Zamkati
- Kudziwa mnzanu
- Kuphunzira kuthana ndi ziyembekezo zomwe sizinakwaniritsidwe
- Chikondi sichinthu chilichonse
- Zovuta
- Thandizo
- Khazikitsani maziko aubwenzi wosangalala
- Khulupiranani wina ndi mnzake ndipo kambiranani momasuka
- Simuli nokha
Ndizosadabwitsa kuti chaka choyamba chaukwati ndichovuta kwambiri. Kusintha ndi moyo watsopano ndikukhala ndi mnzanu kumabwera ngati chinthu chovuta kuthana nacho.
Komabe, zatsopano zingawoneke, chowonadi ndichakuti chaka choyamba mutakwatirana ndi mnzanu ndiwofunikira kwambiri pamoyo wanu. Izi zitha kukhala zolondola pazinthu zambiri.
Tiyeni tiwone zina pansipa:
Kudziwa mnzanu
M'chaka choyamba chaukwati, mumazolowera zizolowezi zonse za mnzanu.
Mumayamba kuwawona mosiyanasiyana, omwe simukudziwa. Ndipo chofunikira, mumaphunzira za mnzanu wonse; zomwe amakonda ndi zomwe sakonda, mantha awo, momwe amathandizira pakagwa zovuta zina, komanso nkhawa zawo.
Kuyamba kudziwa zambiri zatsopano kungakhale kovuta kwambiri, koma ndikofunikira.
Kuphunzira kuthana ndi ziyembekezo zomwe sizinakwaniritsidwe
Moyo pambuyo paukwati si momwe amawonetsera m'mafilimu ndi ziwonetsero.
M'malo mwake, ndizosiyana kwambiri. Si maluwa onse ndi agulugufe okha. M'chaka choyamba chaukwati, muyenera kuthana ndi zopweteka mtima pamene zomwe mukuyembekezera sizikwaniritsidwa. Kuphatikiza apo, ndichowona kuti mnzanuyo simunthu yemweyo momwe adawonekera asanakwatirane.
Momwe amakuchitirani zimasintha. Ndizomvetsa chisoni, koma muyenera kuthana nazo.
Chikondi sichinthu chilichonse
Ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti moyo wanu sudalira wokondedwa wanu.
Sayenera kukhala ndi iwe pamphindi iliyonse ya tsikulo. Nthawi zina, amakhala otanganidwa ndi ntchito ndi zinthu zina, chifukwa chake musakhale nawo pafupi kuti muwone. Mutha kuchita zinthu zambiri mukakhala nokha. Komabe zikhala zothandiza ngati mumvetsetsa zilankhulo zofunikira kwambiri zachikondi kuti muthe kupanga chikondi chosatha m'banja lanu osakhumudwitsa mnzanu.
Zovuta
Mukadzipereka kuti mukakhale kwamuyaya ndi munthu wina, sikofunikira nthawi zonse kuti moyo wanu ukhale wosangalala nthawi zonse.
Padzakhala zovuta zambiri zaukwati, ndipo kupambana kudzakhala momwe inu ndi mnzanu mungawathetsere ngati gulu. Muyenera kukhulupirira kuti zopinga zilizonse zomwe zingakulepheretseni kungolimbitsa chikhulupiriro chanu mwa mnzanu.
Chifukwa chake, musachite mantha mosavuta ndikukhala ndi zokambirana zofunika kuti mukhale ndi banja labwino.
Thandizo
Chaka choyamba chaukwati wanu ndi mayeso kwa onse awiri.
Munthawi yamavuto, yowawa, ndi yachisoni, muyenera kukhala komweko kwa theka lanu lina.
Gawani chisoni chawo ndikuwapangitsa kuwona zabwino.
Mnzanu akafuna kusiya, nenani mawu olimbikitsa ndikwezera moyo wawo kumbali yowala.
Mofananamo, ngakhale pazinthu zazing'ono zomwe achita, sangalalani nawo limodzi ndikulimbitsa chikhulupiriro chawo. Kupezeka kwa wina ndi mnzake munthawi zovuta komanso zoyipa ndichinsinsi cha banja lalitali komanso labwino.
Khazikitsani maziko aubwenzi wosangalala
Sonyezani chikondi kwa mnzanu.
Auzeni momwe alili odabwitsa komanso momwe mumayamikirira kupezeka kwawo. Yesetsani kuyamika mnzanu ngakhale pazinthu zazing'ono kwambiri. Komanso, zindikirani momwe moyo wanu unasangalalira atabwera. Ndipo koposa zonse, kambiranani mozama ndi mnzanu.
Mwanjira imeneyi, mutha kukhazikitsa maziko olimba aubwenzi wanu kuti mukhale ndi tsogolo labwino.
Khulupiranani wina ndi mnzake ndipo kambiranani momasuka
Khalani ndi chikhulupiriro cholimba mwa mnzanu. Mverani zomwe akusungirani.
Kuphatikiza apo, popanga chisankho chilichonse chofunikira, pemphani upangiri kwa iwo. Lankhulani ndi mnzanu pomwe muli mu chisokonezo chilichonse. Izi zitha kuwoneka ngati zazing'ono kwa inu, koma chilichonse chaching'ono chomwe mungachite chimakhudza mnzanu.
Simuli nokha
Pambuyo paukwati, palibe ine kapena ine.
Zochita zanu zonse zidzakhudza ubale wanu. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kuti muzisamalira zochita zanu. Komanso, musamangoganizira zakulimbikitsidwa kwanu pankhani inayake koma onaninso za mnzanuyo. Muyenera kuwasamalira ndikuwapatsa zosowa zawo popeza ndiudindo waukulu.
Ndizowona kuti izi zitha kukhala zaka zovuta kwambiri m'moyo wanu, koma chofunikira ndikuti mukhale olimba ndikugwira ntchito limodzi.