Zamkati
- 1. Mudzawona chibwenzi chanu kuchokera "panja mkati"
- 2. Zimakupatsani mwayi woganiza mopitirira momwe mumamvera
- 3. Zifukwa zokwatirana zikukambidwa
- 4. Mitu yovuta imalankhulidwa
- 5. Phungu amapereka malingaliro opanda tsankho
- Maphunziro asanakwatirane komanso mabuku opangira uphungu asanakwatirane
Ngati mwangoyamba kumene chibwenzi, zikomo!
Mosakayikira, iyi ndiimodzi mwamasiku osangalatsa kwambiri (komanso osintha moyo) m'moyo wanu wonse. Ndipo ngakhale tili otsimikiza kuti muli otanganidwa kukhazikitsa tsiku, kusungitsa malo ndi kudziwa zomwe mudzavale patsiku lanu lapadera, pamene mukulemba mndandanda wazomwe muyenera kuchita, chonde musaiwale kuyika "kupeza upangiri usanakwatirane" pamwamba pamndandanda.
Ubwino wa upangiri usanakwatirane
Mabanja ambiri amangowona ngati machitidwe wamba (komanso osafunikira kwenikweni) osazindikira phindu lake la upangiri usanakwatirane.
Komabe, pali umboni wambiri wotsimikizira kuti iyi ndi imodzi mwanjira zabwino kwambiri zomwe mungachite kuti muteteze mgwirizano wanu. M'malo mwake, malinga ndi lipoti lofalitsidwa, "Amuna ndi akazi omwe adalandira upangiri asanakwatirane anali okwera 30% kuposa mabanja omwe sanalandire."
Ngati mukuzengereza kusungitsa nthawi yokumana ndi mlangizi, wothandizira kapena m'busa chifukwa simukukhulupirira kuti ndizofunika nthawi kapena ndalama, nazi maubwino asanu a upangiri usanakwatirane kwa maanja omwe mwachiyembekezo angasinthe malingaliro anu.
1. Mudzawona chibwenzi chanu kuchokera "panja mkati"
Ngakhale kwenikweni tonsefe tamva mawu oti "Kuzindikira ndichowona", lingaliro lomwelo ndilotchuka kuposa momwe zilili zowona.
Kuzindikira ndi njira yomwe inuyo panokha mumaona zinthu, pomwe zenizeni zimakhazikitsidwa mfundo zovuta.
Chifukwa chake, tinene mwachitsanzo kuti palibe m'modzi wa inu amene ali ndi ndalama zokwanira kuti akhale yekha. Kuzindikira kumatha kunena kuti "chikondi chathu chidzatithandizanso" pomwe zenizeni zimati "mwina tiyenera kukankhira tsikulo mpaka titakhala okhazikika pachuma".
Pokambirana upangiri usanakwatirane, phungu wabwino asanakwatirane azilingalira zomwe mukuwona "kuchokera mkati" (malingaliro) ndikukulimbikitsani kuti muyang'ane zinthu zakunja (zowona popanda malingaliro anu kotero kuti kuweruza kwanu alibe mitambo).
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwamaubwino ofunikira a upangiri musanakwatirane omwe angathandize maanja kukulitsa kukonzekeretsa ukwati.
2. Zimakupatsani mwayi woganiza mopitirira momwe mumamvera
China chake chomwe maanja ali ndi chizolowezi chochita amangoyang'ana pano. Ubwino wa upangiri usanalowe m'banja umaphatikizapo kuwona kwathunthu pazinthu zonse zaukwati.
Pakadali pano, mlangizi waukwati akupangitsani kuti muziyang'ana zamtsogolo kupatula kutsimikizira phindu lina la upangiri usanakwatirane.
Kodi nonse mukufuna ana, ndipo ngati mukufuna, ndi liti? Kodi nonse ndinu abwino ndi ndalama? Ndani ali ndi chilakolako chogonana? Kodi zilankhulo zanu zachikondi ndi ziti? Kodi mumakhala ndi ubale wabwino ndi makolo anu? Ndani adzagwire ntchito zapakhomo? Mukuyembekezera chiyani kuchokera kwa wina ndi mnzake?
Kumbukirani kuti banja silokonda munthu wina. Ndizokhudza kumanga moyo ndi munthu.
Mukalangizana musanakwatirane mumakhala ndi mwayi wofufuza mitundu yonse, musanachitike, kuti muwonetsetse kuti mukukwatirana yoyenera.
Ndikudabwabe za zabwino za upangiri usanakwatirane?
Zalangizidwa - Asanakwatirane
3. Zifukwa zokwatirana zikukambidwa
Mukakhala kulangiza musanakwatirane, china chake chomwe mlangizi angakufunseni ndi chakuti, "Chifukwa chiyani awiriwa mudapanga chisankho chokwatirana?"
Ngati ili likuwoneka ngati funso losamvetseka kapena yankho lanu lokha ndi "Chifukwa timakondana", ndichinthu chabwino kuti mudasainira magawo ochepa. Kukhala mchikondi ndikodabwitsa, koma mudzafunika zochuluka kuposa chikondi kuti mupitilize pamoyo wanu wonse.
Mukufuna ubwenzi. Muyenera kulemekezana. Muyenera ngakhale. Muyenera zolinga ndi mapulani a ubale wanu. Chimodzi mwamaubwino opangira upangiri musanakwatirane ndikuphatikizira upangiri waluso womwe ungakuthandizeni kukulitsa ndi kulimbitsa chibwenzi chanu mukamachita chibwenzi.
Munthu wanzeru nthawi ina adati ngati mukufuna kuwona momwe chibwenzi chimathera, onani momwe zinayambira. Kukhala omveka pazifukwa zoyambirira komanso zolinga zanu zokhalira limodzi kumveketsa bwino zomwe zimafunikira kuti banja lanu liziyenda pambuyo pa tsiku laukwati wanu.
4. Mitu yovuta imalankhulidwa
Mukugawana malo anu okhala, nthawi yanu komanso pafupifupi china chilichonse chomwe mungaganizire ndi anzanu ena ofunika.
Muthanso kugwiritsa ntchito upangiri musanalowe m'banja kuti mukambirane mitu yomwe ingakhale yovuta. Ubwino wa upangiri musanakwatirane ndikuphatikizanso kumasuka ndikukambirana mavuto omwe angakhalepo m'banja omwe amatha kukulitsa mkwiyo m'banja.
Zomwe muyenera kuyembekezera uphungu usanalowe m'banja? Kupereka uphungu musanalowe m'banja kumakupatsirani mwayi komanso malo achitetezo kuti mupeze mayankho a mafunso anu onse omwe ndi ofunikira kuti mugwirizane.
Pakulangiza asanalowe m'banja, mutha kudziwa za mafunso ngati awa ngongole yanu ndi yotani? Ndi zizolowezi zoipa ziti zomwe muli nazo? Zakuya kuposa izo, zina mwanu zokumana nazo zowopsa komanso mantha akulu? Ngati simukuwulula poyera tsopano, njira ina kapena ina adzatuluka pambuyo pake.
Ndibwino kuti inu ndi mnzanu musakhale osawona. Uphungu usanalowe m'banja ungathandize kupewa izi.
5. Phungu amapereka malingaliro opanda tsankho
Nthawi yomwe upangiri wanu usanakwatirane yatha, ndiye nthawi yoti mlangizi apereke malingaliro awo kapena pomaliza.
Amatha kunena kuti "ndinu masewera abwino kwambiri" kapena angakulimbikitseni kuti muganizirenso za kukhala limodzi. Ngakhale zili kwa inu kupanga chisankho chachikulu, osachepera muli ndi munthu wopanda tsankho yemwe adagawana malingaliro awo.
Upangiri waukwati musanalowe m'banja umakupatsani chidziwitso chakuya pazomwe mukulembera mukasankha kupita patsogolo, chomwe ndi chinthu chabwino. Ndipo monga akunena "Kupulumutsa kamodzi ndikofunika kuchiritsa." Kulondola? Kulondola.
Maphunziro asanakwatirane komanso mabuku opangira uphungu asanakwatirane
Kuwerenga mabuku aupangiri apabanja asanakwatirane pa intaneti kapena papepala kumatha kupindulitsa banja munjira zingapo. Nazi zifukwa zitatu zofunikira kuti muwerenge mabuku olangiza za banja.
Pali mabuku angapo alangizi asanakwatirane omwe amapangira maanja kuti awathandize kuphunzira za kulumikizana moyenera mbanja, kuthetsa kusamvana, ndalama zaukwati komanso kukondana m'banja.
M'malo motengera uphungu asanalowe m'banja, maanja amathanso kutenga maphunziro odalirika asanakwatirane kapena maphunziro apabanja pa intaneti kuti aphunzire njira zopezera chikondi champhamvu, kuthana ndi mavuto am'banja komanso kusangalala mogwirizana m'banja.
Ngakhale chithandizo chamwambo pamasom'pamaso chikulimbikitsidwa, maanja atha kusankha kulangizidwa asanakwatirane pa intaneti. Maanja atha kutenga nawo mbali pa upangiri asanakwatirane pa intaneti ngati njira yosangalatsa komanso yoyambira kuyambitsa banja lawo ndi phazi lamanja.