Zamkati
- 1. Ndimadzikonda
- 2. Ndikufuna kukhala wosangalala
- 3. Kuwatchula mayina
- 4. Nthawi zonse ndimadana nawo tsitsi / mawu / thupi lawo
- 5. Ndipeza wina wabwino
Kutha kwa banja kungakhale chisankho chovulaza kwambiri.
Anthu ambiri amatha kutuluka mwachizolowezi, komabe, kutha kwa chibwenzi kumatha kubweretsa kufooka kwa chitetezo chamthupi, malingaliro olakwika, komanso kugona tulo. Ali mkati mwa kutha kwa banja, ngakhale anthu omwe amalimbikira ntchito komanso olimbikitsidwa amakhala ndi nthawi yovuta yopitilira ndi moyo wawo.
Tsopano panthaŵi yothetsa banja, mwina munali mutakhumudwa ndipo mwina munali ndi maganizo ofuna kudzipha pang'ono; makamaka ngati mumakonda kwambiri munthuyo. Komabe, malingaliro opatukanawa sakakuvutitsaninso, muyenera kusintha malingaliro ena abwino omwe angakuthandizeni kupita patsogolo.
Ngati mukumana ndi kutha kwa banja ndipo muyenera kudzinyamula nokha muyenera kudzikumbutsa mobwerezabwereza za malingaliro awa:
1. Ndimadzikonda
Izi ndizosangalatsa komanso zoseketsa koma zimatidalira, izi zimagwira ntchito.
Kudzikonda ndikofunika kwambiri chifukwa kumapeto kwa tsiku ngakhale atakhala ndani ngati mumadzikonda nokha, ndiye kuti palibe amene angakutsitseni.
Mukuyankha mlandu pazisankho ndi zochita zanu komanso zotsatira za izi.
Ngati mumadzikonda nokha, mudzatha kuwongolera momwe mumamvera ndipo simudzayang'anitsitsa chitsiru china chomwe chinasiyana nanu pa meseji.
2. Ndikufuna kukhala wosangalala
Tsopano, izi zitha kuwoneka ngati lingaliro lina lopusa komanso funso losayankhula ngati ndani amene safuna kukhala wosangalala? Koma vuto masiku ano ndikuti anthu ambiri omwe athetsa chibwenzi safuna kukhala achimwemwe. Amalola zinthu zazing'ono kuti ziwakhumudwitse ndikuyenda mozungulira ndi mkwiyo wochepa kwambiri.
Amakwiya ndi zinthu zazing'ono chifukwa amaiwala kukhala achimwemwe.
Kapenanso safuna kusangalala. Chifukwa chake kudzikumbutsa za kukhala wokondwa komanso kuyesa kumwetulira kungakupatseni chisangalalo mumtima chomwe mukufuna. Kukhala wachimwemwe kungakuthandizeni kupitilirabe m'njira yathanzi.
3. Kuwatchula mayina
Tsopano sitikufuna kutemberera konse, koma nthawi zina kugwiritsa ntchito mawu oyipa kumatha kukhala kwabwino kwa inu.
Kulumbirira mnzako kuti athetse banja lanu ndikuwatchula mayina amitundu yonse kumatha kukupatsani chisangalalo choposa china chilichonse. Mutha kunong'oneza, kuganiza kapena kufuula koma kuzisiya zonse zithandizira kutonthoza ululu.
4. Nthawi zonse ndimadana nawo tsitsi / mawu / thupi lawo
Kumbukirani chinthu chokhumudwitsa kwambiri chokhudza wina wanu wamkulu chomwe chimakusowetsani mtendere, koma simunavomereze nokha kuyambira pomwe mumamukonda.
Popeza simukukhalanso limodzi, ndi nthawi yoti muthane ndi dothi. Ikani zikopa zanu zachikondi ndikudzifunseni zomwe zakukondweretsani kwa iye. Ngakhale pali china chaching'ono ngati chala chake chomwe chakukwiyitsani, chivomerezeni. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuzindikira kuti wakale wanu sanali wangwiro monga mukuganizira.
Cholakwika ichi chidzakuthandizani kuti mupite patsogolo.
5. Ndipeza wina wabwino
Tsopano, mawu awa atha kukhala ovuta kwambiri kwa inu kunena makamaka mukadakhala kuti mumakhulupirira kuti wakale ndi wokondedwa wanu. Ndikhulupirireni, aliyense adakhalapo, ndipo mawuwa atha kukhala chinthu chovuta kwambiri kunena komanso chofunikira kwambiri.
Dzikumbutseni nokha kuti inde, mudzakumana ndi wina wabwinoko, izi ndizosapeweka. Pakatha miyezi inayi kapena chaka kuchokera pano, mudzayang'ana phewa lanu ndikupeza munthu wabwino akukudikirirani. Munthuyu adzakhala wokoma mtima komanso wachikondi komanso wokulirapo.
Adzakhala osiyana kwambiri ndi wakale wanu, ndipo simudzakumbukiranso zakale. Chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kuti mudzikumbutse zomwe mukuyenera.
Mumadzikumbutsa nokha zamtsogolo ndikukumbukira kuti ndinu woyenera kuchita zambiri osakhazikika pazinthu zina zochepa.
Lingaliro lofunikira kwambiri ndikamachoka pakubanja.
Kuti athane ndi kusweka mtima, muyenera kusintha momwe mukuganizira. Izi sizitanthauza kuti momwe mukuganizira zolakwika, zimangotanthauza kuti muyenera kudzisokoneza munjira yomwe wakale sakhala m'maganizo mwanu.
Kuganizira zinthu zomwe zatchulidwa m'nkhaniyi kumakupangitsani kukhala osangalala komanso kupita patsogolo m'njira yathanzi. Onetsetsani kuti mukudzikumbutsa nthawi ndi nthawi kuti mukuyenera chisangalalo chonse padziko lapansi ndipo posachedwa mupitilira nthawi yovutayi ya moyo wanu.