Zamkati
- 1. Onetsetsani za momwe mukumvera
- 2. Onetsetsani kuti akumva momwe iwonso akumvera
- 3. Ganizirani zolinga zanu zenizeni
- 4. Dzifunseni ngati ili nthawi yoyenera
- 5. Osamachita pokhapokha ngati mwakonzeka
- Kupeza satifiketi yaukwati
Pamene ukwati wanu ukuyandikira ndipo mukumvetsetsa zonse zomwe zikubwera ndikuwonetsetsa kuti tsiku lanu likuyenda popanda vuto lililonse, pali chinthu chimodzi chomwe muyenera kukhala nacho: Banja lanu satifiketi.
Kukhala ndi satifiketi yaukwati ndi komwe kumakupangitsani kukhala okwatirana mwalamulo.
Izi ndizofunikira chifukwa pali zabwino zambiri zomwe zimadza chifukwa cholumikizidwa mwalamulo.
Simungathe kusintha dzina lanu lomaliza (ngati mungafune), koma kukwatiwa kumakupangitsaninso mwayi wolandila msonkho, kuchotsera inshuwaransi yazaumoyo, maubwino a IRA ndi zina zambiri.
Koma musanathamange kupita kuofesi yanu kuti mukadziwe momwe mungapezere chiphaso chaukwati, nkofunika kukumbukira kuti ukwati ndiwofunika kwambiri.
Chifukwa chake, m'masiku omwe musanatenge chikalata chokwatirana, Nazi zinthu zisanu zomwe muyenera kukhala otsimikiza musanasaine pamizere yomwe ili ndi satifiketi, musanayang'ane momwe mungapezere satifiketi yaukwati.
1. Onetsetsani za momwe mukumvera
Mukasankha kukwatira wina, inde, muyenera kukhala otsimikiza kuti mumamukonda.
Koma muyenera kukhala otsimikiza za zochulukirapo kuposa pamenepo. Kodi mumamva ngati mumawalemekeza monga munthu aliyense? Kodi mumamva ngati mutha kuwakhulupirira ndi zonse zomwe muli komanso zonse zomwe muli nazo? Kodi mumamva ngati kulibe munthu wina padziko lapansi amene mungakonde kugawana nawo moyo wanu? Mukuwona ngati akuthandizani ndikulimbikitsani? Kodi mumakhala otetezeka mwakuthupi ndi m'maganizo nawo?
Pansi pake, mukuwona kuti uwu ndi mtundu wa munthu komanso chisankho chomwe chithandizira osati cholepheretsa moyo wanu komanso kukhala ndi moyo wabwino?
2. Onetsetsani kuti akumva momwe iwonso akumvera
Izi zati, simukuyanjana kapena kukwatirana nokha.
Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kuwonetsetsa kuti inunso muli otsimikiza za momwe mnzanu akumvera. Ngakhale mutha kuyesedwa kuti muganize kuti ali patsamba lomweli, ndiye kutchova juga komwe sikwanzeru kwambiri.
Ngakhale atakhala otanganidwa komanso otanganidwa chotani, muyenera kudziwa, popanda kukayika, kuti ali monga momwe muliri nawo. Palibe amene angapangitse banja kugwira ntchito ndi chikondi chawo komanso khama lawo lokha. Zimatengera ziwiri.
3. Ganizirani zolinga zanu zenizeni
Chinthu chimodzi chomwe mwatsoka anthu ambiri amanyalanyaza ndicho cholinga chokwatirana.
Zinthu zofunika kuchita musanalowe m'banja ndikuphatikizapo kumvetsetsa chifukwa chenicheni chokwatirana ndikupanga homuweki yanu pazinthu zovomerezeka musanakwatirane.
Cholinga chimatanthauzidwa kukhala cholinga kapena cholimbikitsira. Ndiye, ndi zolinga ziti zomwe zingakhale mbendera zofiira? Chabwino, ngati cholinga kapena chilimbikitso ndichakuti mukufuna kuthamangira kukhala ndi ana musanakalambe ", mwakhala pamavuto azachuma, mukuyesera kuthana ndi moto wakale, simukufuna kukhala omaliza mmodzi mwa anzanu kuti akhale mbeta kapena kuti mwangotopa kukhala nokha — palibe chifukwa cha zifukwa zokwanira.
Ukwati sikuyenera kuwonedwa ngati "yankho lavuto lanu".
Ukwati ndikungosintha kwaubwenzi.
Izi zati, ngati simukukwatira chifukwa choti mumakonda munthu amene muli naye ndipo mukuwona kuti ndi nthawi yoti mutenge zinthu zina kuti nonse mukhoze kukula ndikupindulitsana ... ganiziraninso zolinga zanu.
4. Dzifunseni ngati ili nthawi yoyenera
Kodi mudamvapo mawu akuti "Choyenera panthawi yolakwika ndicholakwika?"
Musanalandire chiphaso chaukwati, ndi mtengo woganizira.
Nthawi zina maukwati amayamba kukhala ovuta kuposa momwe amayenera kukhalira, koma sikuti chifukwa "sanapangirane". Ndi chifukwa chakuti akuchita zinthu nthawi yabwino kwambiri. Ngati m'modzi kapena nonse muli kusukulu (makamaka zamalamulo kapena zamankhwala), amenewo ndi mavuto ambiri.
Mungafune kudikirira mpaka mutatsala pang'ono kumaliza maphunziro anu. Ngati m'modzi wa inu apatsidwa mwayi wopita kutsidya kwa nyanja kwa miyezi ingapo ndipo sizotheka kuti winayo apite naye, maukwati akutali ndi ovuta kwambiri.
Mungafune kudikirira mpaka mutha kukhala malo omwewo. Ngati m'modzi wa inu kapena nonse muli ndi ngongole ndi mavuto anu azachuma ndiye chimodzi mwazomwe zimayambitsa kusudzulana, ichi ndi chifukwa china choyimitsira zinthu pang'ono.
Kusankha kudikirira musanalowe m'banja sikoyenera kuchita manyazi kapena manyazi.
Ndizachidziwikire kuti ndiwokhwima. Chikondi "sichichoka" tsiku limodzi. Kudikirira kwakanthawi kuti mukwaniritse mbali zina za moyo wanu kungakhale chisankho chabwino kwambiri m'banja lanu (mtsogolo) lomwe mungapange.
5. Osamachita pokhapokha ngati mwakonzeka
Tsamba limodzi lili ndi mndandanda wa mafunso opitilira 270 omwe muyenera kufunsa mnzanu musanalowe m'banja.
Ndipo pomwe poyamba munganene mumtima mwanu kuti "Ndilibe nthawi yoti ndikambirane ndi mafunso onsewa", kumbukirani kuti mukukulumbira "mpaka imfa idzatilekanitse", osati "kufikira pomwe sindidzakondanso kukwatiwa".
Chowonadi ndichakuti ngakhale akuti "Banja losangalala ndichimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri pamoyo wa 93% aku America", pali anthu ambiri otomerana omwe samakonzekereratu. Njira imodzi yochitira izi ndikulembetsa nawo upangiri usanakwatirane (makamaka opitilira 10 a iwo).
China ndikuwerenga mabuku ena okhudza ukwati (Malire a Ukwati ndi Zinthu Zomwe Ndikulakalaka Ndikadadziwa Tisanakwatirane ndizabwino kwambiri kuwerenga). Ndipo ndikulankhula ndi mabanja omwe ali osangalala komanso anzawo omwe adasudzulana kuti alandire zomwe angachite ndi zomwe sayenera kuchita.
Zinthu zonsezi zimatha kukuthandizani kudziwa ngati muli wokonzekadi kukwatiwa, kwa munthu amene mwamupanga chibwenzi komanso panthawi yomwe mukufuna kukwatirana. Kutsimikiza kuti ndinu wokonzekadi ndi chifukwa chabwino komanso chilimbikitso chachikulu chopita kukatenga satifiketi yaukwati.
Mukasankha kuti mulowemo zithandizanso kuti mukhale ndi chidziwitso chopeza chilolezo chokwatirana ndi zinthu zofunika pa chiphaso chaukwati. Ngakhale chiphaso chaukwati ndi chikalata chokwatilana atakwatirana, chiphaso chaukwati ndi chikalata chomwe nthawi zambiri chimafunikira ngati anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi akufuna kukwatirana.
Kupeza satifiketi yaukwati
Kwa anthuwa, omwe ali otsimikiza kuti asankha kuyenda paguwalo, ndibwino kuti ayambe ndi phazi lamanja.
Kupeza satifiketi yaukwati kumatsimikizira dziko lapansi kuti tsopano mwakwatirana mwalamulo.
Pakati pa chisangalalo cha kukonzekera ukwati, maanja ayenera kudziphunzitsa okha mafunso ofunika monga komwe angalandire chiphaso chaukwati, momwe angalandire chiphaso chaukwati, njira zofunsira satifiketi yaukwati, komanso momwe angalembetse chikalata chokwatirana kapena kulembetsa ukwati.