Zamkati
Ndizodziwika bwino kuti umayi ndi ntchito yanthawi zonse. Palibe zopuma, zopanda malire, kapena nthawi yokwanira yopumira ndikusanja zinthu zokhudzana ndi iye. Zomwe amatanganidwa ndi mwana wake, kumuwonerera, kusewera, ndikukula.
Ali ndi chipiriro chabwino komanso chidwi. Njira yomweyi imagwiranso ntchito pantchito zina zamankhwala momwe amayi amakhalira otsimikizika kupambana ndikuchita bwino.
Pali maluso ochepa komanso luso lokhala mayi lomwe lingathe kuchitidwa pantchito zosiyanasiyana monga kuyang'anira, unamwino komanso kuyang'anira, ndi zina. Palibe kukayika kuti amayi atsimikiziridwa kuti ndi aphunzitsi, ophika, okongoletsa, ndi anamwino.
Pomwe timakambirana za unamwino, amayi ndi akatswiri pantchitoyi chifukwa amakhala akusamalira ana awo nthawi ndi nthawi osawapanikiza.
Zawonetsedwa makamaka kuti amayi amadziwika kuti ndi anamwino ogwira ntchito bwino. Iwo sali okonzekera kutenga maudindo ndi ntchito za namwino.
Ndiye chifukwa chiyani unamwino ndi ntchito yabwino kwa mayi? Amayi ali kale ndi mikhalidwe yapadera yotsatirayi yomwe imakhala zifukwa zomwe amayi amapangira anamwino abwino.
1. Kulankhulana / Kusinthana mawu
Chimodzi mwazinthu zofunikira kwambiri chifukwa chomwe amayi amapangira anamwino abwino ndichakuti amatha kulumikizana kapena kusinthana mawu.
Ngati mukuphunzitsa mwana momwe angalankhulire mokwanira komanso pomaliza ziganizo kapena kuwunika limodzi ndi anthu akuluakulu, mumatha kuzindikira chinthu chimodzi kapena ziwiri zokhudzana ndi kulumikizana bwino ndi ana awo.
Ndi njira yothandiza kwambiri yowonetsetsa kuti aliyense ali patsamba limodzi komanso momwe alili. Zokambiranazi ndi momwe mumasungira ana anu otetezeka, kuwawonetsa, kuwakonda, kuwaphunzitsa china chake, komanso kuthana nawo nthawi yomwe angafunike kwambiri.
2. Maganizo ofulumira
Pankhani ya nthawi yovuta, nkhani imodzi yomwe mungafune ngati namwino ndi luso loganiza ndikuganiza mwachangu. Kulemba unamwino kumaphatikizaponso kuganiza mozama m'njira zambiri.
Zachidziwikire, mwakhala mukuchita zambiri komanso zokumana nazo zambiri monga mayi. Sitingaganize momwe mwana amakhalira pagulu kapena zomwe amachita popanda kudziwitsa aliyense.
Komabe, zinthu zambiri zimawuka, ndipo muyenera kukupatsani njira yatsopano yophunzitsira mwana wanu kapena kuwasankhira. Zinthu izi zitha kukhala chitsanzo chogwira mtima ana akapangitsa amayi awo kuphunzira momwe angasinthire.
Ndipo izi zokha zimapangitsa kuti anamwino akhale opanga komanso odabwitsa. Anamwino amafunika kupanga zisankho mwachangu ndikudziwitsa madokotala omwe apatsidwa zomwezo osataya nthawi yambiri.
3. Kuleza mtima
Kukhala mayi sungaleke kupirira kwako pa ana, konse. Ndipo ichi ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri pokhala namwino wothandiza. Anamwino amafunika kukhala ndi chipiriro chochuluka pamene amabwera ndi zovuta zambiri.
Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kuti azikhala chete koma amafunika kudekha ndikulemba. Nthawi zina odwala amakwiya namwino, koma kukhala namwino ayenera kukhala odekha pamavuto otere nawonso.
Ichi ndichinthu chachikulu anamwino omwe ali nazo zambiri. Muyenera kukhala oleza mtima mukamagwira ntchito ndi wodwala yemwe akumva kuwawa kwambiri, kapena pomwe pali abale am'banja la odwala komanso omwe mumagwira nawo ntchito akudandaula. Muyeneranso kudzipirira nokha.
4. Nsembe
Amayi samayembekezera chilichonse chomwe angachitire ana awo. Amakonda kupereka moyo wawo wonse kuti angosamalira mwana wake zivute zitani.
Amapereka zopereka zambiri ndi kudzipereka mofanana ndi namwino. Namwino amapereka nthawi yake yamtengo wapatali kuti achite chilungamo ndi ntchito komanso udindo wake.
Mapeto
Udindo woyamwitsa umafunika kumvera zofuna za ena ndikuyankha moyenera komanso munthawi yake. Kukhala mayi, ndiwe katswiri pa izi.
Kugwiranso ntchito unamwino kungafanane, chifukwa mumaphunzira kugwira ntchito ndi mbiri ya odwala ambiri omwe mukuwasamalira. Zachidziwikire, mudzakhala ndi gawo lina lakukhudzidwa pantchito, komabe, zomwe zitha kubwera ngati kuchepetsera.