Zamkati
- 1. Menya nthawi yabwino
- 2. Chibwenzi chamasana
- 3. Sinthani
- 4. Sinthanitsani chisamaliro cha ana
- 5. Pezani zaulere
- 6. Sungani ndalama usiku wamasiku anyumba
- 7. Pangani mgwirizano
- 8. Tulukani panja
- 9. Kupereka mphatso zamiyala
- 10. Dzipinduleni nokha
Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti maanja omwe amakhala ndi chizolowezi chokhala ndi zibwenzi usiku amakhala osangalala komanso olumikizana kwambiri. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa nthawi yabwino imatipangitsa kumva kulumikizidwa komanso kulumikizana kwambiri. Nthawi zokambirana ndi m'modzi-m'modzi-ndizokha ndizofunikira kuti tisunge malingaliro onse achikondiwa! Usiku wamasiku sikuyenera kukhala okwera mtengo. M'malo mwake, zosangalatsa zamtengo wapatali zitha kupezeka ndi zinthu zaulere komanso / kapena zotsika mtengo. Mukuyang'ana njira zopangitsira kuti usiku watsiku utsike mtengo? Nawa malingaliro khumi omwe akufuna kuti kulumikizana kwanu kukhale kopanda kuswa banki:
1. Menya nthawi yabwino
Pitani ku ola losangalala, nthawi zambiri 4-7 masana, pomwe ma bargains akudikirira ngati ogula, zakumwa za bar ndi pub. Ngati nthawi yanu yantchito ikulolezani, tulutsani ola limodzi koyambirira kamodzi pamwezi kapena kotala kuti mukakumane ndi mnzanuyo tsiku la 4 koloko masana. Imwani malo omwera ndi kucheza popanda zosokoneza pa ola limodzi lomweli. Simukudziwa komwe mungapite? Pali pulogalamu ya izo!
2. Chibwenzi chamasana
Madeti a chakudya chamadzulo amakhala oyamba poyerekeza ndi brunch kapena nkhomaliro. Komanso brunch ndiye chakudya chokoma kwambiri tsikulo. Sangalalani ndi chakudya chochepa kwambiri patsiku ndikusangalala ndi bonasi yowonjezera yogona nthawi!
3. Sinthani
Ikani "botolo la tsiku usiku" patebulo lanu la kukhitchini kapena poyimilira usiku ndikuyamba kudzazitsa ndi ndalama zosasinthika ndikusunga ngongole zanu zapa dollar. M'masabata angapo, mutha kukhala ndi mtanda wokwanira kuti mugwire kanema komanso / kapena kuluma pang'ono. Komanso, onani ngati banki yanu ili ndi akaunti ya "kusunga zosintha" pomwe amalemba zomwe mumachita ndikusunga ndalamazo mu akaunti ina.
4. Sinthanitsani chisamaliro cha ana
Kulipirira ana ndi chifukwa chimodzi chomwe makolo ambiri amakhala usiku; zomveka popeza osamalira amalipiritsa pakati pa $ 10-15 pa ola limodzi. Ndipo izo zimangoyenda mwachangu, kuwonjezera pa ngongole yanu yamasana usiku. M'malo mwake, sinthanitsani chisamaliro cha ana ndi makolo ena (omwe angagwiritse ntchito usiku, nawonso). Ndizosinthana kosavuta: umatuluka sabata limodzi ndipo amapitanso kwina. Izi ndizabwino chifukwa ana amakhala ndi tsiku losewera komanso / kapena tulo, ndipo simuyenera kulipira chisamaliro!
5. Pezani zaulere
Ganizirani zowonetseratu zaulere, malo ogulitsira maulendowa kapena malo owonera moŵa, malo osakondera komanso makonsati, mumasankha minda ndi zina zambiri. Kukonzekera pang'ono kungapangitse tsiku laulere kapena lotsika mtengo kukhala chokumana nacho cholemera kwambiri!
6. Sungani ndalama usiku wamasiku anyumba
Ndikulingalira pang'ono ndikukonzekereratu, mutha kukwapula nthawi yabwino osasiya zabwino zanyumba yanu. Inde, mapajama akhoza kukhala ovomerezeka masiku ovala usiku! Malingaliro ena ... khalani ndi usiku wokhazikika (monga Chitaliyana) ndi chakudya chanu, nyimbo ndi kanema mozungulira; sewerani masewera apabodi azolumikizana pamasom'pamaso ndi kuseka; khalani omasuka ndi bafa ngati spa, makandulo ndi mafuta osisita; nyenyezi poyang'ana pulogalamu kuti ikweze nyenyezi ndi magulu azisangalalo kunja kwa dziko lapansi; ndipo musangalale kudya zakudya zopatsa thanzi ndi mbale ya tchizi kapena mchere wa fondue. Kuti mulipire ndalama zochepa, mutha kukhala kuti usiku wamasana waperekedwa pakhomo panu! Kulembetsa kwamasamba kunyumba ndikofanana ndi malingaliro amtundu wa zida zoperekera chakudya ndikubwera kwathunthu ndi zochitika (ndi zida zofunikira / zinthu), mafunso oyambira chakudya ndi zokambirana.
7. Pangani mgwirizano
Zindikirani kuchotsera pazinthu, malo odyera, maulendo ndi katundu ndi ntchito. Ndipo musafulumire kuponyera makalata opanda pake ngati mapepala otsatsa malonda sabata iliyonse okhala ndi makuponi odyera. Malo ambiri amakhalanso ndi zilembo zolepheretsa anthu omwe "Amakonda" kapena "Lowani" pa Facebook ndikulembetsa mndandanda wawo wamaimelo.
8. Tulukani panja
Tulukani panja pa chakudya chanu chamadzulo (komanso chodula) komanso kachitidwe kazakanema potuluka panja kuti mukasangalale panja. Yendetsani paki yakwanuko, boma kapena dziko lonse, mukwere njinga, kupita kukawedza, pikisitiki kapena kugunda pagombe. Nthawi zambiri, madeti akunjawa sangapereke ndalama.
9. Kupereka mphatso zamiyala
Nthawi yotsatira okondedwa akufunsani zomwe mukufuna patsiku lobadwa kapena tchuthi, tsatirani mndandanda wazomwe mumayang'ana usiku. Ganizirani za satifiketi yazamphatso m'makanema, malo odyera kapena zokopa m'deralo.
10. Dzipinduleni nokha
Musalole kuti mayendedwe a ndege ndi ma kirediti kadi anu awonongeke. Onani njira zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito kuti mugule matikiti azisudzo, makhadi amphatso zodyera ndi njira zopulumukira.
Nancy Chikowa
Nancy DeVault ndiye mkonzi woyang'anira ndipo Kristen Manieri ndiye Woyambitsa / Wofalitsa wa DateNightGuide.com, gwero lolimbikitsa maanja kukonda, kuseka ndikukhala moyo wawo wabwino kwambiri limodzi ndi kusangalala komanso kukhala ndi malingaliro usiku wamasana ndikuzindikira za ubale weniweni.