Zamkati
- Gawo 1: Konzekerani!
- Gawo 2: Sankhani mtendere
- Gawo 3: Dzisamalire
- Gawo 4: Yambani kukonzekera
- Gawo 5: Limbanani ndi banja lanu ndi banja lanu
Sikovuta kuti banja lithe kapena kupatukana mwalamulo- ndizovuta komanso zovuta kwa onse okwatirana.
Amayi nthawi zambiri amatha kufotokoza zakukhosi kwawo ndipo nthawi zambiri amapeza chilimbikitso pakati pa anzawo ndi abale awo kuwathandiza kuthana ndi chisudzulo.
Koma kwa abambo, kupeza chithandizo champhamvu kapena kusinthira momwe mukumvera komanso kudzisamalira kumatha kukhala kovuta kwambiri.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake takonza bukuli lothandiza momwe mungakonzekere kusudzulana kwa abambo - kuti muthe kuyendetsa bwino ntchito momwe mungathere.
Gawo 1: Konzekerani!
Kudziwa zomwe muyenera kuchita panthawi yothetsa banja, zonse zomwe muyenera kuganizira, ndi zisankho zomwe muyenera kupanga zitha kupangitsa banja lonse kusudzulana mosavuta ndikukhala opanda nkhawa.
Kuti mukonzekere, muyenera kuganizira mfundo izi:
- Chitani kafukufuku wanu ndikudziphunzitsa nokha momwe njira yothetsera banja imagwirira ntchito.
- Phunzirani za maubwino othandizira kuyanjana, chifukwa izi zithandizira kuti zinthu zizikhala zosavuta.
- Sanjani ndalama zanu
- Sankhani katswiri wodziwa zambiri kuti akuthandizeni kuyendetsa bwino zochitika zonse.
- Chitani nawo mbali pazokambirana zanu zosudzulana kuti muthe kutenga nawo mbali.
- Sinthani mutu wanu wamabizinesi zikafika pazokambirana ndi banja lanu ndikuzimitsa momwe mungathere
- Funsani mlangizi wamsudzulo kapena mlangizi wamaubwenzi kuti akuthandizeni kuthana ndi chisudzulo chanu ndikuthandizaninso kukwaniritsa mfundo yapitayi.
- Sungani ubale wabwino ndi mnzanu, makamaka chifukwa cha ana.
- Onetsetsani kuti mwakwaniritsa zosowa zanu ndikudziyang'anira nokha.
- Ganizirani za kuthekera kokhalanso achimwemwe mtsogolo.
Gawo 2: Sankhani mtendere
Izi zingakhale zovuta, makamaka ngati mnzanuyo sanasankhe mtendere koma asankha kukhala wodekha, wolingalira bwino, komanso woganiza bwino momwe zingathere.
Mwa kupita kusudzulana uphungu kuti akutsogolereni panthawiyi, mupeza kuti muchepetsa nkhawa, nkhawa ndikuwongolera momwe mungathetsere maubwenzi ovuta omwe mungakhale nawo ndi mnzanu.
Mukachita izi, simudzanong'oneza bondo momwe munadzisungira panthawi yosudzulana, ndipo sipadzakhala chilichonse chomwe mnzanu angagwiritse ntchito kukutsutsani mtsogolo.
Kuphatikiza apo, ngati muli ndi ana, zochita zanu zamtendere tsopano zidzakubwezerani mukamakhazikitsa ubale watsopano ndi mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu wakale monga mayi wa ana anu komanso wina yemwe adzawonekere m'moyo wanu mtsogolo.
Ngati muthetsa chisudzulo chanu ndi cholinga chokhala mwamtendere momwe mungathere, zomwe mumachita zidzakubwezerani kakhumi.
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Gawo 3: Dzisamalire
Amuna ambiri omwe amathetsa banja nthawi zambiri amapezeka kuti akusambira pabedi, akukhala m'malo ovuta, osachita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kapena akudya mokwanira. Izi zitha kuyambitsa kukhumudwa komanso kudzidalira ndipo zitha kukhala chizolowezi chomwe mungafune kuti simudzadzipangira nokha mtsogolo.
Sichikuthandizaninso kukumana ndi wina watsopano (ngakhale ndichinthu chomwe simungaganizire pakadali pano).
Pangani kukhala kofunikira kupeza malo otetezeka, otetezeka, ndi oyenera kuti mukhale ndi zosowa zanu zoyandikira.
Kenako khalani ndi chizolowezi chosamalira chakudya, kugona, ndi ukhondo- ngakhale nthawi zina muyenera kudzikakamiza kuti muchite zomwe mwasankhazi, mudzakhala okondwa kuti mudachita zomwe moyo wanu ukusintha ndikukhala malo achimwemwe.
Gawo 4: Yambani kukonzekera
Muyenera kupanga zisankho zazikulu nthawi yakusudzulana yomwe ingakukhudzeni inu ndi ana anu kwa zaka zambiri. Mukamachita zinthu mwadongosolo, moyo wanu komanso zokambirana zanu zidzakhala zabwino.
Apa ndipomwe mungapindule pogwira ntchito ndi wina yemwe amadziwa bwino za chisudzulo, kuti athe kukutsogolerani pazinthu zonse zokuthandizani kuti mukonzekere pazachuma chilichonse, kuphatikizapo zokambirana.
Nazi zina zofunika kuziganizira panthawiyi:
- Muli nokha kapena limodzi ndi mnzanu, yambani kupanga mndandanda wazinthu zomwe muli nazo ndi ngongole.
- Sonkhanitsani zolemba zonse zachuma
- Pangani bajeti yapaukwati kuti mumvetsetse ndalama zomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito mwezi uliwonse mukamakhalira limodzi komanso ndalama zomwe mumawononga mwezi uliwonse banja litatha.
Gawo 5: Limbanani ndi banja lanu ndi banja lanu
Khalani ndi nthawi yolankhulana ndi mnzanuyo ndikukambirana momwe mungathandizirane kuthetsa banja mwamtendere, ndipo ngati kuli kotheka, mwamtendere.
Ngati mungathe, ganizirani momwe mungachitire ndi anzanu mukamadzakumana ndi anzanu atsopano, momwe mungakhalire mukakhala ndi ana, ndikuthana ndi zovuta zina zilizonse zomwe zikukukhudzani.
Ganizirani zopereka upangiri wosudzulana musanakwatirane kapena pambuyo paukwati kuti mudzathe kuthana ndi mavuto aliwonse mukamatha kusudzulana, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mukadzafika kutsidya lina, simudzakhala ndi nkhawa zambiri ndipo mwina mutha kukhala ndi ulemu ubale ndi mnzanu wakale ngati bonasi yowonjezera!