Zamkati
- 1. Khalani odziwa zambiri
- 2. Mvetserani
- 3. Ikani patsogolo mgwirizano
- 4. Khalani chikumbutso chodzisamalira
- 5. Zindikirani nthawi yakwana yoti mulandire thandizo lina
Kusamalira makolo okalamba ndichinthu chofala kwa mabanja ambiri azaka zapakati chifukwa chokwera mtengo, chisamaliro, ndi kukhulupirirana. Nthawi yochuluka, kuleza mtima, ndi khama zimafunikira kusamalira wachibale wokalamba.
Ngati mnzanu kapena mnzanu watenga mbali yosamalira kholo lokalamba kapena makolo, tili ndi mndandanda wa njira zisanu zomwe mungamuthandizire mnzanu wosamalayo.
1. Khalani odziwa zambiri
Sikuti tonse ndife madotolo, ndipo katswiri wa zamankhwala atatiuza zaumoyo omwe okondedwa athu ali nawo, zili kwa ife kupititsa patsogolo chidziwitso chathu cha matendawa.
Pakhoza kukhala nthawi zomwe mnzanu ayenera kukhala womulangiza kholo lake. Kukhala paudindowu sikophweka, ndipo mutha kuthandiza mnzanuyo polemba mndandanda wamafunso omwe angafunse adotolo kuti amuthandize kupanga zisankho zanzeru.
Tengani nthawi kuti muphunzire zonse zomwe mungathe pankhani zathanzi kapena zomwe zikufanana ndi zomwe dokotala ananena kuti apongozi anu ali nazo.
Kupereka lingaliro lachiwiri lothandiza kumakhala kofunika kwa mnzanuyo, ndipo adzamva bwino kukhala ndi chithandizo chanu ikafika nthawi yoti muitanenso kwambiri.
2. Mvetserani
Kutsegula makutu anu ndi njira inanso yothandizira mnzanu. Kumvetsera kwa mnzanu kumatanthauza kuti mukumuthandiza monga momwe amafunira. Ngati miyoyo yanu ili ndi ntchito, ana, abwenzi, ntchito zapakhomo, ziweto, ndi zina zambiri, kuwonjezera udindo wosamalira banja kusakaniza kumatha kuwonjezera kupsinjika kwakukulu.
Mnzanu akabwera kwa inu kudzatuluka, mudzafuna kuonetsetsa kuti akumvetserani.
Izi zimulola kuti atulutse zodandaula zilizonse pachifuwa pake.
3. Ikani patsogolo mgwirizano
Njira yosavuta yochepetsera katundu wa mnzanu ndikulowerera ndikukhala osewera wosewera. Wosamalira mwana akuyesetsa kuti asamalire maudindo ambiri pamoyo wake, komanso udindo wa munthu amene akumusamalira.
Kuti mumuthandize kupeza chitonthozo, dziperekeni kuti muwachotse ntchito zina, kapena chitani zomwe mungathe kuti awadziwitse kuti mumasamala.
Mumamudziwa bwino mnzanuyo, muziyang'ana kuti musankhe ntchito kapena muchite zomuganizira mnzanuyo zomwe zingalankhule mchilankhulo chake chachikondi. Nthawi yomwe amakhala wopanikizika kapena kufalikira kwambiri, kachitidwe kamodzi kakang'ono kangatanthauze dziko kwa iye.
4. Khalani chikumbutso chodzisamalira
Kuti mnzanu azisamalira ena, ayenera kudzisamalira okha, choyamba. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kuwathandiza kukhazikitsa malire kuti asatope. Njira yosavuta yoyikira malire ndikutanthauzira mizere kuyambira koyambirira.
Mukawona kuti mnzanu wayamba kusokoneza izi, zili ndi inu kuti mumukumbutse kuti moyo wawo wayamba kuchepa, ndipo akuyenera kudina batani lokonzanso.
Lankhulani ndi mnzanu mwachikondi ndipo dziwitsani zomwe mwawona. Alimbikitseni kuti azikhala ndi nthawi tsiku lililonse yopezera zosowa zawo komanso kupumula.
5. Zindikirani nthawi yakwana yoti mulandire thandizo lina
Lidzafika tsiku lomwe kusamalira wokondedwa wokalamba kumakhala kochuluka kwambiri. Ngati simunakhalepo m'manja mwa mnzanu, mutha kungolankhula ndikupereka upangiri wothandiza pamlingo winawake.
Limbikitsani mnzanu kuti alowe nawo gulu lothandizira kapena kukafunsira upangiri kwa akatswiri.
Magawo awa adzawathandiza kuti azikambirana ndi anthu omwe angathe kufotokoza mwachindunji ndikupereka uphungu wotsatirawo.
Ngati zinthu zadutsa kufunafuna thandizo lina, pali malo ambiri okhalamo okalamba kapena akatswiri osamalira kunyumba omwe amapereka chisamaliro chomwe abale anu angafunike. Thandizani mnzanu kufunafuna malo kapena netiweki yosamalira okalamba. Chitani kafukufuku kapena lankhulani ndi anzanu momwemonso kuti mumve zambiri ndi upangiri.
Pamene apongozi anu ayamba kukalamba ndi udindo wowasamalira umakhala mutu wakukambirana, ndikofunikira kuti muthandize mnzanu m'njira zisanu izi. Phunzirani kuyenda limodzi ndi kuchepa kwa moyo limodzi, koma koposa zonse, phunzirani kukhala thanthwe lomwe mnzanu amafunikira. Nthawi zonse kumbukirani, mudzadutsamo limodzi!