Zamkati
- Sungani ubale wapamtima pantchito yanu
- 1. Yesetsani kukwaniritsa udindo wanu
- 2. Khazikitsani malire omveka bwino
- 3. Kupuma
- 4. Pewani kuganiza kwakuda kapena koyera
- 5. Lankhulani pogwiritsa ntchito ziganizo za "Ine"
- 6. Onjezani kulumikizana ndi antchito anu
- 7. Sanjani udindo wanu
Nthawi zambiri pamakhala zovuta zapadera zomwe timasewera tikamagwira ntchito ndi omwe timakonda.
Monga banja, chisankho chogwirira ntchito limodzi chimatha kukhala chosavuta, chosowa chachuma, kapena kukumana chifukwa chokhala gawo limodzi. Kaya chifukwa chake ndi chiyani, kuyendetsa malire pakati pa moyo wakunyumba ndi moyo wakuntchito kungakhale kovuta kwa banja lililonse. Simukufuna kuti wokondedwa wanu akhale wogwira naye ntchito omwe simungachokeko kapena kumva kuti mwakakamizidwa. Simufunanso kuwoloka malire ndikupangitsa kuti ubale wanu ukhale wopanda ntchito kuntchito.
Sungani ubale wapamtima pantchito yanu
Njira zisanu ndi ziwirizi zikuwonetsetsa kuti zithandizira kusunga ubale wapanyumba ndikukhala opindulitsa komanso otanganidwa ndi ntchito.
1. Yesetsani kukwaniritsa udindo wanu
Kodi mungalankhule ndi ndani ngati mnzanu akukusokonezani? Kodi pali abwenzi omwe sakufuna kumva za mavuto osalekeza? Thandizani kuwongolera pokambirana za omwe mumalankhula nawo osapangitsa ena kukhala omangika kapena kuphwanya zinsinsi za mnzanu. Khalani ndi gwero losiyana ndi ena. Awa akhoza kukhala othandizira kapena wina yemwe mukudziwa kuti mungamukhulupirire yemwe sangabwere pakati panu nonse. Samalani potsegulira anzanu omwe mumagwira nawo ntchito kapena anzanu omwe atha kubweretsa nawo pachiwonetsero cha chibwenzi chanu.
2. Khazikitsani malire omveka bwino
Nthawi zambiri, mukamagwira ntchito ndi abale, zokambirana monga nthawi yolipirira masiku atchuthi, masiku odwala amadutsa njira. Nthawi zambiri, mukamagwira ntchito ndi mabanja, anthu amatha maola ambiri akugwira ntchito ndikugwira ntchito nthawi yosamvetseka ndipo samva kuti ali ndi tchuthi. Kukhala ndi chindapusa chokwanira komanso madeti amalire adzakuthandizani kusankha nthawi yomwe mukugwira ntchito komanso nthawi yopumula. Dziwani nthawi yomwe mumagwira ntchito "chifukwa ndi banja." Pogwirizana za kuchuluka kwa masiku a tchuthi ndi masiku odwala, komanso ndandanda ya tsiku ndi tsiku ndewu zambiri zitha kupewedwa ngati malamulo ali omveka.
Bedi ndi la kugonana ndi kugona. Nyengo.
Osadzuka ndikuyang'ana maimelo nthawi yomweyo, pewani maimelo pabedi palimodzi. Palibe malipoti a tsikuli. Malo achinsinsi komanso pagulu amafunika kulekanitsidwa ndikufotokozedwa bwino.
3. Kupuma
Kumbukirani nthawi zomwe mumasowa nthawi yopuma. Ngati mukugwirabe ntchito kunyumba ndi kuofesi, kumakhala kofunikira kukhazikitsa "nthawi yanga" yoti muzitha kudzisamalira.Ngati onse awiri akusamalira zosowa zawo zakuthupi, zamaganizidwe ndi chikhalidwe kunja, atha kupatsana mwayi wopitilira kuubwenzi ndikukhala otanganidwa kwambiri pantchito.
Pangani nthawi yocheza popanda kugwira ntchito; ndikudya chakudya chamadzulo ndi banja ndipo mumakambirana zovuta zomwe zangochitika kumene kuntchito. Ana akusewera panja akusangalala komanso nkhani yantchito yomwe mukuganiza kuti iyenera kuyankhidwa ndi mnzanu. Mwina sangaganize kuti ndizofunika kwambiri ndipo angafune kuyang'ana kwambiri nthawi ya banja koma azichita komabe. Izi ndi zomwe zimabweretsa kukwiya komanso kusowa chibwenzi. Pangani usiku wamlungu uliwonse kuti mutsitsimutse ndikukumbukira munthu amene munakondana naye- osati wogwira naye ntchito. Palibe zokambirana zantchito zomwe zimaloledwa. Mukufuna kupita nawo ku gawo lina? Yesetsani kukambirana za ana nawonso. Mudzadabwa momwe mungakhalire ofunda komanso osangalala ndi mphindi zochepa kuti muyang'ane m'maso ndikuchita zochitika zomwe mumakonda. Pamene nonse muli osangalala komanso mukusangalala- kugwirira ntchito limodzi kumakhala kamphepo kayaziyazi.
4. Pewani kuganiza kwakuda kapena koyera
“Umachedwa nthawi zonse!” “Simungathe kuchita chilichonse chomwe ndikufunsani!” Zobisika zimachitika tikamakhwimitsa anthu kuti azitha kudziwa omwe timamvetsetsa. Kenako, mikangano yaying'ono imatha kukhala nkhani zazikulu kwambiri. Pewani kulemberana makalata ndipo dziwani chilankhulo. Mukamamuyitana mnzanu kuti ndi "waulesi" sizikhala zolimbikitsa kuchita zina mosiyana nthawi ina. M'malo mwake, yesetsani kuyang'ana pazomwe mukukangana munthawiyo ndikupatseni malingaliro pazomwe zingagwire bwino ntchito nthawi ina.
5. Lankhulani pogwiritsa ntchito ziganizo za "Ine"
M'malo moyankha "muyenera" yambani kunena kuti "Ndikumva". Mawu anu adzalandiridwa bwino kwambiri. Zithandizanso kuti winayo asadzione kuti nthawi yomweyo akuteteza, kumenyedwa kapena kuwomberedwa.
6. Onjezani kulumikizana ndi antchito anu
Kambiranani za njovu mchipinda. Zidzakhala zovuta kuti ogwira ntchito anene kusakhutira kwawo ndi chithandizo chapadera chomwe mkaziyo amalandila. Ngati, kulibe zolembera ndipo zimawonedwa ngati zopita patsogolo ndipo aliyense akuyanjana ndikuwonekera poyera pazomwe zingachitike, ndizotheka kuti malingaliro adzatuluka ndikutha kuyankhidwa.
7. Sanjani udindo wanu
Spender vs opulumutsa. Wamphamvu m'modzi m'modzi wokhala pansi. Sanjani zinthu. Ngati wina wa inu ali bwana kuntchito mwina mutha kukhala pansi pa chipinda chogona. Sakanizani. Nthawi zina kukhazikitsa kusintha kwakung'ono kapena kungochita zokha kungathandize kuyambitsa mphamvu zosewerera pachiyanjano komanso pakugwira ntchito.
Mukamadzikumbutsa modekha za mnzanu yemwe mudakondana naye mutha kusiya kubweretsa zaka zomwezo kunyumba komanso kuofesi.