Zinandipweteka kwambiri nditamva nkhaniyi. Panalibe njira yoti ikhale yoona.Ngati sangakwanitse, tonsefe tinali ndi mwayi uti?
Mwinanso mungakhale ndi yankho lomwelo mudamva za kutha kwa Angelina Jolie ndi Brad Pitt. Ndimakonda kudziyesa ndekha ngati munthu amene samvera nkhani zodziwika bwino chifukwa ndili wotanganidwa kwambiri kumangiriza malingaliro anga ndi kupititsa patsogolo maphunziro anzeru ndi ntchito zabwino padziko lapansi. Komabe, ndiyenera kuvomereza, ndidadabwitsidwa modzidzimutsidwa ndikumva chisoni ndi nkhani yawo yachikondi yomwe idatayika.
Iwo anali nazo zonse, sichoncho iwo? Ndalama, udindo, kukongola, kuthandizira ena, zomwe amayenera kutsatira ... nanga ubale wopeza bwino chotere ungagonjere bwanji? Ndikutanthauza, zowona kuti anali ndi zovuta ku Hollywood kuti athane nawo, koma kodi zatha?
Zachidziwikire, tonsefe timadziwa kuti ngakhale maubwenzi apamtima omwe samakhala pansi pa njala ya Hollywood amakumana ndi zipsinjo nthawi zonse. Zovuta zakugwira ntchito, nkhawa zandalama, ana, ntchito zina zopereka chisamaliro, zovuta zakudzikulitsa ndi chikhalidwe chomwe chimalimbikitsa kudziyimira pawokha pakudalirana, ndi ena mwa mavuto omwe mgwirizano umakumana nawo.
Pansipa, ndikufuna kugawana zomwe ndimakhulupirira kuti zina mwabodza zokhudzana ndi zibwenzi zomwe ndikukhulupirira sizothandiza pakukhazikitsa ubale wokhalitsa.
Bodza # 1:Mgwirizano wapamtima umakhala wosangalatsa ndipo uyenera kukhala wosangalatsa.
Ziyenera kumverera ngati mukukhala mu sitcom yokhala ndi nyimbo zoseketsa 24/7.
Pamene ndikulemba izi, ndimakhala pamasokosi akuda anzanga pabedi pathu. Zochita za tsiku ndi tsiku miliyoni miliyoni zimapanga mgwirizano wapamtima: kutumizirana mameseji pazomwe mungapangire chakudya chamadzulo, kugula zinthu zogula, kukhala ndi mkangano mwachidule wokhudza yemwe wasiya zinyalala pamphasa kotero zimasiya zodetsa, kuchapa, kukonzekera kukagwira ntchito, kukhitchini Kupatula kuti muthe kudziwa chifukwa chake muli ndi njenjete ...
Luso lakumanga maubwenzi mwina ndikuphunzira kuyamikira ngati si kukongola, ndiye kufunika kwa wamba monga minofu yolumikizira yomwe imasunga ubalewo pamodzi. Sizabwino koma ndi zinthu zachikondi chenicheni. Ndingakuuzeni kuti musiye kudzikakamiza ndi ziyembekezo zosatheka?
Bodza # 2: Muyenera "kuyesetsa" paukwati wanu.
Sindikudziwa za inu, koma mawu oti "ntchito" amandipangitsa kufuna kuthamanga pabedi ndikuponyera zophimba pamutu panga. Ena mwa matanthauzo omwe tingagwirizane nawo pantchito ndi awa: "kuvutikira", "kugwira ntchito", "kuyesetsa" komanso "zotopetsa" zomwe ndimakonda. Sindikudziwa za inu, koma mayanjano awa samandilimbikitsa kwenikweni. Ngati mudamuuzapo wina kuti, "Ndikuganiza kuti tiyenera kukonza ubale wathu", ndikuganiza kuti mukudziwa momwe izi zidathandizira. Kwa anthu ena, kumva mawuwa kapena kuwauza kuli kofanana ndi kuuzidwa kuti muyenera kukhala ndi muzu wa mizu.
Bodza # 3: Simuyenera kupanga zisankho zoyenera pachibwenzi chanu.
Pachikhalidwe chathu pali lingaliro kuti mutha kukwaniritsa ntchito / moyo / kulingalira. Ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndi lingaliro lothandiza ngati muli ndi mphamvu zopanga zisankho pamoyo wanu. Koma ngati muli m'gulu la anthu 99%, ndandanda yanu imasankhidwa ndi abwana ndipo imalumikizidwa ndi magawo a ena m'moyo wanu - ana, abale a mnzanu, achibale ... Apanso zikakamizeni nokha kuti mupange aliyense ubale womwe kulibe.
M'malo mwake, ganizirani zopanga zisankho zenizeni zenizeni, zotheka m'banja lanu. Mwachitsanzo, kodi mungagwiritse ntchito bwanji zolimbitsa thupi posonyeza chikondi ndi kukoma mtima? Chifukwa chake mutatha tsiku lovuta kuntchito, m'malo mongodandaula, mupatseni mnzanu msana. Woseketsa Tracy Morgan pa gawo la View amalankhula za "kuyang'ana" kwachikondi komwe amapereka kwa mkazi wake ndi mwana wake wamkazi. Mwinanso kupita kokondeka kumapeto kwa sabata ndikosatheka, koma mutha kusankha kuyang'ana mnzanu, munthu uyu mwachikondi. Mwina simungakhale ndi "tsiku lokondana", koma onerani TV yomwe mwina ikuwonetsa zina mwazinthu zomwe mukuyesera kuti muchite muubwenzi wanu. Pangani zisankho zokhudzana ndi ubale zomwe zingagwirizane ndi zochitika zanu zapadera.
Ndikukufunirani okondedwa ambiri okondedwa!