Zamkati
"Permanent" imamveka chonchi, chabwino, chokhazikika - chosasinthika. Pankhani ya alimony, yomwe imadziwikanso kuti kuthandizira okwatirana kapena kukonza okwatirana, "okhazikika" nthawi zambiri amatanthauza kusasinthika. Kwa munthu amene amalipira ndalama, zimatha kukhala ngati wamulamula kuti akhale m'ndende moyo wonse; amene amalandila malipirowo, amatha kumva kuti malipirowo ndi a mulungu. Koma kodi kukhazikika kumakhala kotani, kwenikweni?
Kodi chisamaliro chosatha chimatha liti?
Wowotcha pazofunikira zake, m'maiko ambiri, khothi likalamula kuti munthu azilipira ndalama zonse, zikutanthauza kuti amalipidwa kwakanthawi, makamaka mwezi uliwonse, mpaka chimodzi mwazinthu ziwiri izi zichitike. Choyamba, ngati mmodzi mwa okwatiranawo amwalira, nthawi zonse chithandizo chamankhwala chimatha. Kuphatikiza apo, kulipira kwamuyaya kumatha nthawi zambiri mwamuna kapena mkazi wakale akalandiranso ndalama. M'mayiko ena, chisamaliro chokhazikika chimatha nawonso amene akulandila amakhala ndi wina muukwati wonga waukwati.
Kukhazikika kwanyengo kumalandilidwa pafupipafupi. Komabe, azimayi ambiri akamagwira ntchito ndikulandira malipiro abwino, saperekedwe kosatha sapatsidwa pafupipafupi monga kale. Ndipo ngakhale itaperekedwa, imatha kusinthidwa ngati zinthu zisintha kwambiri.
Zosankha zina
M'malo mokhala ndi ndalama mpaka muyaya, mitundu ina ya ma alimony ikukula kwambiri ku United States. Mwachitsanzo, m'maiko ambiri, lamuloli limalola makhothi kuti apereke ndalama zakanthawi kwakanthawi, kwakanthawi. Woweruza angasankhe kuperekanso chomwe chimatchedwa "chithandizo chobwezeretsa". Mitundu yamtunduwu imayendetsedwa nthawi zambiri kuti mnzake wolandirayo ayambenso kuyenda. Mwachitsanzo, woweruzayo angaganize zopereka ndalama zokwanira kwa okwatiranawo kuti apeze digiri ya kukoleji, potero amamuwonjezera ntchito komanso kupeza ndalama zambiri.
Khothi likhozanso kusankha kuperekanso ndalama zochuluka m'malo moperekera ndalama kwamuyaya. Ndi mphotho ya ndalama, wokwatirayo amalipira ndalama imodzi kwa mnzakeyo kuti amupatse ndalama. Lump sum alimony atha kusankha makhothi chifukwa samapangitsa kuti banja likhale logwirizana, potero amachotsa mtolo wopitiliza kuchitirana mtsogolo.
Zolakwa za alimony
Anthu ena amaganiza kuti kukhululukirana kosatha kumawalimbikitsa zolakwika onse awiriwo. Anthuwa amati anthu omwe amalipidwa ndalama zolipirira ndalama zochepa alibe chowalimbikitsira kugwira ntchito molimbika kuti akwezedwe pantchito ndikulipidwa chifukwa atha kutaya zina mwa zovuta zomwe amapeza kwa omwe adakwatirana nawo kale. Mofananamo, anthu omwe amakhulupirira kuti kusamalidwa kwamuyaya ndi lingaliro loipa amanena kuti yemwe adakwatirana naye yemwe amalandila ndalama alibe chilimbikitso chopita kukaphunzira, kukwezedwa pantchito, kapena kugwira ntchito molimbika kuti awonjezere ndalama zake.
M'mayiko ambiri, chisamaliro chokhazikika sichimaperekedwa kawirikawiri. Komabe, mayiko angapo amasungabe malamulo okhazikika azakudya m'mabuku awo. Ngati mumakhala m'modzi mwa mayikowa ndikusudzulana, ndikofunikira kuti mukalankhule ndi loya wodziwa kusudzulana yemwe angakuthandizeni kupanga mfundo zofunika kwa woweruza mlandu wanu. Kaya mukufuna kupewa kubweza ngongole yokhazikika kapena mukufuna kulandira chithandizo chokhazikika, mwayi wanu ukugwira ntchito ndi loya wabanja wodziwa bwino mdera lanu.