Zamkati
- 1. Yambani molawirira
- 2. Pewani kukula kwamakhalidwe oyipa mwa ana
- 3. Phunzitsani ana kufunika kokomera abale
- 4. Pangani mndandanda wazomwe mukuwunika
- 5. Aphunzitseni momwe angakhalire ogwirizana
- 6. Muzikonda ana anu mofanana
- 7. Aphunzitseni kupirira
- 8. Lolani ana kukhala ndi nthawi yochuluka limodzi
- 9. Lolani ana ayang'ane wina ndi mnzake
- 10. Lolani ana anu kuti amve kukondana wina ndi mnzake
- 11. Pangani ana kukonzekera okha
- 12. Musazengereze kuyamika ana anu
- 13. Aloleni ana azisewera limodzi
- 14. Aphunzitseni kulemekezana wina ndi mnzake ndi malo omwe ali nawo
- Maganizo omaliza
Kodi ndinu kholo? Kodi muli ndi ana opitilira m'modzi? Amakondana kapena ayi? Kodi mudamvapo akuwanong'onezana kuti awopsezane? Kapena nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mikangano yomwe imayambitsa kusamvana? Kapena amagawana china chake chomwe ndi chikondi cha abale?
Mwana aliyense ali ndi umunthu.
Zomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha kusamvana nthawi zambiri zimachitika m'banja. Kuphunzitsa ana anu kukonda abale ndi alongo ndi ntchito yofunikira kwa makolo ngati inu. Chifukwa chake, inu ndi ana anu muli ndi nyumba yosangalala.
Kulera abale kuti azikondana ndikupeza njira zokulitsira chikondi pakati pa ana nthawi zina kumakhala kopweteka. Koma ndizotheka kwathunthu.
Nazi njira zokuthandizani kulera ana anu kuti azikondana.
Njira zabwino zolerera ana omwe amakondana ndikusamalirana
1. Yambani molawirira
Ngakhale mutakhala ndi achinyamata, sizinachedwe.
Komabe, ngati muli ndi mwana, mwana wakhanda, kapena mwana wamng'ono, muli ndi mwayi. Muli ndi mwayi wabwino kwambiri woyambira molawirira powaphunzitsa kukulitsa chikondi cha abale.
Aphunzitseni kufunikira kokhala bwino ndi abale awo komanso kuchitirana zabwino. Kuphatikiza apo, ana ndi mapepala opanda kanthu, ndipo amatsanzira zochita za onse owazungulira.
Chifukwa chake, mutha kudzipangira nokha chitsanzo choti ana anu azitsanzira.
2. Pewani kukula kwamakhalidwe oyipa mwa ana
Musalole kuti iwo akhale ndi makhalidwe oyipa omwe amakhudza anzawo.
Monga mwana, anthu ena kale anali chikwama chanu. Chinali chisangalalo cha mwanayo nthawiyo, koma osati kwa omwe anakhudzidwa. Kwa iwo omwe akumana ndi zomwezi, amadana kapena kudana ndi abale awo.
Akamakula, malingaliro amenewo amasintha, koma mwina samayandikira.
Chifukwa chake, musalole kuti chiwawa chikule pakati pa ana anu. Musalole kuti amenyane kapena kuchitirana zinthu zosakondana.
Akachita zinthu ngati izi, alangeni, ndipo aphunzitseni momwe angakhalire oyenera.
3. Phunzitsani ana kufunika kokomera abale
Makolo ayenera kuwakumbutsa nthawi zonse za kukhalapo kwawo. Tiziona ngati dalitso kugawana monga banja. Muthanso kupanga zolemba kuti muzitha kujambula zithunzi za ana kuyambira ali akhanda. Nthawi zoyandikira, nthawi yosewera limodzi iyenera kujambulidwa. Nthawi yakwana yoti awonenso zithunzizi, ana azikondana kwambiri.
Makolo amathanso kufunsa mafunso ang'onoang'ono pankhani yamaganizidwe awo.
Mwachitsanzo -
“Kodi mumakonda kusewera ndi mlongo / m'bale wanu? Kodi mukufuna kuchita chiyani kwa mlongo / m'bale wanu? ... “
4. Pangani mndandanda wazomwe mukuwunika
Pali zochitika zachikondi kwa ana asukulu yakusukulu kuti akhale ndi malingaliro oyenera kuyambira ali aang'ono.
Lingaliro limeneli mosakayikira lidzakhala njira yabwino kwambiri yothandizira ana kuzindikira machitidwe awo ndi mawu awo. Makolo akuyenera kugwira ntchito ndi ana awo kuti awunike malingaliro awo, omwe, kutengera kulondola, avareji, osati mulingo woyenera, zithandiza ana kuwunika zomwe achita kwa abale awo kwa tsiku limodzi kapena sabata.
Makolo ayeneranso kukhala ndi mphotho ya machitidwe abwino.
5. Aphunzitseni momwe angakhalire ogwirizana
Kuphunzitsa ana kuphunzira kukhala odzichepetsa ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yolimbikitsira chikondi pakati pa ana.
Nthawi zonse makolo ayenera kulimbikitsa ana kufunsa mafunso okhudza chilungamo.
Mwachitsanzo -
"Kodi chilungamo?". Ndipo lolani mwanayo ayankhe funso ili pamwambapa.
M'malo mokalipira komanso kukakamiza ana kuti asiye kusewera akamakangana, makolo ayenera kuwalola kuti apeze yankho labwino kwambiri kwa onse awiri.
6. Muzikonda ana anu mofanana
Kusonyeza chikondi kwa ana anu ndi njira imodzi yowaphunzitsira kukonda. Awonetseni kuti chikondi sichidzawapangitsa kumva nsanje, koma chikondi chidzawalimbikitsa kuti azitha kukhala limodzi.
Ngati akumva kuti amakondedwa, nawonso azisonyeza chikondi kwa ena.
7. Aphunzitseni kupirira
Kuleza mtima ndi khalidwe labwino ndipo ndi lofunika kulemekezedwa.
Kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino ngati amenewa nkovuta, ndipo kumafuna kudziletsa ndi kuzindikira. Makamaka kwa abale achikulire, kuleza mtima kumachepa, ndipo kukhumudwa kumatha kutenga.
Mwa kuphunzitsa kuleza mtima, ana amakhala omvetsetsa komanso ololera kwa abale awo.
8. Lolani ana kukhala ndi nthawi yochuluka limodzi
Anthu akakhala ndi nthawi yocheza limodzi, malingaliro kwa abale awo amakula ndikuwabweretsa pafupi ngati banja limodzi lalikulu, losangalala.
Mabanja amasangalala akamathera limodzi kumapeto kwa sabata. Makolo ayeneranso kusankha nthawi kumapeto kwa sabata kuti azicheza bwino ndi ana awo. Kusuntha uku kumapangitsa kukumbukira kosangalatsa kwa ana.
Imeneyi ndi njira yobweretsera anthu am'banja limodzi.
9. Lolani ana ayang'ane wina ndi mnzake
Sikuti ndimasewera okha omwe amapangitsa kuti banja lanu likhale losangalatsa komanso losangalatsa, komanso njira yoti ana azindikire nkhope za anzawo. Ngati mumamvetsetsa zowonjezereka, mudzakhala achifundo komanso kudziwa momwe mungayankhire kwa mchimwene wanu mukakhala nanu tsiku lililonse.
Lingaliro ili limathandiza ana kumvetsetsa alongo awo kwambiri ndikupewa kuthekera kokangana.
10. Lolani ana anu kuti amve kukondana wina ndi mnzake
Nthawi zonse pamakhala mzere pakati pa akulu ndi ana. Chifukwa chiyani amayi samagwiritsa ntchito nthawi imeneyi kutsindika zaubwenzi womwe ali nawo limodzi?
Makolo amatha kupanga kona kuti ana awo azisewera limodzi kapena kuwalola kuti agone limodzi kuti awone momwe angakhalire chipinda chogona. Ndi njira yothandizira ana kugawana ndikukondana kwambiri, kupewa mikangano mmoyo.
11. Pangani ana kukonzekera okha
Thandizani mwana wanu kukhala ndi maluso othetsera mavuto ndi momwe angagwirire ntchito pagulu kuti apange zisankho zabwino kwambiri limodzi. M'malo motenga TV yakutali kuti musankhe makanema omwe mumakonda, chonde phunzitsani ana anu momwe angapangire zofuna zawo monga kusinthana kuti muwone makanemawo.
Mutha kunena kuti: "Ngati mungasankhe pulogalamu yoti muwonerere, tiziwonera limodzi nthawi yamasana" kenako mulole anawo akhale okha. Ndi njira yabwinonso kuti ana asamakangane ndikukondana kwambiri.
12. Musazengereze kuyamika ana anu
Makolo sayenera kungoyamika ana awo, awadziwitseni kuti akuchita zolakwika ndikuwalamula kuti asiye.
Koma musaiwale kuwayamika akazindikira kuti ndi omvera. Mukamasewera limodzi, muyenera kundiuza kuti ndinu osangalala komanso onyada.
Chikondi cha abale chimabweretsa zabwino zambiri kwa ana.
M'tsogolomu, ana adzadziwa momwe angachepetsere ubale wawo ndi anzawo, kudziwa momwe angathetsere kusamvana moyenera, kudziwa momwe angasinthire bwino nkhawa komanso koposa zonse, kukhala osangalala nthawi zonse.
13. Aloleni ana azisewera limodzi
Sewerani ndi imodzi mwanjira zoyenera kuthandiza ana kuti azitha kukhala bwino ndi anzawo ndikupanga maubwenzi. Kuti apange script yabwino, ana ayenera kumvera zomwe anzawo akuchita, kuphatikiza malingaliro a anthu.
Seweroli ndiosangalatsanso ana akamasewera limodzi. Zimathandizanso ana kupewa kukangana m'miyoyo yawo.
14. Aphunzitseni kulemekezana wina ndi mnzake ndi malo omwe ali nawo
Malire aumwini ndiofunikira kwa anthu ambiri. Ndipo pomwe malirewo atagonjetsedwa, mikangano imachitika nthawi zambiri.
Muyenera kuphunzitsa ana anu kuti nthawi zina anthu amangofunika kukhala okha. Ndipo ngati akufuna kubwereka choseweretsa kapena katundu wina, ayenera kupempha chilolezo. Sayenera kungotenga kwa ena ndikuganiza kuti zonse zikhala bwino.
Samalani bwino moyo wanu wabanja.
Izi zithandiza ana kukhala ndi kuphunzira m'malo abwino.
Maganizo omaliza
Kulera ana omwe amakula ndikukondana sikophweka.
Imafunikira njira yayitali komanso kuleza mtima kwa makolo. Osapirira mukalakwitsa, amangokhala ana, ndipo amafunikira kuti muwatsogolere panjira yoyenera.