Zamkati
- 1. Werengani pamodzi
- 2. Chitani zaluso
- 3. Imbani nyimbo
- 4. Masewera a pabwalo akhoza kukhala osangalatsa!
- 5. Kuyenda maulendo ataliatali limodzi
- 6. Khalani ndi pikiniki
- 7. Sewerani masewera limodzi
- 8. Phunzitsani ana anu zinthu zatsopano zosangalatsa
- Maganizo Omaliza
Pezani njira zopangira kucheza ndi ana anu kuti mukhale ndi mgwirizano wolimba pakati pa makolo ndi ana womwe ungakhale moyo wonse.
Kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza ndi ana anu kumathandizira kukumbukira zokumbukira zapabanja. Ana anu azikumbukira mphindi izi akamakula ndikuyamba mabanja awoawo. Kugwirizana ndi ana anu kumatha kukhala kosavuta monga kuwathandizira homuweki kapena kuchitira limodzi ntchito zapakhomo.
Koma, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti ndikofunikira kulumikizana ndi ana anu.
Palinso zochitika zina zosavuta koma zosangalatsa zomwe nonse mungayamikire moyo wonse. A Selene Diong, wamkulu wa Sparkanauts akufotokoza kuti "Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kumathandizira ana kukulitsa maluso, monga kugwirira ntchito limodzi, kudziika pachiwopsezo, kudzidalira, kudzidalira ndi zina zambiri zomwe zingawapindulitse kwambiri pamaphunziro awo a moyo wonse."
Mwa kulola ana anu kukhala ana ndikulowa nawo pachisangalalo, mudzatha kusewera mosangalala ndikupanga ubale wapamtima nawo.
Pemphani kuti muphunzire zochitika zosavuta komanso zosangalatsa kuti mugwirizane ndi mwana wanu kunyumba
1. Werengani pamodzi
Pangani kuwerenga kukhala kosangalatsa mwa kupeza tsamba lomwe mutha kuwerengera ana anu mokweza ndikusandutsa zochitika zokambirana. Mutha kuwafunsa zomwe zikuchitika motsatira nkhaniyo. Mutha kuwafunsanso zomwe akanachita ngati akanakhala kuti ali motere.
Ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yodziwira mwana wanu ndikuwona momwe awonera dziko lapansi.
Yambitsani kusangalala ndikupangitsa kuti izisewera kwambiri popanga phokoso la nyama komanso zomveka mukamanena nkhaniyo.
Mukamawerenga buku lomwe amakonda, mutha kumaseweranso pang'ono. Ndipo, iyi ndiye njira yabwino kwambiri yolumikizirana ndi ana anu.
2. Chitani zaluso
Kodi mumapanga bwanji ubale wolimba ndi mwana?
Kuchita zaluso ndi ntchito zamanja ndi njira yothandizira kulumikizana ndi ana anu. Ndichimodzi mwamalingaliro osavuta komanso osangalatsa kulumikizana ndi ana anu.
Gulirani ana anu mabuku owongolerako ndipo muwafunse za tsiku lawo momwe mudzadzaze ndi mitundu yowoneka bwino.
Mutha kumasula mbali yaukadaulo ya mwana wanu ndikuwaphunzitsa kusakaniza mitundu ndikupanga shading.
3. Imbani nyimbo
Mutha kupanga chisangalalo chomangiririka posewera limodzi nyimbo zomwe mumakonda ndikuimba kwinaku mukuvina.
Kapenanso, mutha kujambula CD yamafilimu omwe amakonda kwambiri ana anu komanso kupanikizana nthawi yayitali.
4. Masewera a pabwalo akhoza kukhala osangalatsa!
Kulumikizana ndi ana anu powaponyera zovuta pamasewera ndikuwalola kuti apambane.
M'malo mwake, masewera a board amatha kuthandiza ana anu kukulitsa luso la masamu ndikuphunzira zofunikira monga kudikirira moleza mtima nthawi yawo ndikugawana. Muthanso kupikisana nawo zomwe zidzawathandize mtsogolo kuti aphunzire momwe angakhalire opambana.
5. Kuyenda maulendo ataliatali limodzi
Imeneyi ndi ntchito yabwino kwambiri kuti inu ndi mwana wanu mukhale oyenerera. Sichiyenera kukhala ngati mawonekedwe oyenda kapena kuthamanga. Mutha kungoyenda mozungulira limodzi ndikuyenda galu kapena kuyenda kupaki mukawona zachilengedwe.
Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti kusangalala ndi chilengedwe limodzi kumakulitsa thanzi lanu komanso thanzi la ana anu, ndipo imawerengedwa kuti ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yolumikizirana ndi mwana wanu. Komanso, zimathandiza kuchepetsa nkhawa kuti nonse mutsimikizire kuti mupita kunyumba ndikumwetulira.
6. Khalani ndi pikiniki
Sikuti mapiknikiki amachitikira kunja. Kunja kukutentha kwambiri kuti mukayende, konzani m'nyumba momwe mungapezeko zakudya zokoma tiyi mukamacheza. Mutha kufunsanso ana anu kuti azidolera zidole ndi zoseweretsa zawo kuti zizikhala nawo.
Iyi ndi njira imodzi yosavuta yolumikizira mwana wanu.
7. Sewerani masewera limodzi
Kulola ana kukhala ana kumatanthauza kuwalola kuti azisangalala ndi nthawi yosewera.
Kusewera ndiye chilankhulo chachikulu cha ana.
Chifukwa chake, ngati mukufuna kulumikizana, muyenera kuchita nawo zosewerera kuti mukhale ndi ubale wolimba ndi ana anu.
Mukamasewera ndi ana anu, amakhala ndiubwenzi wapamtima nanu ndipo amakuwonani ngati mnzake wofikirika yemwe angadalire. Kafukufuku akuwonetsanso kuti pali maubwino ena akusewera limodzi ndi ana anu monga zocheperako za nkhawa zakudzipatula kwa ana ndikuchepetsa kusungulumwa.
Peter Gray, Ph.D., pulofesa wofufuza ku Boston College komanso wolemba buku la Free to Learn (Basic Books) ndi Psychology akuti "Sewerani konse kukhala ntchito; ziyenera kukhala zosangalatsa nthawi zonse.
Sewerani, potanthauzira, ndi chinthu chomwe mukufuna kuchita; ndiye ngati 'umasewera' ndi mwana wako osafuna, ndiye kuti sukusewera. ”
8. Phunzitsani ana anu zinthu zatsopano zosangalatsa
Ana ndi zinthu zodabwitsa.
Angakonde kuti muwaphunzitse china chatsopano komanso chosangalatsa. Kupatula ntchito zapafupifupi monga kuyala pogona kapena kutsuka atasokoneza, aphunzitseni zinthu zochepa monga kuphika, kulima, kapena kusoka. Sichiyenera kukhala chachikulu.
Pangani kukhala kosavuta komanso kodzaza ndi kuseka kuti zikuthandizeni kulumikizana ndi ana anu.
Nayi kanema yomwe ikuwonetsa kuti mwana angaphunzitsidwe mosavuta momwe angakhalire dimba:
Maganizo Omaliza
Mukamagwira ntchito yosangalatsa komanso yosangalatsa, ana anu azitha kukulitsa maluso ndi maluso osiyanasiyana. Mwanjira imeneyi, kuphunzira kumasangalatsa! Koposa zonse, akuchita izi ndi munthu wofunikira kwambiri padziko lapansi kwa iwo-inu, kholo lawo.
Kupyolera muzochita izi za kulumikiza kholo ndi mwana, mudzatha kukhazikitsa ubale wolimba ndikulola ana anu kukula kwathunthu.Mndandanda uli pamwambapa ndi zina chabe mwa zinthu zambirimbiri zomwe mungachite kuti muzigwirizana ndi ana anu.
Mungakhale okondwa kudziwa kuti njira zosangalatsa, zotsika mtengo, komanso zosavuta kucheza ndi ana anu ndizosatha. Chifukwa chake pangani izi zichitike lero!