amalankhula komwe mwana amakhala komanso kutalika kwa nthawiyo. Ikufotokozanso yemwe ali ndi ufulu komanso udindo wosankha mwanayo pazinthu monga kukhala bwino komanso zochitika zatsiku ndi tsiku.
Kulera pamodzi, ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri kumatchedwa kulera ana onse, sikuti nthawi zonse kumatanthauza kuti makolo adzagawana nthawi yofanana ndi mwana. M'malo mwake, makolo amatha kukhazikitsa malangizo omveka bwino komanso nthawi yomwe mwanayo azikhala ndi kholo lililonse. Komabe, ndalama zomwe zimafunikira polera mwanayo zimagawidwa malinga ndi kuthekera kwa aliyense.
Pakadali pano, makhothi amasintha kuti apereke mwayi wokhala limodzi mobwerezabwereza poganizira chidwi cha mwana. Izi ndichifukwa choti pali zabwino zambiri zomwe zimakhudzana ndi makonzedwe awa.
Ubwino wosunga thupi
- Kholo lirilonse lidzakhala ndi chisonkhezero pa mwana wake pamene akukula;
- Kulumikizana ndi makolo onse kukhazikitsidwa;
- Kholo limodzi silidzadzimva kukhala locheperapo kuposa linzake;
- Ndalama zidzagawidwa, motero kholo lililonse lizikhala ndi ndalama zochepa;
- Mwanayo sadzafunika kutenga mbali ngati makolo onse alipo m'moyo wake;
Komabe, monga pali zabwino, palinso zovuta.
Zoyipa zakusungidwa kwakuthupi
- Pokhala m'nyumba ziwiri, mwanayo angafunike nthawi yosinthira asanakhale womasuka ndi vutolo;
- Nthawi zomwe nyumba ziwirizi ndizotalikirana, mwanayo zimakhala zovuta kuti ayende nyumba imodzi kupita ina. Nthawi yogwiritsidwa ntchito poyenda ndikubwerera itha kugwiritsidwa ntchito pazinthu zina zothandiza;
- Kusinthana kwaubwana kumatha kubweretsa zovuta komanso zovuta kwa mwanayo;
- Kwa mwana yemwe ali ndi makolo omwe akutsutsana, kusamvana kotere kumatha kukulirakulira posinthana kosunga mwana, zomwe zimamupweteka mwanayo.
Makolowo ali ndi mwayi wodziwa bwino za mwana wawo atawunika maubwino olowa m'manja limodzi komanso koyambirira. Potenga njira zowasungira ana, ayenera kukumbukira za ubwino wa ana awo koposa china chilichonse.