Zamkati
- 1. Muli ndi vuto ndi wina m'banja mwake
- 2. Wina m'banja lawo amalankhula za momwe amakukhudzirani
- 3. Wina m'banja lanu amadana ndi mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu
- 4. Wokondedwa wanu amadana ndi wina m'banja lanu
- Palibe chabwino chomwe chatulukira kuchokera kunkhondo yolimbana ndi banja
Mukakwatira wina, amakhala banja. Izi zikutsatira kuti banja lawo tsopano ndi lanu ndipo ndilofanana. Ndi gawo la phukusi laukwati. Chifukwa chake, mosasamala kanthu za momwe umadana ndi mlongo wako wamwano kapena mkazi wako amadana ndi m'bale wako waulesi, iwo ndi banja tsopano.
Pali magawo anayi okhudzana ndi mavuto apongozi. Ngati mulibe zovuta nazo, ndiye kuti simukuwerenga izi, chifukwa chake ndikuganiza kuti mumatero.
Nayi malangizo owerengera amomwe mungakhalire limodzi ndi apongozi anu, kuti zisawononge banja lanu.
1. Muli ndi vuto ndi wina m'banja mwake
Pali ma sitcom ambiri onena za apongozi omwe amachita mantha, koma zenizeni ndizosiyana kwambiri. Amatha kukhala bambo oteteza kwambiri, m'bale wamphongo, kapena wachibale mmodzi yemwe ali ndi nkhani zonse zokongola kuti abwereke ndalama zomwe samabweza.
Nayi malangizo, chilichonse chomwe mungachite, musakwiye pamaso pawo. Nthawizonse! Palibe ndemanga zopanda pake, palibe zokhoma mbali, palibe mawu onyoza amtundu uliwonse kapena mawonekedwe. Uzani mnzanu momwe mumamvera mukakhala nanu limodzi, koma musalole kuti iziwoneke pamaso pa wina aliyense, ngakhale ana anu omwe.
Chinthu chotsiriza chomwe mukufuna kuti chichitike ndi mwana wanu wazaka zitatu akuti "O Agogo aakazi ... Abambo ati bulu wanu wamphongo b ..." Mzere umodziwo umakubweretserani mwayi wambiri kuposa nyumba yayitali yamagalasi osweka.
Lankhulani zokhumudwitsa zanu ndi mnzanu, palibe choletsa, zosawunikidwa, komanso zowona mtima. Osakokomeza, koma musamwe nawo shuga, simuli Willy Wonka.
Koma musakulitse vutoli powonetsa momwe mumamvera mukakhala ndi anthu ena. Anthu ena sataya nawo mpikisano wokondwerera. Ndikungotaya nthawi kopanda phindu lililonse, ndipo zokumana nazo zonse zitha kukhala ngati kudziwombera m'mapazi.
Phunziro loyamba lomwe mwaphunzira la momwe mungakhalire bwino ndi apongozi ndi kusunga kalasi yanu
2. Wina m'banja lawo amalankhula za momwe amakukhudzirani
Chifukwa choti mutha kuwonetsa kalasi ndikumwetulira apongozi owopsa, sizitanthauza kuti winayo achita zomwezo. Zimakwiyitsa kwambiri munthu ameneyo akazichita kunyumba kwanu ndikudya chakudya chanu.
Zimamveka kuti munthu aliyense ali ndi malire pakuleza mtima kwawo, china chake chonga ichi chikhalira ngakhale woyera wodzozedwa. Mukufuna kukhala achikhalidwe, koma simukufuna kukhala wopondera pakhomo.
Pazinthu ngati izi, simuyenera kutsimikizira zomwe mumanena kwa mnzanu. Sizingakupangitseni kuti muwoneke ngati munthu woipa ngati mutayika phazi lanu ndikuuza mnzanu kuti amuchotse munthuyo pagulu la alendo. Muthanso kupewa zochitika zomwe munthuyo adzapezekeko. Uzani mnzanu kuti tsiku lina zinthu zidzawonjezeka ndipo zidzakhala zoyipa kwa onse omwe akutenga nawo mbali.
Pulogalamu ya chachiwiri Phunziro lomwe mwaphunzira momwe mungakhalire bwino ndi apongozi ndi kupewa izi
3. Wina m'banja lanu amadana ndi mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu
Palibe china chovuta kuposa kuyesa kuthetsa mkangano pakati pa kholo lanu ndi mnzanu. Zilibe kanthu kuti mumadziyika pati, mudzawoneka oyipa. Ngakhale simutenga mbali, onsewa adzakuda chifukwa cha izi.
Ngati simungathe kuwapangitsa kuti asinthe malingaliro awo, ndiye kuti mutha kuwapangitsa kuti azinamizira kukhala okondana wina ndi mnzake. Lankhulani ndi aliyense wa iwo mwamseri, adziwitseni kuti mukambirana mutu womwewo ndi mbali inayo. Ngati sangathe kulemekezana, ndiye kuti nawonso azikulemekezani.
Palibe munthu wanzeru yemwe amadana ndi munthu wina wopanda nzeru popanda chifukwa chomveka. Mutha kapena simukugwirizana ndi chifukwa chimenecho, koma zilizonse, sizothandiza.
Ingolemekezani ndi kuvomereza malingaliro awo. Mukatero, akulemekezeni monga munthu komanso zosankha zanu.
Ngati phwando limodzi kapena limodzi silikubwerera m'mbuyo, ndiye kuti inu ndi mnzanu simudzapezekapo pamisonkhano yabanja posachedwa.
Phunziro lachitatu lomwe taphunzira pokhudzana ndi apongozi ndi Kulemekezana
4. Wokondedwa wanu amadana ndi wina m'banja lanu
Ngati mwakwatirana ndi munthu yemwe simungathe kumulamulira kwa maola angapo, ndiye kuti ndinu wopusa. Ngakhale ukwati uyenera kukhala mgwirizano wofanana ndipo palibe amene akuyenera kukhala ndi ulamuliro pachilichonse, ndi mgwirizano.
Limbikitsani mnzanu kuti agwirizane ndikuchitira zabwino wachibale wanuyo kwa maola ochepa popeza kusonkhana kwamabanja sikukhala motalika kwambiri. Kuti musangalale ndi mtendere wopitilira muyaya, ndikofunikira kuti muphunzitse mnzanu kufunika kophatikizana.
Kudzinyenga sikungakhale kosatha. Popeza ndi kwakanthawi kochepa chabe, anthu ambiri amatha kupsa mtima kwakanthawi.
Ngati sangakwanitse, peŵani kupezeka pamisonkhano yotere, kuphonya kanyenya waulere ndi mowa, ndi kudzipereka kwa okondedwa anu. Tonsefe nthawi ina tidzayenera kuchita zomwezo kwa okondedwa athu.
Ngati adakwanitsa kuchita zinthu zawo, musaiwale kubwezera wokondedwa wanu pantchito yabwino pambuyo pake.
Phunziro lachinayi lomwe taphunzira momwe tingakhalire bwino ndi apongozi ndi kukhala ozindikira.
Palibe chabwino chomwe chatulukira kuchokera kunkhondo yolimbana ndi banja
Chifukwa chake, muli nanu, abale, ndi achikulire komanso anzeru. Komabe, ndizosavuta kuyankhula mukakhala kuti mulibe pakati komanso malo ovuta.
Kupewa kusonkhana pabanja kumatha kuyambitsa mkwiyo, ngakhale kwa anthu omwe poyamba alibe vuto wina ndi mnzake. Ngati zinthu zikufika poti zikuchititsa manyazi, tengani anthu ena kuti nawonso atengepo mbali ndikupempha thandizo.
Umu ndi momwe banja lilili.
Onetsetsani kuti mwagwirana manja (osati kwenikweni) munthawi yonse yamavutoyi. Thandizani ndi kutetezana kuti mupewe inu kapena mnzanu kusankhidwa ndi mnzakeyo.
Zinthu zoyipa zambiri zimachitika anthu okwiya atasiyidwa pazida zawo.
Nthawi zonse kumbukirani! Gwiritsani ntchito kalasi, kuzemba, ulemu, ndi kuzindikira kuti mugwirizane ndi apongozi anu. Palibe chabwino chomwe chidzatuluke kuchokera kunkhondo banja motsutsana ndi banja. Pali milandu yambiri pomwe chidani pakati pa apongozi sichimakhala bwino. Komabe, sizitanthauza kuti sizingowonjezereka.
Pali chiyembekezo nthawi zonse kuti zinthu zidzasintha kukhala zabwino, koma zonse ndi nthawi yoyenera. Kumbali inayi, zimangotenga kusunthira kolakwika kamodzi, mawu amodzi, kapena kukoka kamodzi kuti muphulitse bomba.