Kukwatirana kumatha kukhala chinthu chosangalatsa kwambiri m'moyo wanu. Ndi nthawi yachikondi, nthawi yokonzekera, nthawi yosintha, nthawi yazinthu zatsopano, zina zobwerekedwa, ndi zina zabuluu. Ndi nkhani yachikondi yokhala ndi mathero osangalatsa komanso chiyambi chatsopano.
Mukakwatirana, mumasintha nyengo yatsopano, nyengo yomwe simukudziwa, nyengo yomwe imabweretsa kusintha kosatsimikizika, nyengo yomwe nthawi zina imatha kukayikira lingaliro lanu, kudzikayikira, ndi ndikudabwa ngati mwapanga chisankho choyenera; Mutha kukhala ndi mapazi ozizira, ndipo mumafuna kuponya thaulo ndikusiyira, ndipo izi zimachitika pomwe zomwe mukuyembekezera m'banja, sizikugwirizana ndi zomwe ukwati ulidi. Koma zili bwino, sizachilendo kumva motere chifukwa muli pamalo m'moyo wanu, komwe simunafikepo, ndipo kukhala pamalo ano kungakhale kowopsa.
Koma, pamene mukuyamba nyengo yanu yatsopano, chiyambi chanu chatsopano, ndi moyo wanu watsopano, ndikufuna kugawana nanu, ngale zina zanzeru zomwe muyenera kukumbukira nthawi zonse:
- Nthawi zonse kumbukirani zomwe zakukopani kwa amuna anu, kumbukirani tsiku lanu loyamba, kumbukirani momwe mudamvera mukakumana koyamba, kumbukirani malingaliro omwe adadutsa m'mutu mwanu mutangokhala pachibwenzi, ndipo nthawi zonse muzikumbukira zomwe zimakupangitsani kumwetulira, ngakhale iye mulibe mchipinda.
- Osatanganidwa kwambiri ndi ntchito, kwakuti mumanyalanyazana komanso ubale.Ukwati umatenga ntchito, muyenera kuyika ntchito yofunikira kuti mumange banja lolimba komanso lokhalitsa.
- Nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti ukwati umafuna nthawi ndi chisamaliro. Mukanyalanyaza icho, chifa; koma ngati mukulisamalira, lidzakula ndikulimba tsiku ndi tsiku.
- Musataye kudzidalira kwanu kapena kudzidalira muukwati wanu. Simuyenera kuchitira zonse limodzi. Ndibwino kukhala ndi zosangalatsa zosiyanasiyana.
- Nthawi zonse muzikhala ndi nthawi yocheza wina ndi mnzake, ndipo yesetsani kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza, ndipo musapereke zifukwa zomwe simungakwanitsire.
- Dziwani zinthu zomwe mungachite limodzi, khalani ndi nthawi yochitira izi, ndipo musamangotengerana. Kuchitira zinthu limodzi kulimbitsa ukwati wanu.
- Nthawi zonse kumbukirani kukumbatirana. Kukhudza thupi ndikofunikira muubwenzi, kumathandiza kupanga ndi kukulitsa chikondi, kumakupangitsani inu ndi okwatirana kumva kuti mukufunidwa, kumakhazika mtima pansi, kumakupatsani mpumulo, kumakupatsani chitonthozo, komanso kumakupangitsani kulumikizana. Padzakhala nthawi pamene kukhudza kwanu kumafunikira mnzanuyo.
- Fotokozerani malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu, ndipo lankhulani momveka bwino. Musayembekezere kuti mnzanu azidziwa zomwe mukuganiza kapena momwe mukumvera.
- Lankhulani ndikugawana ziyembekezo zanu ndi maloto anu. Izi zimakupangitsani kulumikizana kwambiri wina ndi mnzake, kukutsegulirani chitseko choti muthandizane ndikumvetsetsana bwino, ndikulimbikitsana kuti muzigwirira ntchito limodzi kukwaniritsa zofuna zanu.
- Khalani okonzeka kulolera. Kunyengerera ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti banja lanu liziyenda bwino. Zinthu zina sizoyenera kumenyana kapena kukangana, simukuyenera kukhala zolondola nthawi zonse, zina muyenera kungozisiya. Dzifunseni nokha, kodi ndibwino kutaya chibwenzi chanu?
- Nthawi zonse khalani osinthasintha; Kusintha kumachitika muubwenzi uliwonse. Landirani kuti simungakhale ndi zinthu momwe mumafunira nthawi zonse, zinthu sizingachitike monga momwe mumafunira, kapena momwe mungafunire kuti zichitike.
- Khalani ndi nthawi yomverana. Kumvetsera kumakupangitsani kumva kuti mumakondedwa ndi kumvedwa. Ralph Nichols akuti, "Chofunikira kwambiri pazofunikira za anthu ndikufunika kumvetsetsa ndikumvetsetsa. Njira yabwino kwambiri yomvetsetsera anthu ndiyo kuwamvera. ”
- Phunzirani momwe mungathetsere kusamvana. Pali mikangano yomwe simungathe kuyithetsa, koma mutha kuyisamalira potenga mayankho ovomerezeka, kunyengerera, kuvomereza kutsutsana, ndikusiya.
- Nthawi zonse muzikhala owona mtima kwa wina ndi mnzake. Kuwona mtima ndi maziko ofunikira momwe ubale umamangidwira ndipo ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri pakukhalira ndi ubale wabwino.
- Musaope kufunsana wina ndi mnzake thandizo, pamene mukufuna kumveka bwino komanso pamene simukumvetsa. Sizimakupangitsani kukhala ofooka, imati ndili wokonzeka kudzichepetsa ndikuyika kunyada kwanga ndi ulemu wanga, kufunafuna thandizo kwa wokondedwa wanga.
- Kuthana ndi mavuto akamadzuka, ndipo osasesa zinthu pansi pa rug ndikuchita ngati sizinachitike kapena zilibe kanthu. Mavuto omwe simukuthana nawo, amakula, amakula kwambiri, ndipo amakhala "njovu m'chipindacho." Musalole kuti nkhani zizikhala pang'onopang'ono poganiza kuti zidzatha, ngati mungazinyalanyaze.
- Osagona wokwiya. Kugona wokwiya kumayambitsa magawano, mudzauka muli wokwiya, kumakhudza kugona kwanu, komanso kumakhudza thanzi lanu lam'maganizo ndi malingaliro.
- Osalankhula zoipa za wina ndi mnzake kwa abale ndi abwenzi; mutakhululukira mnzanu ndikusunthira, abale anu ndi abwenzi azikhala openga, ndipo kukhululuka sikungakhale kosavuta nawo. Mukamacheza kwambiri ndi anthu omwe simukugwirizana nawo, ubale wanu umakhala wabwino.
- Kondani mopanda malire ndipo nthawi zonse ndimati pepani.
- Nthawi zonse kumbukirani chifukwa chomwe mudanenera kuti, "Ndikutero."