Zamkati
- 1. Pezani nthawi ya 'nthawi yabwino'
- 2. Pewani mavuto azachuma
- 3. Phunzirani kugawana chilichonse
- 4. Musalole kuti wina aliyense asokoneze banja lanu
- 5. Khalani ndi ziyembekezo zenizeni
Mabanja onse achikristu amakumana ndi zovuta monga banja lina lililonse. Banja lililonse limafunikira thandizo pang'ono nthawi zina koma ambiri amasankha kuyesa kuthetsa mavuto awo pawokha.
Koma maanja ena amazindikira kuti sangathe kuchita okha ndipo amafunafuna thandizo kwa mlangizi wamaukwati.
Maukwati ambiri apulumutsidwa ndi chithandizo chamankhwala achikhristu. Kudzera mu chitsogozo cha mlangizi, maanja amalandira chithandizo ndi chidziwitso chofunikira kuti athane ndi zovuta zomwe sangathe kuzithetsa paokha.
Alangizi a mabanja achikhristu ali ndi upangiri ndi maluso ambiri othandiza kulimbitsa banja lililonse.
Nawa maupangiri asanu othandiza othandizira mabanja omwe angathandize kukonza banja lanu.
1. Pezani nthawi ya 'nthawi yabwino'
Ngati okwatirana achikristu sakhala ndi nthawi yokwanira yocheza, kulankhulana kwawo kumavuta.
Ndipo izi zitha kubweretsa mavuto ena monga kusowa chibwenzi, kukaikira, nsanje ndi zina zambiri. Mavuto ambiri am'banja amachitika ngati m'modzi kapena onse awiri atanganidwa kwambiri moti sangakhale ndi nthawi yocheza.
Ngakhale mugwire ntchito yochuluka motani, onetsetsani kuti mwapeza nthawi mlungu kuti mucheze ndi mnzanu. Muyenera kukhala ndi mwayi wokhala nokha, kuyandikira wina ndi mnzake, kukumbatirana, kupsompsonana komanso koposa zonse, kupanga chikondi nthawi zonse.
Komanso, nthawi zonse muyenera kukhala ndi nthawi yolankhulana wina ndi mnzake za momwe tsiku lanu lidayendera, zazomwe mwachita bwino, zokhumudwitsa zanu komanso chilichonse chomwe mungafune kugawana.
Malinga ndi akatswiri achikhristu omwe amalangiza za mabanja, kukhala pamodzi nthawi zonse kumathandiza kuti banja lanu likhale lolimba komanso kumakupatsirani banja losangalala komanso losangalala.
2. Pewani mavuto azachuma
Ndi zachilendo kuti okwatirana azikangana nthawi zambiri pamavuto azachuma. Koma pamene izi zimachitika pafupipafupi ndipo zimayamba kukukokerani kutali, ndiye kuti china chake chiyenera kusintha pamkhalidwe wanu. Kafukufuku ndi kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti nkhani zandalama ndi limodzi mwamavuto omwe mabanja amakhala nawo.
Zikatere, awiriwo angafunike chithandizo chabanja lachikhristu kuti athetse mavuto awo azachuma. Akatswiri amati pofuna kupewa mavuto azachuma, mabanja achikhristu ayenera kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zomwe angathe.
Ayenera kuyesetsa momwe angathere kuti asawononge ndalama zosafunikira ndikulowa ngongole zazikulu. Mukamakonzekera bajeti yanu, zosowa zanu ziyenera kukhala zofunikira nthawi zonse zisanachitike.
Ndipo koposa zonse, onetsetsani kuti mwasunga ndalama tsiku lamvula. Ndalama zikakonzedwa bwino ndikuwongoleredwa, sipadzakhala zotsutsana pazokhudza iwo.
3. Phunzirani kugawana chilichonse
Mavuto amakhalanso pamene maanja achikhristu amaiwala kuti ayenera kugwirira ntchito limodzi osati kulimbana.
Chithandizo cha maukwati achikhristu chikuthandizani kuti mumvetsetse kuti mukangokwatirana, simulinso anthu awiri osiyana, koma gulu limodzi lomwe limayenera kugwira ntchito limodzi kuti banja liziyenda bwino.
Mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kugawana zonse zomwe ali nazo. Kusagwirizana ndi kudzipereka kumayenera kupangidwa kuti zisunge mgwirizano ndi mtendere muubale wawo.
Ngati mukukumana ndi mavuto pakulankhulana momasuka ndi wokondedwa wanu, chithandizo cha mabanja achikhristu chingathandize kutero. Kugawana chilichonse ndi aliyense, kaya ndi mnzake, kumakupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu osatetezeka. Uphungu wachikhristu pa ubale ungakupatseni mphamvu yakukhala owona mtima kwathunthu ndikutsegula mtima wanu.
4. Musalole kuti wina aliyense asokoneze banja lanu
Pamene okwatirana achikhristu alola apongozi awo ndi abale awo kulowerera nkhani zawo ndiye kuti mavuto ambiri amatha. Zosokoneza zamtunduwu ndi chimodzi mwamavuto omwe mabanja amakhala nawo padziko lonse lapansi, kafukufuku akuwonetsa.
Musalole kuti wina aliyense akusokonezeni pazisankho zomwe inu ndi mnzanu muyenera kupanga.
Ngakhale mlangizi wanu angakulangizeni kuti muyesetse kuthetsa mavuto anu panokha.
Genesis 2:24 akuti "Chifukwa chake mwamuna adzasiya atate wake ndi amake nadzadziphatika kwa mkazi wake, ndipo adzakhala thupi limodzi."
Chifukwa chake ngati nkhaniyi ikukhudzana ndi banja lanu, mutha kumvera malangizo a anthu ena, koma chomaliza nthawi zonse chizichokera kwa inu ndi mnzanu nokha.
Ngati mukuwoneka kuti simungathe kuthetsa mavuto anu nonse awiri, m'malo motembenukira kwa apongozi anu, funani upangiri wachikhristu kwa anthu apabanja.
Mlangizi angakupatseni upangiri wowona wachikwati wachikhristu chifukwa alibe chidwi ndi inu kapena ubale wanu.
5. Khalani ndi ziyembekezo zenizeni
Wina wakupha maubale ndi pamene wina m'banjamo sakondwera ndi momwe zinthu ziliri. Kudzera mu chitsogozo cha mlangizi wamaukwati, maanja achikhristu apangidwa kuti amvetsetse ndikuwona ngati zomwe akuyembekeza pa banja lawo labwino ndizotheka kapena ayi.
Mupangidwa kuti muwone kupyola zomwe mulibe ndikuphunzira kuyamikira zomwe muli nazo. Kungofunika kusintha momwe mumaonera zinthu.
Chithandizo chaukwati wachikhristu chidzakupangitsani inu kumvetsetsa kuti palibe chinthu chonga wokwatirana naye kapena moyo wangwiro wabanja. Padzakhala zolimbana nthawi zonse ndipo padzakhala zoperewera kuchokera mbali zonse.
Koma ngati muphunzira kuyamikira madalitso ang'onoang'ono omwe mumalandira tsiku lililonse ndipo ngati mungayang'ane pazabwino zomwe zimachitika munthawi iliyonse yomwe muli, ndiye kuti mudzawona kuti ndizinthu zazing'ono m'moyo zomwe ndizofunika kwambiri.
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwamalangizo abwino okwatirana achikhristu omwe sangakhale othandiza paubwenzi wanu komanso m'moyo wanu.
Anthu ambiri amalephera kuwona zomwe ali nazo chifukwa amakhala otanganidwa kwambiri ndi zazing'ono. Ichi ndichifukwa chake upangiri wa mabanja okwatirana cholinga chake ndikukumbutsa maanja za momwe moyo wawo ungakhalire limodzi ngati atalola kuti chikondi chizilamulira mbanja lawo.
Chifukwa chake tsatirani malangizo aupangiri a maukwati achikhristu ndikuwona zosintha zonse zomwe zimachitika muubwenzi wanu.