Zamkati
- Kuthana ndi zovuta muukwati
- Fotokozani zoyembekezera
- Khalani ndi kukambirana mwatsatanetsatane za ndalama, kugonana, ndi banja
- Uphungu musanalowe m'banja ungathandize
Mabanja ambiri amakayikira ngati angafunike kuchita pulogalamu yothandizira asanakwatirane kapena ayi. Yankho nthawi zambiri limakhala inde. Sikuti pamakhala chiwongola dzanja chokwanira chokha ngati mutenga nawo mbali pamaupangiri musanakwatirane, koma maanja ambiri amapeza kuti zimathandizanso pamavuto akuchuluka. Upangiri usanalowe m'banja nthawi zambiri umaphunzitsa maanja momwe angathetsere kusamvana, momwe angayankhulirane m'njira zomwe zingathandize umunthu wanu ndikuwonetsetsa kuti mukudziwa zomwe mukukwatira. Izi ndi zifukwa zazikulu zolembera, koma palibe chimodzi mwazofunikira kwambiri. Chifukwa chachikulu choperekera upangiri musanakwatirane ndikuti simukudziwa zomwe simukudziwa.
Kuthana ndi zovuta muukwati
Muyenera kuti muli ndi ubale wabwino, apo ayi, simukonzekera kukwatira. Komabe, maukwati ndi osiyana kwambiri ndi kukhala pachibwenzi komanso kukhalira limodzi. Sitinaphunzitsidwe momwe tingakwatirane, komanso momwe tingalumikizire moyo wathu ndi wina. Pokhapokha mutakhala m'modzi mwa anthu ochepa omwe ali ndi mwayi kunja uko, mwina simunakhale ndi zitsanzo zambiri zapabanja zomwe mungaphunzirepo. Ukwati umafuna kukula nthawi zonse komanso kudzisintha. Zomwe zimagwira mumitundu ina yamaubwenzi kapena madera ena amoyo, sizimadula m'banja. Simungovomereza kutsutsana kapena kuyesa kupewa mikangano. Ndikutsimikiza kuti mwamva kuti kunyengerera ndi gawo lalikulu la banja. Komabe, pali zinthu zina zomwe simunganyengerere. Chifukwa chake, kuphunzira momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito zonsezi ndikofunikira.
Zalangizidwa - Asanakwatirane
Fotokozani zoyembekezera
Chinthu china chofunikira kuwunikira ndi zoyembekezera. Nthawi zambiri timakhala ndi ziyembekezo zosiyana kwambiri kwa anzathu komanso miyoyo yathu titakwatirana. Mutha kudziwa ziyembekezozi, kapena mwina sizomwe mumaganizira mozama. Mwanjira iliyonse, muyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti mukudziwa ndikufotokozera zoyembekezerazo kuti inu ndi mnzanu mukugwira ntchito limodzi. Zosayembekezereka ndizomwe zimayambitsa mkwiyo muubwenzi. Ngati mukumva kuti simukupeza zomwe mukufuna komanso zosowa kuchokera kwa mnzanu kapena banja lanu, ndiye kuti nthawi zambiri mumakhumudwitsidwa. Kukhumudwitsidwa kumeneko kumakhala kosokoneza komanso kukhumudwitsa mnzanu ngati sakudziwa momwe akukukhudzirani. Chifukwa chake, pamapeto pake mumakhumudwitsidwa, wokondedwa wanu amatha kukhumudwa, kenako mkwiyo umayamba kukulirakulira. Iyi si njira yabwino yoyambira banja. Mwamwayi, zitha kupewedwa pophunzira kuzindikira zomwe mukuyembekezera komanso momwe mungazifotokozere bwino.
Khalani ndi kukambirana mwatsatanetsatane za ndalama, kugonana, ndi banja
Mwina simudziwa momwe mnzanu akumvera ndi mutu wina. Pali madera angapo omwe anthu ambiri amapewa kukambirana. Nthawi zina timapewa zinthu poopa zomwe winayo angaulule, koma nthawi zambiri timapewa malo ovutawa chifukwa sitidziwa momwe tingayambitsire zokambirana kapena kunena momwe tikumvera. Ndalama, kugonana, ndi banja ndi nkhani zomwe zimapewa kwambiri. Anthu amamva zachilendo kuyankhula pamitu iyi pazifukwa zingapo. Mwinamwake mwaphunzitsidwa kuti si ulemu kulankhula za ndalama, kapena mwina panali manyazi okhudzana ndi kugonana mukuleredwa. Kaya chifukwa chake ndi chiyani, muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungakhalire ndi momasuka, moona mtima ndi wokondedwa wanu pamitu yonse. Zosiyana m'mene ndalama zimayendetsedwera zibwera. Nthawi ina muukwati wanu, mudzakumana ndi mavuto ndikusintha pamoyo wanu wogonana. Mudzafunika kukhala patsamba limodzi ndikukhala ndi ana kapena ayi, ndipo ndi njira iti yolerera yomwe mungagwiritse ntchito. Ngati mumadziwa kulankhulana bwino pamitu yonseyi, mudzatha kuthana ndi chilichonse chomwe chingabwere.
Uphungu musanalowe m'banja ungathandize
Sankhani kuchitapo kanthu kuti muphunzire zomwe simudziwa. Ndondomeko zothandiza za upangiri musanakwatirane zapangidwa kuti zithandizire osati kungokuphunzitsani zambiri za wokondedwa wanu, komanso momwe mumagwirizanira, komanso kuti mudziwe za inu. Kuti mukhale ndi banja labwino, muyenera kudziwa kuti ndinu ndani, zomwe mukufuna, ndi momwe mungazipezere. Osalowa muukwati opanda zida zonse ndi zidziwitso zomwe zilipo; ndizofunikira kwambiri.